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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Evolutionism: 9:09pm On Jul 08, 2024
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Motiseans: 8:31pm On Jul 20, 2024
Pls o I am an ntrovert but something strange and bizarre is happening to me people can actually hear my thoughts and they can read my mind I am scared af and I want this to stop I keep hearing the voice of two women talking about what is happening in my life I don’t know if it is true or not but I swear to God I need help they voice keep reassuring me that nobody will help me and it say I should join a cult I don’t know what to do
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Motiseans: 8:33pm On Jul 20, 2024
Pls o I am an introvert but something strange and bizarre is happening to me people can actually hear my thoughts and they can read my mind I am scared af and I want this to stop I keep hearing the voice of two women talking about what is happening in my life I don’t know if it is true or not but I swear to God I need help they voice keep reassuring me that nobody will help me and it say I should join a cult I don’t know what to do
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Suicideboy: 8:40pm On Jul 20, 2024
Motiseans:
Pls o I am an introvert but something strange and bizarre is happening to me people can actually hear my thoughts and they can read my mind I am scared af and I want this to stop I keep hearing the voice of two women talking about what is happening in my life I don’t know if it is true or not but I swear to God I need help they voice keep reassuring me that nobody will help me and it say I should join a cult I don’t know what to do


You can rope yourself 🙏🥺

Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Giftcelestine(m): 10:41pm On Jul 24, 2024
I swear
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by MHCNL: 11:47am On Jul 28, 2024
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by SidiBenz77: 6:34pm On Jul 29, 2024
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Yea actually, except that I'm deeply bothered about failure!!
The thought of ending up a failure makes the veins in my skull erupts to explode.
I read ur story and I was impressed.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by tommyking007: 9:51pm On Aug 01, 2024
The Quiet Power of Introverts: Embracing Inner Strengths

In a world that often celebrates extroversion, the quiet power of introverts can be easily overlooked. Derived from the Latin words "intro-" meaning "inward" and "vertere" meaning "turning," the term introvert describes individuals who tend to turn inward mentally. These reflective souls find solace and energy in solitary pursuits, often avoiding large groups and bustling social gatherings. But make no mistake—introverts possess a unique array of strengths that can lead to profound contributions in both personal and professional realms.

Characteristics of Introverts
Introverts are often perceived as shy or reserved, but this is a simplification. Their inward focus translates to a rich inner life filled with deep thoughts and creativity. Here are some key characteristics:

Thoughtfulness: Introverts are often deep thinkers and excellent listeners. They take the time to understand complex situations before offering their input.
Creativity: Many introverts channel their energy into creative pursuits. Their reflective nature allows them to explore new ideas and perspectives.
Independence: Introverts are self-sufficient and comfortable being alone, which enables them to work independently and with great focus.
Thriving Socially: A Different Approach
Navigating social situations can be challenging for introverts, but it’s all about finding the right balance. Here are some strategies:

Quality Over Quantity: Introverts often prefer a few deep, meaningful relationships over a wide social network. Prioritizing quality interactions can make socializing more enjoyable and less draining.
Setting Boundaries: It’s essential for introverts to recognize their need for alone time and set boundaries accordingly. This could mean scheduling downtime after a social event or finding a quiet space to recharge during gatherings.
Leverage Listening Skills: Introverts’ natural listening abilities can make them great conversationalists. By focusing on listening and asking thoughtful questions, they can build stronger connections without feeling overwhelmed.
Professional Strengths: Quiet Leaders
In the professional world, introverts can excel in various roles by leveraging their unique strengths:

Deep Focus: Introverts often thrive in environments that require focus and concentration. They excel in roles that involve detailed analysis, problem-solving, and creative thinking.
Empathetic Leadership: Introverts can be highly effective leaders. Their empathetic nature and ability to listen can foster strong team cohesion and trust.
Innovation: With their reflective approach, introverts can drive innovation. They often think outside the box, bringing fresh perspectives to the table.
Famous Introverts: Impactful Contributions
Some of the world’s most influential figures have been introverts, proving that quietness is not a hindrance but a different form of strength. Here are a few notable introverts:

