3cycle: Just like when someone sees your sister or mum and since he knows that she's a married woman can ask her to be their sex partner.
No issues at all

Some dude are not just wise, just take your western culture and put it in your throat.
Babes aint hoes bro, respect them.

Mprex: So many peeps have become fvck buddies in the name of bf/gf so its nothing new

3cycle: Just like when someone sees your sister or mum and since he knows that she's a married woman can ask her to be their sex partner.
No issues at all

Some dude are not just wise, just take your western culture and put it in your throat.
Babes aint hoes bro, respect them.

Duru009: These thins happens everyday dude. Even in my work place. We hav pretty f uck mates among d staffs. Wen i was in d university it was really rampand among m friends n pals. Even most girls nowadays prefer it to relatnship NOW. D world is fast changin bro. Check all d social media. Dats d inthin even here on nairaland.....

obongtunji:

Tallesty1: Exactly! There is this friend of mine that is dating a guy who is not much interested in sex, after being with the guy for like six months she told me plainly that if I would agree we will be doing it any time we want. She is sure the guy will not suspect us because we are good friends and she is always in my house. She didn't know that her man likes sex more than I do.

People keep sex mates, it is not new. These girls that date married men are just sex mates.

obongtunji:


You don't have to insult the op here, he is only asking a question. For me, I think there is nothing wrong in being truthful, if that is what you want go ahead and ask, but before you call me names hear me out.

A guy once told me he has a sex mate in his office, I asked why he is calling her sex mate and he told me the lady has a guy she is about to get married to but the guy stays in Portharcourt while she stays in Lagos. So anytime anyone of them wants sex they arrange time and venue and satisfy their desire the next day they see in the office they continue with their normal office activities.The lady got married to her Portharcourt guy three weeks ago.

You will see a guy and a lady in a "relationship" active sex inclusive and after two or three years they break up to start another "relationship" with another partner. You will just notice that before a guy or a lady marries he or she must have dated three or four ladies or guys with active sex. We have a lot of guys that will want to just get down on a lady and will pretend to want to date, after having enough sex they will look for flimsy excuse to dump the lady and move to another victim.

So tell me, do you like a man that will pretend to love you and only after he is done having sex with you he leaves or the man that will tell you he want sex and you will be the one to make up your mind either to agree or not to agree I know you will like the first because we like pretending and deceiving ourselves. GOD help us

valdetino: Many girls in our country have this impression that only males benefit when they go down low (S ex).
With experience and research, I have learn that both parties benefit from it.

My Big question is: if you see a girl you admire and you do not want to enter into a relationship can you ask her to be your sex mate or FWB (Friends with Benefits)?
Like the way some western countries do.

Ladies I need your opinion on this please.

SELENAqueensy: Yes, its wrong

obongtunji:
For me, I think there is nothing wrong in being truthful, if that is what you want go ahead and ask,

Mprex: So many peeps have become fvck buddies in the name of bf/gf so its nothing new

3cycle:
Wow calabar girls will never disappoint!
I'm seriously learning

Mprex: So many peeps have become fvck buddies in the name of bf/gf so its nothing new

SELENAqueensy: Yes, its wrong

SELENAqueensy: Yes, its wrong

hummerwise:

Talking 4rm xperience I guess

michaelking28: Iols,I guess you're a victim.

Houseofglam7: In my opinion, it's not respectful at all.

Women are to be respected and treasured.
Men likewise.

3cycle: Just like when someone sees your sister or mum and since he knows that she's a married woman can ask her to be their sex partner.
No issues at all


Some dude are not just wise, just take your western culture and put it in your throat.
Babes aint hoes bro, respect them.

mstik: girls aint sex objects na.. everything is not about sex..

MRbrownJAY: @OP
there is nothing wrong with asking a girl to enter the only r/ship that you can offer her. its all about being honest about what you desire from a person. not all women out there are either A) willing or B) wanting to be in a r/ship......some just want to get laid and basta!

forget all these people trying to play holier than thou, when we all know the type of women that are EVERYWHERE in this world!