People have various characters and attitudes

Nilx:
Well, Seems I want to quit the introvert of a thing but the more I enjoy the solitude in my loneliness........ I just want to be left alone!!!!

well just balance it like I would always say. Do you. Do not over stretch yourself.

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Hello my nairaland barrister

I need advice on how to get divorced from the man for whom i have two children and from who i have seperated for 3 years running. How easy and quick can one get it done, and the cost ?

Thanks for your anticipated useful input.

Drella:


It's the one you don't know

I want to know this mr Nigeria

I have got some few problems and yes, those are problem but not mine though. People think I give a Bleep about them or whatever they decided to say behind me, well for the few that care to know which I don’t want them to know, Idgaf about whatever you want to say about me...... so fuçk off you fukkers.

Not you my nairaland fams

After going through a few pages on this thread, I now know what I am, an INTROVERT!

Momcherry:


After going through a few pages on this thread, I now know what I am, an INTROVERT!

Lol. Just like that?

midasbliss:


Lol. Just like that?

Just like that o.
Like, I just like my space and privacy, I don't like visitors, I don't like making calls, receiving calls sef na wahala. The only calls I like picking are calls from hubby and kids.

Many of the things I've read here applies to me.
My sisters are tired of complaining

Nilx:
Well, Seems I want to quit the introvert of a thing but the more I enjoy the solitude in my loneliness........ I just want to be left alone!!!!

Is there a way you can quit being you? Lemme know, cuz I have tried but I still find myself being ME.

My sister is the opposite of me, I tried to imitate her but failed miserably.

phenase:
I am introvert and married an extrovert person. It is not easy at times but have been doing my best to balanced the two.

As an introvert, I feels more better expressing myself more in writing.

Yes, that's one thing I can't let go. While reading or writing, I get lost in it. Sometimes I feel incomplete when I don't do it.

Its hard to have a friend or spouse has extrovert because to me it's as if I am trying to change them or they are trying to change me.

Had a nasty breakup because of this, to him I wasn't doing my best. He wanted to change and control me. His kind of friends werent the type I would keep but I still try to make it work. I tried to go out even if all I want to do is have a date with my bed, with a good novel and phil collins playing in the background.

I love being an introvert, saves me from unnecessary stress.


Are introvert sentimental, emotional?

Totiemide:


Is there a way you can quit being you? Lemme know, cuz I have tried but I still find myself being ME.

My sister is the opposite of me, I tried to imitate her but failed miserably.

I guess there’s no way cuz I have tried literally everything, even including things that are detrimental to my health. I quit trying though.

I guess the only best thing you can is just to improve yourself. Become the best version of yourself, try to embrace your personality.

Nilx:



I guess there’s no way cuz I have tried literally everything, even including things that are detrimental to my health. I quit trying though.

I guess the only best thing you can is just to improve yourself. Become the best version of yourself, try to embrace your personality.

Thanks. My personality is already embraced with open arms.. Don't give a hoot on what others think of me. Enjoy the rest of your day

Totiemide:


Yes, that's one thing I can't let go. While reading or writing, I get lost in it. Sometimes I feel incomplete when I don't do it.

Its hard to have a friend or spouse has extrovert because to me it's as if I am trying to change them or they are trying to change me.

Had a nasty breakup because of this, to him I wasn't doing my best. He wanted to change and control me. His kind of friends werent the type I would keep but I still try to make it work. I tried to go out even if all I want to do is have a date with my bed, with a good novel and phil collins playing in the background.

I love being an introvert, saves me from unnecessary stress.


Are introvert sentimental, emotional?

Yes they are.

phenase:


Yes they are.

Alright. Just wanted to be sure. Thanks

please guys, I'm in that spot that makes little thing seem mighty. Can a kind hearted fello help me with a token airtime for data? I'll deeply appreciate. I use it in looking for job vacancy and sending my c.v via email. What little money I had have gone to feeding. Please don't ignore. 200-300 airtel will go a long way. Thanks as you consider me and ask for my number.

Modified.

080, eight, two, 4, zero, four, 0, three, 9.

