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Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by FemiFaniKayode: 11:51am On Mar 10, 2015 |
i CANNOT!!!!! but i can eat their forbidden fruit like i did with the lady of the warlord and Ezegburugburu of Igboland 4 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by pak: 11:52am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Both love and hate are very strong emotions and can easily be mistaken for each other. If the object of your love (or admiration) is beyond reach, you subconsciously try to suppress the love and hence your hurt by masking it as hate. That's why it's dangerous to date someone just walking out of a relationship and still has strong hate emotions towards the ex - it's the love still playing itself out. Also, humans generally LOVE to conquer what we HATE That's why you see ladies falling for reckless, womanizing, sweet talking unreliable young men - they actually hate this quality, but LOVE the thrill of conquering someone who epitomizes it. And you see serious minded conservative young men falling for flashy, shallow girls - simple they hate these qualities but subconsciously LOVE the power trip of getting girls like that. Really, homo sapiens are very complex set of beings 5 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Cutehector(m): 11:53am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Since marriage is not only abt marryn d lady involved cuz u get to marry d entire family and relations and get to interact wit her people buh since u really dnt like her people den how can u say u love her.. So its not a good idea marryn someone who u reAly hate her tribe 8 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by excellentmomma(f): 11:55am On Mar 10, 2015 |
God is using it to teach them a lesson and how to love His creatures. I see it happen a lot. So if u don't want to marry from there, don't hate. Lolzz! |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by kingthreat(m): 11:55am On Mar 10, 2015 |
I hate no ethnic group. This is an inappropriate topic 1 Like |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by free2ryhme: 11:56am On Mar 10, 2015 |
zboyd: if you wan go marry go marry no dey ask us yeye question for nairaland |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by mrtimycc(m): 11:58am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Anamachi ifem m yi bu versace 2 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Orikinla(m): 12:01pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
I don't hate any ethnic tribe. We don't choose our parents. We don't choose our tribes. We don't choose our races. But we can choose our beliefs and we can choose our lifestyles. Ignorance kills intelligence. Ignorance is the cause of the intolerance destroying humankind. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by genevieve12(f): 12:01pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
I really do dislike the characters and attitude of the yorubas,funny enough I speak yoruba fluently I even speak some core ijebu,ondo and ekiti languages,I decided to put in all my best to learning the language because they are so tribalistic and abusive also insultive I guess,n funny enough I only come across the yoruba mEn who seem to be very caring but because of my natural dislike for them I just tell them sorry mi o le fe omo yoruba as simple as that,I prefere the hausa 's to them and am igbo. 5 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by owobokiri(m): 12:04pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
once the abunna is good, i am ready to go.. 1 Like |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Nobody: 12:06pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
why should I dislike a human being like moi ? I think marriage should based more on facts and not baseless fallacy. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Preternatura1(f): 12:07pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
I don't hate anybody. Hate is a really strong word/emotion, it can drive one insane, why put yourself at risk of such? Not worth it at all. 1 Like |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:09pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
Its more or less like finding love in a hopeless place. |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Ilekeh(f): 12:09pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
I stopped taking yeye Yoruba haters serious when I found out that many of them are married to Yorubas or dating one. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Menace2Society(m): 12:13pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
Trash |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by myramiliassi: 12:14pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
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Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Richy4(m): 12:14pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
God has a very good sense of humor. Way back, I said I did not like a certain university. That was were I ended up. God please I don't want to serve in Bayelsa state. I hated water. That was where yours truly was parcel to. God don't let plumpy lady come my way, na wetin I dey see now. Most with good heart. The type you can take to mama. I have resolved never to voice out what I do not like. Because it will show up at my door step. 9 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by zendy: 12:16pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
Let me give you an example. We Igbos naturally hate Hausas (generally anyone from the north) for obvious reasons. It is almost unheard of to hear about an Igbo man marrying a Hausa girl. I however do remember a Hausa girl called Hauwa who was born and raised in Enugu who had been to the north. As a child,she resented being called 'Nwa-Hausa' (Hausa child) and regarded her self Igbo although anyone could see she wasn't Igbo from her very dark skin tone which Igbos usually don't have. Hauwa grew up to be a strikinly beautiful girl who had several Igbo suitors long before she turned 21. |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Gozzzy(m): 12:16pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
zboyd:I cannever marry from Yoruba!!!!!!! I cant bear having a dirty wife! 2 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Preternatura1(f): 12:22pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
Orikinla:Thank you. Seriously this place gets scary sometimes, I'm appalled reading some of the comments here, many sound crazy. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
Nairaland!!!!!!! Now everybody knows someone that knows someone hmmm. |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by jameeel: 12:23pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
Ofcurse yes. Love is in the air |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by mmsen: 12:26pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
You want to start americanizing your observations? Not true that it is only men. A lot of misguided and foolish women out there too. I say we leave such people to destroy themselves. Unfortunately there are often children involved and they have my sympathy. 1 Like |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
some yorubas have that much of a phat bumbum too hard to ignore 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by UncleJudax(m): 12:28pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
zboyd:If you don't want to understand tribal hatred, why then did you create this thread? You pretty much knew that this will come down to an e-war between the three major tribes in Nigeria. These are trying times, tribalism should be the least of our problems. Let there be tolerance. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by VANHELLSING: 12:29pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
It is forbidden in IGBOLAND to marry from loose cannon & promiscuous yoruba tribe, that marries 4 husband before their are 35 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by FemiFaniKayode: 12:29pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
genevieve12: Yea you cant marry them, thats why they will continue to to vanderlize your [/b]IGBIN[b] so tey that Hausa man go lost inside |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by Nobody: 12:33pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
The truth is that no one has a really genuine reason to hate any tribe or race. Its just hearsay and prejudices. When people get to know a particular person from a so called hated tribe to be different from what they believed to be true, they re forced to eat their words. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by sisisioge: 12:34pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
Oga, where the heart is concern defiles all logic...may we all choose right. 1 Like 1 Share |
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