Agree on Your
Commitment Level

Couples in long-distance relationships
know they’re taking a risk, not to
mention making a few sacrifices. But if
you see a real future for the two of you,
the sacrifices won’t seem to matter. Still,
before you get involved in a long-
distance relationship, there are a few
things you have to establish. Are you
exclusive or are you seeing other
people? Don’t assume that it’s one or
the other if you’ve never discussed it,
especially if you’re looking to keep
things one-on-one. “With long-distance
relationships, you need to have a
detailed, intimate conversation,
including whether the connection is
monogamous or open,” “Confirming the
level of commitment will help to avoid
unnecessary jealousy issues and fights.”
If you think this is the one, get ready for
some hard, but hopefully rewarding,
work. “The amount of time couples are
able to maintain a long-distance
relationship really depends upon how
they nurture it,”

Don't Keep Secrets

Honesty is paramount to any relationship,
but especially one that’s maintained from
different cities, states, even countries. It’s
crucial to be forthcoming -- especially
about your own insecurities. As a matter of
fact, revealing what makes you anxious can
lead to improvements in the relationship, as
well as a greater level of sensitivity from
your partner. “Call when you get home from
a night out, and tell your significant other, ‘I
really wish you were here,’ Avoid
constantly talking about one person your
faraway mate may see as a romantic threat.
“And don't kid yourself,” “Spending all of
your time with one person can easily lead to
temptation, so make sure you hang out with
lots of people.”

Surprise each other

Routine is actually a good thing when it
comes to long-distance relationships. You
can look forward to your next conversation
or visit because you know exactly when it’s
going to happen. But every now and then,
step up the romance a bit. That means
calling unexpectedly and “upping the
physical anticipation with [phone] sex and
saucy email banter,” But don’t invest your
money in flowers: “Surprise visits are the
best gifts you can give.”

Schedule Daily Communication

“Speaking to someone on a daily basis is
what keeps the conversation flowing.
Sharing the minutiae of each other's daily
lives is what keeps a relationship strong
and thriving,” With email, IM, texting, Skype
and the good old-fashioned telephone,
there’s no excuse not to..... http://feelgoodstuffs..com/2014/07/how-to-have-lasting-long-distance.html?m=1