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12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by feelgoodstuffs(m): 10:40am On Jul 26, 2014
Breaking up is never easy ( especially if
it’s not your decision ), but oftentimes it
is necessary. Perhaps it’s a matter of
growing apart or falling out of love.
Perhaps one or both of you just aren’t
into each other anymore. In extreme
cases, perhaps the relationship has
become emotionally and/or physically
abusive, alternating between cold, sullen
resentment and overt hostility.
People stay in unsatisfying and/or
toxic relationships for a variety of
reasons: fear of being alone, fear of
change, the comfort of the familiar vs.
the fear of the unknown, financial
reasons, children, religious beliefs,
etc. We tell ourselves it’s not that bad
or things will get better as a reason ( i.e.,
excuse) not to make a difficult, but
positive change. Unhappiness in your
primary relationship affects every area
of your life—physical and mental health,
career and other relationships.
Below are some strong signs that it’s
time to end your current relationship:

1. If you’ve been hurt physically.
Ignore excuses and apologies; if violence
has surfaced, it will surface again. Get
out at the very first strike. This goes for
men, too. If your partner, pushes, kicks,
shoves or slaps you and/or throw things
at you; GET OUT. Physical violence isn’t
acceptable from either sex.

2. When you’re totally incompatible.
If your partner’s dream is to travel the
road as a wandering musician and
you’re a city person with ambitions, one
or both of you will probably be unhappy
if you stay together. Relationships have
a better chance at being successful with
people whom we share similar values
and goals.

3. When he or she isn’t even close to
your fantasy.
You may be tempted to stay with
someone just because they’re available
and willing, but this is..... http://feelgoodstuffs..com/2014/07/12-signs-you-should-break-up-with-your.html?m=1

Re: 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by xtratagem(m): 11:23am On Jul 26, 2014
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Re: 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by ashhascash: 1:59pm On Jul 26, 2014
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Re: 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by Swiftboy(m): 2:16pm On Jul 26, 2014
Love conquer all!
Re: 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by Mskrisx(f): 5:15pm On Jul 26, 2014
@op I agree with you especially on the violence part in most cases you see a lady that's always being beaten to a pulp by a man and all she keeps saying is I love him just because maybe he has apologised for beating her and he comes back with the promise of won't do it again. But I laugh at these kinda ladies..

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Re: 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by pendusky(m): 6:22pm On Jul 26, 2014
feelgoodstuffs:
Breaking up is never easy ( especially if
it’s not your decision ), but oftentimes it
is necessary. Perhaps it’s a matter of
growing apart or falling out of love.
Perhaps one or both of you just aren’t
into each other anymore. In extreme
cases, perhaps the relationship has
become emotionally and/or physically
abusive, alternating between cold, sullen
resentment and overt hostility.
People stay in unsatisfying and/or
toxic relationships for a variety of
reasons: fear of being alone, fear of
change, the comfort of the familiar vs.
the fear of the unknown, financial
reasons, children, religious beliefs,
etc. We tell ourselves it’s not that bad
or things will get better as a reason ( i.e.,
excuse) not to make a difficult, but
positive change. Unhappiness in your
primary relationship affects every area
of your life—physical and mental health,
career and other relationships.
Below are some strong signs that it’s
time to end your current relationship:

1. If you’ve been hurt physically.
Ignore excuses and apologies; if violence
has surfaced, it will surface again. Get
out at the very first strike. This goes for
men, too. If your partner, pushes, kicks,
shoves or slaps you and/or throw things
at you; GET OUT. Physical violence isn’t
acceptable from either sex.

2. When you’re totally incompatible.
If your partner’s dream is to travel the
road as a wandering musician and
you’re a city person with ambitions, one
or both of you will probably be unhappy
if you stay together. Relationships have
a better chance at being successful with
people whom we share similar values
and goals.

3. When he or she isn’t even close to
your fantasy.
You may be tempted to stay with
someone just because they’re available
and willing, but this is..... http://feelgoodstuffs..com/2014/07/12-signs-you-should-break-up-with-your.html?m=1
just breaking up with ur gf or bf doesn't mean you should tell the world why they should follow ur style okay ?
Re: 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by iammodel(m): 6:34pm On Jul 26, 2014
Re: 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jul 26, 2014
Swiftboy: Love conquer all!
Battery inclusive, okwaya undecided grin grin
Re: 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by jericco1(m): 7:21pm On Jul 26, 2014
Signs I see only three shïte where are the rest?
Re: 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by Swiftboy(m): 8:37pm On Jul 26, 2014
chimkaire: Battery inclusive, okwaya undecided grin grin
wetin you talk? undecided
Re: 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by shox(m): 8:51pm On Jul 26, 2014
I think when starting a relationship.each party has different interest at heart. A guy may date a girl for sex only and the girl may be thinking otherwise. Different intentions of both parties may ruin relationship...

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Re: 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Spouse by feelgoodstuffs(m): 9:51pm On Jul 26, 2014
shox: I think when starting a relationship.each party has different interest at heart. A guy may date a girl for sex only and the girl may be thinking otherwise. Different intentions of both parties may ruin relationship...
Swiftboy: wetin you talk? undecided
true bro

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