Albert Einstein: The renowned physicist was known for his solitary and reflective nature, which allowed him to develop groundbreaking theories in science.
J.K. Rowling: The brilliant mind behind the Harry Potter series, Rowling’s introverted tendencies enabled her to create a rich, imaginative world that has captivated millions.
Bill Gates: The co-founder of Microsoft, Gates’ introverted and analytical nature helped him to revolutionize the tech industry.
Embracing Introversion
Introverts bring a quiet strength to the table, one that is incredibly valuable in a world that often prioritizes extroverted traits. By understanding and embracing their unique characteristics, introverts can navigate social situations, thrive in their careers, and make meaningful contributions to society. Whether you are an introvert or an extrovert, recognizing the power of introspection and reflection can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling life.

So here’s to the introverts—the quiet thinkers, the deep listeners, and the innovative creators. Your inward focus and reflective nature are not just strengths; they are superpowers waiting to be unleashed.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by thesicilian: 6:45am On Aug 08, 2024
I'm surprised that an introverts thread will reach so many pages. Thought everyone will just sit down and be looking at one another grin

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by theenchanter: 6:28pm On Aug 09, 2024
thesicilian:
I'm surprised that an introverts thread will reach so many pages. Thought everyone will just sit down and be looking at one another grin
introverts are more vocal on SM than in real life.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by thesicilian: 8:21pm On Aug 09, 2024
theenchanter:
introverts are more vocal on SM than real life.
That's so true
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by psylliumhusk1: 8:05pm On Sep 03, 2024
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by psylliumhusk1: 8:10pm On Sep 03, 2024
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Kinesiology: 2:29pm On Sep 16, 2024
I'm sure this is a safe space to rant...

On my way back home I bumped into a lady in a public transport and she was the only person there and immediately I entered, we both looked at each other, I greeted her and she replied. Looking at her, she was pretty and had a very calm face with glasses on. She was definitely someone I would love to start a convo with. But I couldn't. Different thoughts just coming to my head..how do I start, where do I start from, which question will be appropriate to ask.

Before I knew it, bus was already full and from there on, I knew it a no no.

And it made me to start thinking that with this kind of lifestyle, one will be prone to miss so many opportunities, just because you can't speak up. Imaging seeing someone you like, and you cannot be brave to start a conversation.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Jack273: 3:31pm On Sep 16, 2024
Kinesiology:
I'm sure this is a safe space to rant...

On my way back home I bumped into a lady in a public transport and she was the only person there and immediately I entered, we both looked at each other, I greeted her and she replied. Looking at her, she was pretty and had a very calm face with glasses on. She was definitely someone I would love to start a convo with. But I couldn't. Different thoughts just coming to my head..how do I start, where do I start from, which question will be appropriate to ask.

Before I knew it, bus was already full and from there on, I knew it a no no.

And it made me to start thinking that with this kind of lifestyle, one will be prone to miss so many opportunities, just because you can't speak up. Imaging seeing someone you like, and you cannot be brave to start a conversation.
I have been in this kind of situation so many times. And 99 out of 100 times, I miss the opportunity to start up a conversation because I am stuck in my head.

I wish I have an advice for you on how to take that bold step but I don't. The 1 out of a 100 times I do start the conversation, it is always the best experience. Unfortunately, I am yet to find a way to always choose to talk. There is no clear explanation for why those few times were different, the only common denominator is that I was in my excited state. A state when I act opposite to my natural self. I can't purposely put my self in that state.

Recently, I got someone's number I have always wanted but it's been more than a week since I reached out. Sometimes I wonder what's the point, what makes us so different from the rest? Are we even the same species as the rest?

To make matters worse, I am a bit more weird than even the weird ones, more introverted than any introvert I have come across and more strange than the strangest.

