I need help urgently , I’m losing my mind. My husband made someone and don’t know what to do at this stage. He said he doesn’t have a relationship anymore with that woman. How to trust again? I have told him already I can forgive him but I don’t want you to have any contact of whatsoever with them and should I found that they are still communicating I will let them to have each other . . Am I being selfish to say that?

I got confused while reading this, but anyway, Pics or I don't beli...

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*scratches head* Erm.....what was the question again?

You are not selfish for insisting that there's no contact between them. The first thing to do is to prevent the pregnant lady from trying to trap your husband with the baby. If you are willing to forgive him completely and if you feel that the marriage is strong enough to survive this storm, then be prepared to fight hard.

I can relate with ur pain, be calm, u still very very angry.
Its so painful I know

The only things that can mk u feel a bit better now is if u get someone to go with u on same line
So I will join u in scolding him

Yes ur hubby is a bad man, how cld he, that's wickedness.

Bt my lady, are u sure u not the reason he had to go out? Cos some blames too will fall on u

To crown all my sympathy, jst calm down, don't act crazy even if there's that gene that's pushing, u realise bn patience actually resolves lots

MOLA34: I need help urgently , I’m losing my mind. My husband made someone and don’t know what to do at this stage. He said he doesn’t have a relationship anymore with that woman. How to trust again? I have told him already I can forgive him but I don’t want you to have any contact of whatsoever with them and should I found that they are still communicating I will let them to have each other . . Am I being selfish to say that?

Madam, even if I don't understand what you're tryin to say via the post I quoted, but I understood from the title of the thread that your husband got another woman pregnant. Pls I want you to know that more stories are yet to be revealed (I'm only stating a fact and not cursing) because the woman in question might try to keep the pregnancy, and this might result to some other issue. Please I don't even know what to say neither do I know what I just typed. But I've got a strong feeling something serious is coming up.

This is wat dey call mini polygamy.just be careful ma'am .just incase u smell something fishy pls run. Cos in most cases baby mamas tend to fight hard using jazz and all sort due to d pain dat dey can't have him and guyd dnt like after 1 girl lol.

BabaAlabi: You are not selfish for insisting that there's no contact between them. The first thing to do is to prevent the pregnant lady from trying to trap your husband with the baby. If you are willing to forgive him completely and if you feel that the marriage is strong enough to survive this storm, then be prepared to fight hard.

That's murder you know? Wetin concern the pickin for their mata?

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Ceasar1: I got confused while reading this, but anyway, Pics or I don't beli...

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That's unfair sir
Cant you see she's hurting
Offer some consolation instead of trivializing her condition

BabaAlabi: You are not selfish for insisting that there's no contact between them. The first thing to do is to prevent the pregnant lady from trying to trap your husband with the baby. If you are willing to forgive him completely and if you feel that the marriage is strong enough to survive this storm, then be prepared to fight hard.

@MOLA34's
If your husband have the qualities you went from a man
He has made a very big mistake
If he love you and still want you
He need to work hard for you to forgive him
But you don't need to abused him why you ppl will have to rebuild your relationship
Fight hard if he is a good man

MOLA34's your account is so new
I just think you are playing fucking games
you are an evil person
It is over, for all your lies, manipulation, me,me, selfish, self-center
Disrespectful
All the people that you so call friend today wanted to destroy your marriage
They have husbands that are not better than your husband
Most of this ladies are supporting their husabands-- The ladies pay 90% to 100% of the bills
Their husbands still cheat on them
One of your problem is you think you can out smart the world
Thank God for ur kids

IrishKez:
That's unfair sir
Cant you see she's hurting
Offer some consolation instead of trivializing her condition.

She said she needed help urgently and that she was losing her mind, next minute she's asking if she's being selfish? The story doesn't quiet clip together. It lacks genuineness and reality.
And not to mentioned that this was her very first post and topic. Sorry if you find this provoking but I don't believe her at all... or a him.

Ceasar1:

She said she needed help urgently and that she was losing her mind, next minute she's asking if she's being selfish? The story doesn't quiet clip together. It lacks genuineness and reality.
And not to mentioned that this was her very first post and topic. Sorry if you find this provoking but I don't believe her or him.

@Ceasar1 the story have some true to it
but the ppl that was jealous of her
lot of them misled her
It is a old story

Ceasar1:

She said she needed help urgently and that she was losing her mind, next minute she's asking if she's being selfish? The story doesn't quiet clip together. It lacks genuineness and reality.
And not to mentioned that this was her very first post and topic. Sorry if you find this provoking but I don't believe her at all... or a him.

