Godmystrength: Do you mean she brings food to you guys because you guys don't have food or she is just bringing because of ''love''?
cooked food food stuffs

stan4b: . She's bringing out of love. Its cooked food,like two plates of jollof rice.

purplesummer: I see it as an insult to your family. She shouldn't bring food to your house when your mother is there. It could suggest that she feels you people don't have food to eat (although she might actually have honest intentions).

It would have been a different case if your brother stays alone in his own house and she decides to bring him food.

lofty900: your elder bro is living under mummy's roof and still brings his gf to the same house. This world is really upside down.

purplesummer: I see it as an insult to your family. She shouldn't bring food to your house when your mother is there. It could suggest that she feels you people don't have food to eat.

stan4b: . She's bringing out of love. Its cooked food,like two plates of jollof rice.

stan4b: . Yea,its somehoe,but we r hoping for d best. He's a gradyate,he ll soon get a job den start staying alone.

Ceasar1:

Now this got me all cracked up because I don't see this as an insult in anyway. Don't you think She might be doing this as a bid to win over the household - good wifey material esp the Mum?

With all the comments here, Am I the only one reasoning this way?

Tag. Mizmycoli - say something.

The Girl's one good natured soul, its almost like I can see right through her. Some Girls are so nice, so nice that they don't know how to be any less.

Y'know, I know a certain young girl - The first guy she ever loved, they lived in the same hostel then [I don't advise younger folks to date at such close proximity though]

On our way back from lectures @TheTime, She'd be racking her brain on what to cook for Daniel, and HIS FRIENDS of course. Personal Cook tins

She didn't care what anyone thought, still doesn't, though she learnt some lessons [Me I won't advise any young lady to tow that path - its for their own good]

Let me be clear here, I see no big deal in that act. Some Ladies can Love Sha!


That said, errmm........Mom might be somewhat jealous y'know, of course its normal
However, wisdom is profitable to direct. If her mother-in-law to be (hopefully) isn't cool with it, then she has to pipe low. Her boyfriend needs to understand that He's still under her authority and as such dance to her tune or go get a room. #HardTruth

purplesummer: I see it as an insult to your family. She shouldn't bring food to your house when your mother is there. It could suggest that she feels you people don't have food to eat (although she might actually have honest intentions).

It would have been a different case if your brother stays alone in his own house and she decides to bring him food.

MizMyColi:
The Girl's one good natured soul, its almost like I can see right through her. Some Girls are so nice, so nice that they don't know how to be any less.
Y'know, I know a certain young girl - The first guy she ever loved, they lived in the same hostel then [I don't advise younger folks to date at such close proximity though]
On our way back from lectures @TheTime, She'd be racking her brain on what to cook for Daniel, and HIS FRIENDS of course. Personal Cook tins
She didn't care what anyone thought, still doesn't, though she learnt some lessons [Me I won't advise any young lady to tow that path - its for their own good]
Let me be clear here, I see no big deal in that act. Some Ladies can Love Sha!
That said, errmm........Mom might be somewhat jealous y'know, of course its normal
However, wisdom is profitable to direct. If her mother-in-law to be (hopefully) isn't cool with it, then she has to pipe low. Her boyfriend needs to understand that He's still under her authority and as such dance to her tune or go get a room. #HardTruth

purplesummer: I see it as an insult to your family. She shouldn't bring food to your house when your mother is there. It could suggest that she feels you people don't have food to eat (although she might actually have honest intentions).

It would have been a different case if your brother stays alone in his own house and she decides to bring him food.

MizMyColi:
The Girl's one good natured soul, its almost like I can see right through her. Some Girls are so nice, so nice that they don't know how to be any less.

Y'know, I know a certain young girl - The first guy she ever loved, they lived in the same hostel then [I don't advise younger folks to date at such close proximity though]

On our way back from lectures @TheTime, She'd be racking her brain on what to cook for Daniel, and HIS FRIENDS of course. Personal Cook tins

She didn't care what anyone thought, still doesn't, though she learnt some lessons [Me I won't advise any young lady to tow that path - its for their own good]

Let me be clear here, I see no big deal in that act. Some Ladies can Love Sha!


That said, errmm........Mom might be somewhat jealous y'know, of course its normal
However, wisdom is profitable to direct. If her mother-in-law to be (hopefully) isn't cool with it, then she has to pipe low. Her boyfriend needs to understand that He's still under her authority and as such dance to her tune or go get a room. #HardTruth

pickabeau1: So how did the relationship pan out

The Guy took her for granted ehn, choi!

Me jus dey one corner dey feel for my friend and at the same time loathing the guy.

She met this other guy that became her miracle. After two weeks of radio silence, the guy came to look for her in our new hostel, cos we parked out of the former one.

Hian! O beibi has moved on

This happened about 7-8 years ago, till today, that guy still dey beg my friend.....
He lives abroad now and still contacts her.
Though not as intense as it used to be, but he's so convinced there's none like her
(Na lie joor - and No! Ayam not jealous )

Why do we always have to loose someone before realising their value and how we can't live without them?

Me, I don't make such mistakes. I'll only let go of a person if I feel like they're Smothering me so much, even at that, I'll still go looking for the person after a little while, except I never valued such person(s) to begin with.

lexajen: I'm not a poster on Nairaland.com but I observe posts and threads a lot.

Why is it that in this world, people are so insensitive and reckles with their word?

Do you know if the Op is the one with the issue, do you know weda his gf is reading all this post.

Maybe why am reacting like this is because of a post I was just informed of.

Is because of me, chai see insult flying everywhere. No one knows my part of the story. I cannot say anything on the post because it will be like washing of linen in public.

Please people should be kinder and more objective with their words.

Thankyou.

MizMyColi:



The Guy took her for granted ehn, choi!

Me jus dey one corner dey feel for my friend and at the same time loathing the guy.

She met this other guy that became her miracle. After two weeks of radio silence, the guy came to look for her in our new hostel, cos we parked out of the former one.

Hian! O beibi has moved on

This happened about 7-8 years ago, till today, that guy still dey beg my friend.....
He lives abroad now and still contacts her.
Though not as intense as it used to be, but he's so convinced there's none like her
(Na lie joor - and No! Ayam not jealous )

Why do we always have to loose someone before realising their value and how we can't live without them?

Me, I don't make such mistakes. I'll only let go of a person if I feel like they're Smothering me so much, even at that, I'll still go looking for the person after a little while, except I never valued such person(s) to begin with.

pickabeau1: So how did the relationship pan out

SAMBARRY: wetin consain you. No be you talk say you wan go watch film? What are you still doing on nl?

pickabeau1: Na u dey call me na...



I dey go now ...

SAMBARRY: abi na gbeborun you wan do.you too like jissssttt.sheeeessshhh

as my friend 'kan...' will say

SAMBARRY: Rada rada.joblessness dey worry the girl

BananaBender: It's okay if the mother doesn't appreciate the cooking. I just think she should have told her son, instead of his girlfriend.


It really wasn't her place .....................I don't care if it's her house either!

stan4b: . She's not jobless bro,she's in final year in unilag.