There is a glimmer of hope though. I believe that all we need is that 1 in a 100, or even if it is 1 in a million when we do start the conversation. It is magical and it is worth it and it happens to us all.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by supokazeem: 10:42am On Sep 17, 2024
As introverts, you may find it difficult to relate with people, but dont find it difficult to plan for the future

Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DeeScan: 7:12pm On Sep 20, 2024
Blaqbea:
I'm tired of being an introvert, the annoying thing is that I accommodate people excesses simply cos I can't say much, and people step on me anyhow they want and still go free

It's so frustrating
Don't hold back the anger .. let the anger control ... You'd find yourself telling them off , they just need to see you angry as at when due , then go start to dey respect .. just use the anger whenever it comes..
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by sochey(f): 3:12pm On Sep 23, 2024
Kinesiology:
I'm sure this is a safe space to rant...

On my way back home I bumped into a lady in a public transport and she was the only person there and immediately I entered, we both looked at each other, I greeted her and she replied. Looking at her, she was pretty and had a very calm face with glasses on. She was definitely someone I would love to start a convo with. But I couldn't. Different thoughts just coming to my head..how do I start, where do I start from, which question will be appropriate to ask.

Before I knew it, bus was already full and from there on, I knew it a no no.

And it made me to start thinking that with this kind of lifestyle, one will be prone to miss so many opportunities, just because you can't speak up. Imaging seeing someone you like, and you cannot be brave to start a conversation.

Do it while you're shaking and sweating. Say anything relatable, like a compliment or anything. The conversation eventually flows from there. Most times the person you want to talk to wants to talk to you too. So while there's a gazillion thoughts running through your mind, your palms sweaty, your body shaking, your heart thumping just start anywhere. That's literally the way I do mine.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Makaveli217(m): 12:05pm On Sep 24, 2024
Kinesiology:
I'm sure this is a safe space to rant...

On my way back home I bumped into a lady in a public transport and she was the only person there and immediately I entered, we both looked at each other, I greeted her and she replied. Looking at her, she was pretty and had a very calm face with glasses on. She was definitely someone I would love to start a convo with. But I couldn't. Different thoughts just coming to my head..how do I start, where do I start from, which question will be appropriate to ask.

Before I knew it, bus was already full and from there on, I knew it a no no.

And it made me to start thinking that with this kind of lifestyle, one will be prone to miss so many opportunities, just because you can't speak up. Imaging seeing someone you like, and you cannot be brave to start a conversation.

Read, understand and digest this thread, it will help.
https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Modupeola17: 3:38pm On Oct 10, 2024
This introverts thingy has its own pros and cons, I have a lot being bottled up inside of me and can't share, bcuz I don't even know how to state my feelings
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Ernesthugo(m): 3:20pm On Oct 19, 2024
okay you wanna share with me
Modupeola17:
This introverts thingy has its own pros and cons, I have a lot being bottled up inside of me and can't share, bcuz I don't even know how to state my feelings
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Wearetheugliest: 10:25pm On Oct 25, 2024
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Orlatunday11(m): 8:50am On Oct 29, 2024
I Love been intovert, it fast track my journey to success....no party, to comparison, no envy.....I do my thing my way....

But feel down sometime in my business...that if am a social person with friends it my boast my sale in the neighborhood....am a BLOCK maker and general building contractor and supply

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Novaxerxes(m): 11:41am On Nov 16, 2024
Motiseans:
Pls o I am an introvert but something strange and bizarre is happening to me people can actually hear my thoughts and they can read my mind I am scared af and I want this to stop I keep hearing the voice of two women talking about what is happening in my life I don’t know if it is true or not but I swear to God I need help they voice keep reassuring me that nobody will help me and it say I should join a cult I don’t know what to do

Thats what we call auditory hallucination, one of the symptoms seen in schizophrenia. You might want to visit a hospital for proper referal and treatment. There are drugs that help control it.
Lastly,try not to listen to the voice
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by streetzdreamz(m): 11:10am On Dec 29, 2024
Arsenate:
because i keep to my self a lot, people misconstrue that as arrogance, rudeness or snubbish. it used to bother me alot. now I don't seem to care.
Lol I get tagged a lot too, but it stopped bothering me when I realized people tend to judge what they don't understand.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by BIGBLACKGHURL(f): 12:41am On Jan 07
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I know right, join it's WhatsApp group. It's more fun
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