The right person won't try to change who u are



Are introvert sentimental, emotional? [/quote]

Well! Well!! Well!!!
Finally at home with people of like minds/nature. So good to be here.
Hello everyone!!!

Momcherry:



Just like that o.
Like, I just like my space and privacy, I don't like visitors, I don't like making calls, receiving calls sef na wahala. The only calls I like picking are calls from hubby and kids.

Many of the things I've read here applies to me.
My sisters are tired of complaining

You is me, me is you

Khaysee:
People have various characters and attitudes

Sadly, me and so many other people out there

I wish I had this privacy and this is the moment I needed it most. I’m tired of this inversion of privacy. I’m tired of the light, I need more darkness in my secluded place...... gosh

Happy new year introverts, been a while since I have been here.

I've been an introvert since secondary school days. At a time my classmates were were complaining to my seat-mates. I don't talk much, I don't make friends beyond the moment, I don't even like someone greeting me past once or twice a day. I like been indoors and doing my own things.....etc. most times I've tried to fight the lifestyle thinking maybe something was wrong with me, but I couldn't. I had peace when I found out there are other people like me with these same traits and more. I've decided to live with my myself, it's not intentional. It's normal being an introvert.

Mail me to add you to the Introverts Whatsapp group, abeg come with contents o

Too much of introversion is bad, especially when it comes with lack of social skills like networking and public speaking.

I'm an introvert: I can play and enjoy myself alone, always indoors, few friends and running away from the spotlight.

I have lost out on lot of opportunities just because I couldn't stand up and utter two to three sentences. One of such is when we had a representatives of WHO visit my secondary school. An assembly of all students was held for them to address us. One of the representatives asked a question about hygene. The assembly was silent, I knew the answer but I was scared to speak up. So I told my classmate the answer, he gave the answer and guess what! He won a LAPTOP!

I went home crying and thereafter made a conscious decision to develop myself. Today, I'm still introverted with more improved social skills. I can relate well with people, address a gathering without little or no fright.

On the positive side, introversion has saved me from troubles and rejections. However, it encourages you to remain in your comfort zone which is bad for growth.

Momcherry:



Just like that o.
Like, I just like my space and privacy, I don't like visitors, I don't like making calls, receiving calls sef na wahala. The only calls I like picking are calls from hubby and kids.

Many of the things I've read here applies to me.
My sisters are tired of complaining

You are a psychopath. You need medical attention

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toujurs:
You are a psychopath. You need medical attention

I think you need it more.
Hope you're not in medical field or planning to go into, because you'll fail woefully!

Momcherry:



I think you need it more.
Hope you're not in medical field or planning to go into, because you'll fail woefully!

Read the symptoms you mentioned again, i think you are about going mad! Please visit a psychiatrist at yabaleft. To help you on supplements, and tips on how to socialize so you can regain your sanity. Thank me later

toujurs:
Read the symptoms you mentioned again, i think you are about going mad! Please visit a psychiatrist at yabaleft. To help you on supplements, and tips on how to socialize so you can regain your sanity. Thank me later

Ewu socialize!

It's that how your m*ther's madness started? Poor thing ended up birthing even a more mentally deranged being for a son

Anumpam!

BunbleBee:
Too much of introversion is bad, especially when it comes with lack of social skills like networking and public speaking.

I'm an introvert: I can play and enjoy myself alone, always indoors, few friends and running away from the spotlight.

I have lost out on lot of opportunities just because I couldn't stand up and utter two to three sentences. One of such is when we had a representatives of WHO visit my secondary school. An assembly of all students was held for them to address us. One of the representatives asked a question about hygene. The assembly was silent, I knew the answer but I was scared to speak up. So I told my classmate the answer, he gave the answer and guess what! He won a LAPTOP!

I went home crying and thereafter made a conscious decision to develop myself. Today, I'm still introverted with more improved social skills. I can relate well with people, address a gathering without little or no fright.

On the positive side, introversion has saved me from troubles and rejections. However, it encourages you to remain in your comfort zone which is bad for growth.

You have just mixed introversion with shyness. An Introvert chooses not to speak over reasons other than fear or low self esteem. Although I do understand that the two are somehow intertwined. Most Introverts need to work on that shy part of themselves.