Jealousy, an intense emotion when unchecked or stopped in the initial stages can cause irrevocable harm to the person who experiences this emotion. It can also probably put an end to all his/her relationships. Jealousy is one such emotion which raises its ugly head time and again, afflicting either a boy or a girl romantically involved with each other. We have heard of many acts of recklessness a boyfriend had to deal with because of his jealous girlfriend. Why does my girlfriend constantly experience bouts of jealousy? Is it something I say or do?
A girl getting a wee bit jealous when her boyfriend looks at other attractive girls is a natural phenomenon, but if this jealousy assumes abnormal proportions, then it's time to take quick action!

An overtly jealous girlfriend can destroy her relationship with her boyfriend if she begins to view every normal situation, as a potential threat to her relationship. In such a situation how does the boyfriend learn to deal with a jealous girlfriend? Let us find out the ways.

Tête-à-tête

A heart-to-heart conversation with your girlfriend may help in finding out the real source of her jealousy. Maybe, she has had a bitter relationship with her ex who was cheating on her. Once the ‘source’ of her jealousy is established, try to wipe out this fear of ‘losing you’ from her mind.

Constant assurance

A jealous girlfriend needs constant assurance. Assure her that there is no ‘threat’ to your relationship especially in the form of another woman. Give her details on your time away from her. Let her interact with your near and dear ones. Talking to the people who know you best may help her realize that her fears are unfounded.

Fear of your ‘female’ friends

A jealous girlfriend’s imagination runs haywire every time she thinks about your ‘female’ friends. Your time away from her is definitely a time out or scampering to your female friends. Introduce her to your circle of friends especially to the female lot. She should be made to realize that you don’t go around scouting for female company the moment you turn your back on her or during her absence.

A role reversal ‘act’

If her overbearing attitude is causing you sleepless nights, just assume the role of a jealous boyfriend. Likewise, call her every hour to inquire about her whereabouts, what she is wearing, who she is with, etc. After a few days of these love (read curious) calls, your jealous girlfriend may realize how irritatingand annoying and unnecessary this can be.

Professional help

If all your methods of dealing with your jealous girlfriend have failed, then it’s time you seek professional advice. Accompany her whenever she goes to meet her counselor or psychologist. An expert’s advice and interference may erase the irrational thoughts and bouts of jealousy from her troubled mind.

Dealing with a jealous girlfriend can be a wearisome time for the boyfriend. Apart from her jealous streak, if you share a good relationship with her, it should become your prerogative to help her get rid of this intense emotion. A little bit of care, love and loads of patience from you will help you in successfully dealing with a jealous girlfriend.

Weldone lala darling but I'd rada prefer u in d celeb/movie department*kisses*

I have actually picked one or two tips from here.

My baby girl is very jealous o.

If I chat with my female cousins she gets jealous.

if I smile at another girl, wahala.

but aside that, she's a very faithful and sweet girl and a wife material

Thanks

My girlfriend once told me that she would beat me up and arrest me if she ever meets me with another girl.

I give am a very clean slap

rozzay: Weldone lala darling but I'd rada prefer u in d celeb/movie department*kisses*

really?

Thanks babe

My GF dey wan die wen am chatting with another babe, though I don't feel the same way when she chats with a guy.

Lacomus: My GF dey wan die wen am chatting with another babe, though I don't feel the same way when she chats with a guy.

lol
maybe she loves u more than u do.

lalasticlala:

lol
maybe she loves u more than u do.

Bro I love her too

hmmmmnn

I am allergic to jealous people, they are psycho. They can kill in the heat of the moment.

yes ooo

OmoAlata1: I am allergic to jealous people, they are psycho. They can kill in the heat of the moment.

OmoAlata1: I am allergic to jealous people, they are psycho. They can kill in the heat of the moment.

well said

maxism2: I have actually picked one or two tips from here.

My baby girl is very jealous o.

If I chat with my female cousins she gets jealous.

if I smile at another girl, wahala.

but aside that, she's a very faithful and sweet girl and a wife material

....awww u r lucky man....

2romantic: My girlfriend once told me that she would beat me up and arrest me if she ever meets me with another girl.

I give am a very clean slap

....n u r proud to say dat??

temigracie: ....n u r proud to say dat??

yu neva can tell, priority differs.

How I wish I have a jealous girlfriend...

Oxone:
Lmao! Thought as much cos I don't either

What is wrong with me
I wrote TYPED nt TYPES
Frowns

I think I rem now
I meant to write
I lost that dude to madt jealousy

OmoAlata1: I am allergic to jealous people, they are psycho. They can kill in the heat of the moment.

#true talk..

rozzay: Weldone lala darling but I'd rada prefer u in d celeb/movie department*kisses*

when Lala become darling under ma nose.(smooches beard) if 'SHE' CATCH U EHN??

Personally am still tryna get over fearing pple that get jealous.i jst redraw, or lay low.cos what ave seen.....i dont want an acid bath!
The 'role reversal' is so tricky.lol

dytbabe: Lol
Ask my ex
I showed that guy hell of trouble and then he gives silent treatment and ur gal starts to cry and plead

What works for me was when he assures me all the time , yes all the time

Don't neglect me else na wahala part 2

Above all, I was and still a very special being despite my sweet troubles, lovable and always happy

*sobs, I love that dude to maranti jealousy*

*clears throat*

*yawns*

Oxone:

*clears throat*

E be like say I was high when I types that
Cos I don't understand my last sentence

dytbabe:

E be like say I was high when I types that
Cos I don't understand my last sentence

Lmao! Thought as much cos I don't either

Oxone:

Lmao! Thought as much cos I don't either

Wait o
Did I actually edit the first post?
Now I know bed calls

daveP: when Lala become darling under ma nose.(smooches beard) if 'SHE' CATCH U EHN??

. She ll understand dat am d E- wife

dytbabe:

Wait o
Did I actually edit the first post?
Now I know bed calls

Lwkmd! Night deary

Oxone:

Lwkmd! Night deary

That wasn't me
Am so sure
Am not slpy jor

Am sure its SEUN that's messing with me
SEUN, warm ursef oo, ehn ehn