You need to learn How to coherently convey your emotions without throwing audience into utter confusion.

Well, I'm not married... but I know this... the pregnant lady would not succeed in getting ur husband if u are strong with him and solidly behind him.

Aphex: Well, I'm not married... but I know this... the pregnant lady would not succeed in getting ur husband if u are strong with him and solidly behind him.

She is not behind her husband
She want to destory her husband
Oh well the deed is done
If she is full of lies, self center and me, me, disrespectful and manpulative
Bad friends that are jealous of her , end up mislead her
The game is over

MOLA34'
So u are not going to respond or make a comment

GoodFaith: MOLA34's your account is so new
I just think you are playing fucking games
you are an evil person
It is over, for all your lies, manipulation, me,me, selfish, self-center
Disrespectful
All the people that you so call friend today wanted to destroy your marriage
They have husbands that are not better than your husband
Most of this ladies are supporting their husabands-- The ladies pay 90% to 100% of the bills
Their husbands still cheat on them
One of your problem is you think you can out smart the world
Thank God for ur kids

Hello!!! are you the husband??

Brito
She has not made any comments
Ppl want to tell half stories

Incomplete story!
What have you been doing

Maybe you are the cause

smackimorn: Incomplete story!
What have you been doing

Maybe you are the cause

Cause of her half story
Her lies, me.me, disrespectfull, self center and selfishness?
Really
U are young
You don't have lot of life experience
Please go play

If I Were A Boy (Remix)"
(feat. R. Kelly)


[Beyonce:]
If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I'd roll out of bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted then go
Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I'd kick it with who I wanted, and I'd never get confronted for it
Cause they'd stick up for me

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

[R. Kelly:]
If you were a boy
Then, girl, you'd understand
You need to stop listenin' to your friends
Love, respect, and trust your man
So I go to clubs with the guys
And sometimes flirt with the girls
I should be able to roll out, as long as I'm comin' home to you
And give you the world

But you're not a boy
So you don't have a clue
How I work and pay the bills
How everything I do is for you
[Beyonce:]
I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

[Beyonce (R. Kelly):]
If I were a boy (If I were a girl)
I would turn off my phone (I wouldn't play games)
Tell everyone it's broken
So they'd think that I was sleeping alone (Girl you know that's wrong)
I'd put myself first
And make the rules as I go
'Cause I know that she'd be faithful
Waiting for me to come home, to come home

[R. Kelly:]
But you're not a boy
So you can't understand
You are not a perfect woman
And I am not a perfect man
[Beyonce:]
I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts (And I know how you feel)
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed (Said I'm sorry)

[Beyonce:]
It's a little too late for you to come back
[R. Kelly:]
But I can't let you go, 'cause I'm too attached
If you thought I would wait for you
You thought wrong

But you're just a boy...

GoodFaith:
Cause of her half story
Her lies, me.me, disrespectfull, self center and selfishness?
Really
U are young
You don't have lot of life experience
Please go play

Okay!
Experienced mofo

smackimorn:
Okay!
Experienced mofo

If you know you can call your daddy mofo great
I use MF

GoodFaith:
If you know you can call you daddy mofo great
I use MF

Wetin I do again!
You're experienced la

Now this is gonna be interesting
Idowuogbo

smackimorn:
Wetin I do again!
You're experienced la

looking at your profile photo
You are less than 30
young and foolish
It is la-a

Im 34 yrs of age and has two boys and have been married for 6 years. I thought everything was going well until he comes back to inform me that he had a one night stand and the lady is pregnant. Then one day the lady came to my house to tell me the news herself. She asked me to accept the child and have a relationship with the father. I knew in my heart from that day I cannot accept any child in my house especially knowing I didn’t find my husband with any former kids. I asked myself lot of question if is worth saving this marriage or not. I decided to stay only on one condition that the will be no contact. I checked my husbands phone one day where the lady was telling him that she will always love him.

dytbabe: Now this is gonna be interesting
Idowuogbo

Sweerie, i don't gerrit ooo

MOLA34: Im 34 yrs of age and has two boys and have been married for 6 years. I thought everything was going well until he comes back to inform me that he had a one night stand and the lady is pregnant. Then one day the lady came to my house to tell me the news herself. She asked me to accept the child and have a relationship with the father. I knew in my heart from that day I cannot accept any child in my house especially knowing I didn’t find my husband with any former kids. I asked myself lot of question if is worth saving this marriage or not. I decided to stay only on one condition that the will be no contact. I checked my husbands phone one day where the lady was telling him that she will always love him.

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