Hello Nairalanders, I have a GF..and we have been dating for over 3years now.., I Love her so much..and i think she loves me too...all of a sudden she started behaving weird..She doesnt pick my calls, Nor does she reply my texts..at first..she usually...call me, even before i call her..but now the reverse the is the case...she doesnt even call me back when she sees my MissedCalls...
On The 23rd of last month was my Birthday..I received texts and calls...from some of my Friends (Girls) but to my suprise she didnt call neither did she text...i was worried! I tried calling her..but it wasnt available..! The following sunday..i met her...in the church..and tried asking her...why she didnt call she cldnt qive me an answer....i was furious..bcuz her xracter..changed suddenly...So i broke up with her..and since then she hasnt called or text...Now august 6th is her birthday...I dnt knw maybe i shld call her or not, if i dont call her...Sure, she is gonna feel the pain i Felt....am thinking i shldnt call her (thought it might potray a sign of immaturity) then suprise her with a Birthday qift, when next i see her...or i shld just call her...on that day, and still present my gift..to her, Note: she is Now My ex...and am not trying to revenge or somefin..am just trying to...show her, that I remeber and cherish her birthday even if she didnt bother calling me, during mine..
Thanks...! Your candid advice is...highly welcome..!
*Insults are also welcome..afterall I dont qive a crap! *winks*...

Guy, Your ex-girlfriend has long forgotten you so I suggest you should do the same. She broke up with you in her mind long before you formally broke up with her and took her out of her misery. She has freed you, you too, biko...free yaself. I wont be surprised if you call her on her birthday and she does not pick up. So if you truly don't give a crap, then do not bother calling her.

remi4ever:
Thanks...! Your candid advice is...highly welcome..!
*Insults are also welcome ..afterall I dont qive a crap! *winks*...

OP your mad don't call her and see her reaction. Do some personal studies about WHY? Chill*

Okay

yrunvus: Guy, Your ex-girlfriend has long forgotten you so I suggest you should do the same. She broke up with you in her mind long before you formally broke up with her and took her out of her misery. She has freed you, you too, biko...free yaself. I wont be surprised if you call her on her birthday and she does not pick up. So if you truly don't give a crap, then do not bother calling her.

yea, it aint easy to forget her like that..But she still stares at me, in the same manner..when we started! I think she is been influenced..by someone somewhere!

yu can call her, bt no gift....... nd try free yursef too. its hard to do cuz it once happened to me too

Don't worry, i have her number. i'll do the calling on ur behalf....@viviaqua, is that how u ppl "move on''?

This one hard o...I think u should do what your heart tells you. Matters of the heart no get one straightforward advice..

Dude it has happened to me. U want to show her ur too matured to keep malice bcuz of breakup. U want to prove sometin like we can still be friends even if we hv broken up. But dude let me tell u somtin, if somebody doesn't give a crap as to wish u a happy birthday on ur day, u shud drop the person where she belong- in d past.

Move on . If u guyz meet great her like a normal friend. Unless u want u guyz to get back together again in which case u will keep toiling to keep d relationship whilst she gives I don't care attitude- the worse state to be in in a relationship.

Nobody is forcing u ooh! U r d one pushing urself into d dreaded friendzone. Don't call, don't form nice, don't form mature, just move on.
Ur heart will heal with time.

remi4ever:
yea, it aint easy to forget her like that..But she still stares at me, in the same manner..when we started! I think she is been influenced..by someone somewhere!

move on bro...abi u no believe say u go fit get another girl? If to say u get side chick u 4 no dey bother if she call or not and she would have respected u more

Do me and do u.bone her patapata because she dsn't send u @ all abi u b mumu tunfulu ni?

Go have a drink, it clears the mind

Now u see why some girls treat u people like crap?




She gave no crap about all these time and you're here thinking about getting her a gift?




Sweet Lord, I feel like slapping u

Don't let all this disturbed souls derail you. Give it a try, what's a gift anyway, it may just thaw her. Before u give up give it your best shot.

Let the men who want to act like whiny women continue to whine.

Please forget about her maybe she has another guy, and will not appreciate calling, text or gift for her birthday, and if it goes by my thought it will make you look foolish, but you can say hello to her whenever you come across her.