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How To Stop Stuttering And Stammering(stammerers Only) by Elebiju: 11:22am On Aug 02, 2014 |
There are no instant miracle cures for stuttering. Therapy, electronic devices, and even drugs can't help make it an overnight process. Those who stutter, however, can fight the condition on their own, as well as make significant progress toward fluency by seeing a speech therapist. If you're serious about putting stuttering behind you and beginning your new, more-fluent, life, read these tips and techniques. 1 Mentally and Physically relax... Tell yourself that you really are going to do fine. When you are worried that you are going to stutter, you make it likelier that you will. Relax both your body and your mind. Relax your body: Release the tension in your back, neck and arms. Relax your shoulders; let them sink down to a natural level. Buzz your lips for a couple seconds before you start speaking. Singers do this sometimes to warm up. Shake out any tension that you have in your legs and arms. Twist your torso. Relax your mind: Tell yourself: "I am bigger than this stutter; this stutter is not bigger than me!" Don't tell yourself it's a life or death situation. Stuttering is annoying, but it's not as much of an issue to other people as it probably is to you. Let this thought relax you. Concentrate your attention inside your head. Gently let your attention drift to the furthest tips of your body, breathing evenly. This can be done as a form of meditation . 2 Stand in front of the mirror and imagine the person in the mirror being someone else. Just start talking about anything — how your day went, what you're feeling like, what you're planning on eating later on — and watch your stutter disappear. Of course, talking in front of the mirror isn't the same thing as talking to another person, but this exercise should give you a good boost of confidence. Remember how well you spoke to yourself in the mirror when preparing to talk to somebody else. Try speaking to yourself every day for 30 minutes. It might seem weird at first, but the exercise is hearing your voice without the stutter. It'll give you lots of confidence. 3 Visualize the words you're going to say before you say them. This is hard to master, but it really helps. If you can imagine words, you claim them and it'll be harder for them to slip into a stutter. If you cannot imagine it, they can't be yours. Have a clear mental picture of what you want to say. If you are stumbling over a particular word, try using a word that sounds just like it — a synonym. This word might be easier to use and one that you won't slip over. Try to spell a word out if you stumble over it. You might have to pronounce it very slowly and letter by letter, but at least you'll get the satisfaction of knowing that you pronounced it. Don't be afraid to pause as you visualize or spell out the letters in the word. We're trained to think of silences as frightening; you have to train yourself to think of the silences as opportunities to ace it. 4 When you stutter, try letting out tension in between blocks . Work through stuttering by letting out deep, guttural noises at each block. For example: "It's s-s-s-s- s-. GRRRRRR It's silly." Try stopping by saying "Blah " and continue. 5 Get in the right frame of mind . Before you go to talk dont try to impress anybody, get optimistic instead of pessimistic. Often times, the fear of stuttering can cause stuttering itself. Instead of fearing it and expecting it to happen, try to visualize succeeding. This will help you destroy any nervousness you might encounter. 6 Try breathing exercises to make speech easier. Often, a stutterer will have trouble breathing while they are stuttering. Getting your speech back could be helped drastically by doing breathing exercises. Try these for more fluency while you speak: Take a couple of deep breaths before you start speaking. Pretend you're diving down into water and you need to get a couple of deep breaths before you dive. This may ease your breathing and help regulate it. If you're in a social situation and you feel uncomfortable doing this, try to breathe deeply through your nose. Remember to breathe when you speak and if you stutter. People who stutter often forget to breathe once they begin stuttering. Pause, give yourself some time to breathe, and try to tackle the word or phrase again. Don't try to set any speed records. There are plenty of fast talkers out there, but the goal is not to speak how they speak. Your goal is to be able to express words and be understood. Learn to speak at a moderate pace. There is no rush here, nor are there competitions on who can out talk the other person. 7 Try putting some rhythm into your speech. People who stutter tend to lose their stutter when they sing, for several reasons: the words they are singing are prolonged, and the voice they use is smooth and delivered easier than normal speech. If you can put a little bit of rhythm into your speech (give it an oratory quality, like Martin Luther King, Jr.) you might find that your stutter has lessened or even gone away. 8 If you're making a speech, don't look directly at someone. Look over people's heads, or at a point in the back of the room. This way, you might not get as nervous and start a chain reaction of stuttering. If you're talking directly to someone, see if you can make regular eye contact with them. You don't have to stare at them the whole time, but making eye contact with them will put them at ease, which will help you feel more comfortable. 9 Don't sweat the small stuff. Understand that you'll make mistakes. But it's not the mistakes that define you. It's how you rebound from the mistakes, how you persevere. Understand that you will probably lose some battles, but that your goal is to win the war. 1 Like |
Re: How To Stop Stuttering And Stammering(stammerers Only) by Emyo(m): 11:32am On Aug 02, 2014 |
Emyo is typing... |
Re: How To Stop Stuttering And Stammering(stammerers Only) by Nobody: 11:48am On Aug 02, 2014 |
Hahahaha ^ NL isn't 2go 2go, whatsapp bro. Meanwhile, I used to stutter, I stopped sometime ago. Did you know stammerers have high-temper? |
Re: How To Stop Stuttering And Stammering(stammerers Only) by Ephramed(m): 12:15pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
I get one wey be say if he dey talk to lady he no dey stammer anything.but when he dey talk to guys na story on its own. |
Re: How To Stop Stuttering And Stammering(stammerers Only) by Elebiju: 3:36pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Largas: HahahahaNo its not true, I'm an example of a stammerer that has control. |
Re: How To Stop Stuttering And Stammering(stammerers Only) by Nobody: 3:40pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Elebiju: No its not true, I'm am example of a stammerer that has control.Wow! Finally, a difference. Okay, the stereotype has been proven wrong! |
Re: How To Stop Stuttering And Stammering(stammerers Only) by Elebiju: 3:43pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Emyo: Emyo is typing...At your age you still read posts with an empty head. |
Re: How To Stop Stuttering And Stammering(stammerers Only) by Elebiju: 3:45pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Largas:And I know more like me. |
Re: How To Stop Stuttering And Stammering(stammerers Only) by Emyo(m): 6:05pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Elebiju: At your age you still read posts with an empty head.Emyo is typing... |
Re: How To Stop Stuttering And Stammering(stammerers Only) by Nobody: 9:25am On Aug 03, 2014 |
Largas: Hahahaha. Well said! I still hold it responsible for my temper issues and aggressiveness,although I don't stammer any more. I don't miss those days at all,it wasn't funny. |
Re: How To Stop Stuttering And Stammering(stammerers Only) by Ayinoluwa: 4:46pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Hey guys! I am Ayinoluwa and I have created a Facebook support group for Stutterers in Nigeria. It is called StutterNigeria. We need to support ourselves here since professional help is not easy to find. We also need a platform to encourage each other and help spread awareness. The advice that has been giving on here is brilliant and I hope, with the support group, we can become a community to advice and encourage each other. Please join StutterNigeria on Facebook and invite others too! See you in the group. |
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