At The Beginning of the relationship, they express their love and would want to chat you up often... but when dude start showing how much he is crazy about her, she stops all the acts. She does not respond on time to his chat, even when he send romantic text, she just act like she never received any or show that she loved the sms, feeling indifferent.

I just feel sorry for this babe because she would not believe I won't bother to call her for a month! I love her so much, but I am very much in control of my emotions and senses.

I personally like the 50-50 approach but when it seem like it's a one sided thingy, it turn the hell off out of me.

...When you meet the right person, she ll give you the 50-50 approach...

temigracie: ...When you meet the right person, she ll give you the 50-50 approach...

really?

ipain: really?

...sure

temigracie: ...When you meet the right person, she ll give you the 50-50 approach...

Chop knuckle!

temigracie: ...When you meet the right person, she ll give you the 50-50 approach...

Dear ipain, I feel your pains
That is why, sometimes, it's better for ladies to make the first move as they also have a choice to make.

Just be patient and do your best to make it work out well.


All the very best!!!

TRADELYN:


Dear ipain, I feel your pains
That is why, sometimes, it's better for ladies to make the first move as they also have a choice to make.

Just be patient and do your best to make it work out well.


All the very best!!!

...Do you mean guys have to wait for a lady's first move??....guys are suppose to be the one doing the toasting or asking-out....

eeya pele......

ipain: At The Beginning of the relationship, they express their love and would want to chat you up often... but when dude start showing how much he is crazy about her, she stops all the acts. She does not respond on time to his chat, even when he send romantic text, she just act like she never received any or show that she loved the sms, feeling indifferent.

I just feel sorry for this babe because she would not believe I won't bother to call her for a month! I love her so much, but I am very much in control of my emotions and senses.

I personally like the 50-50 approach but when it seem like it's a one sided thingy, it turn the hell off out of me.

....ok..so babe didn't call u for a month and u r 50 yers 0ld? ...and what do u want from us?!

temigracie: ...Do you mean guys have to wait for a lady's first move??....guys are suppose to be the one doing the toasting or asking-out....

don't think I will ever date a lady that made "the first move".

Tallesty1: don't think I will ever date a lady that made "the first move".

...Nice....

temigracie: ...Do you mean guys have to wait for a lady's first move??....guys are suppose to be the one doing the toasting or asking-out....

Yes! It's better. The guy takes it up from there once the lady shows some interests/likeness in him...as it's easy for a guy to make fast/clear his intentions unlike ladies with so many distractions.


From experience, many guys in relationship would agree that they don't do so much to keep those that love them ...simply because the caring ladies too like them first!

TRADELYN:
Yes! It's better. The guy takes it up from there once the lady shows some interests/likeness in him...as it's easy for a guy to make fast/clear his intentions unlike ladies with so many distractions.


From experience, many guys in relationship would agree that they don't do so much to keep those that love them ...simply because the caring ladies too like them first!

lols..... Those girls are hard to keep because they are likely to swap to another guy when they see someone better.*from experience too*

TRADELYN:
Yes! It's better. The guy takes it up from there once the lady shows some interests/likeness in him...as it's easy for a guy to make fast/clear his intentions unlike ladies with so many distractions.


From experience, many guys in relationship would agree that they don't do so much to keep those that love them ...simply because the caring ladies too like them first!

...hmmmm...maybe you are right...

..do you think showing little green-light is d best thing to do??....

Tallesty1: lols..... Those girls are hard to keep because they are likely to swap to another guy when they see someone better.*from experience too*

Yes! To an extent, I agree with you. They will surely move to a 'better' guy once they see the chance.
However, a sensible guy would carefully discern exactly what her intentions are by series of test. This will guide him so that he does not make an avoidable mistake.


Finally, my point is as guys have taste, so ladies too have. Many a time, ladies that are so caring in relationship are so since they believe that they are making the best choice.

temigracie: ...hmmmm...maybe you are right...
..do you think showing little green-light is d best thing to do??....

Yes! Any guy that has never dated...or even got married to a caring lady/wife will not understand this better.

Many ladies too are big time "Stalkers." Some even do it in public shamelessly because they like/love the guys since he meets their taste

Dear ipain, hope you dey enjoy this parol

tradelyn
temiegracie
tallesty

good debate you guys have here.
Am a retiree in counselling. Make i just sit down dey observe as usual.

2s£xy can advise too.

MrCork:
....ok..so babe didn't call u for a month and u r 50 yers 0ld? ...and what do u want from us?!

I'm glad to see mencade5 here!

BTW, wey that Hon rigarmortis

TRADELYN:
Yes! Any guy that has never dated...or even got married to a caring lady/wife may not understand this better.

Many ladies too are big time "Stalkers." Some even do it in public shamelessly because they like/love the guys since he meets their taste

Dear ipain, hope you dey enjoy this parol

.....Thats very true...
..Tradelyn, it s a game of luck...

Depends on how the male counterpart interprets it....depends on how the guy handle it maturely...Have seen guys doin really immature things to ladies who gives a little green light...

..They believe they are simply too cheap

mencade5: tradelyn
temiegracie
tallesty

good debate you guys have here.
Am a retiree in counselling. Make i just sit down dey observe as usual.

2s£xy can advise too.

...awww, my sweet mencade....have missed you like kilode....

Guy... U be learner? Most girls do this sturf u just mentioned above every time not that they dont like you but because you probably came out too strong with your emotuon and she got confused, trying see how much of her bullcrap u can take, how much u care abt her(obviously u av proved her ryt dat u dnt by not callin cus she didnt call u) or even trying to play hard to get so she dont look easy... U re on a chase, u should be proud to be d Hunter, so quit waiting for her to chase you cos she wont, just go for wat u want...

ipain: At The Beginning of the relationship, they express their love and would want to chat you up often... but when dude start showing how much he is crazy about her, she stops all the acts. She does not respond on time to his chat, even when he send romantic text, she just act like she never received any or show that she loved the sms, feeling indifferent.

I just feel sorry for this babe because she would not believe I won't bother to call her for a month! I love her so much, but I am very much in control of my emotions and senses.

I personally like the 50-50 approach but when it seem like it's a one sided thingy, it turn the hell off out of me.

me i prefer the 60 40 she loves me 60% i love her 40% it works for me, it can never really be 50-50 someone must feel it more no be movie na real life matters we dey reason here.

temigracie: .....Thats very true...
..Tradelyn, it s a game of luck...

Depends on how the male counterpart interprets it....depends on how the guy handle it maturely...Have seen guys doin really immature things to ladies who gives a little green light...

..They believe they are simply too cheap

Only immature guys would consider them cheap. A guy that is not interested would simply tell her. Period! No issues thereafter.

TRADELYN:



I'm glad to see mencade5 here!

BTW, wey that Hon rigarmortis

oga mi am always inspired by your intelectual input.

hmmmm,it all depends on d parties involve,nowadays its very hard to see a 50-50 relationship,one party must jst have to give it all for a reltionship to b fruitful

TRADELYN:
Only immature guys would consider them cheap. A guy that is not interested would simply tell her. Period! No issues whatsoever.

..okay....Noted...

temigracie: ...awww, my sweet mencade....have missed you like kilode....

*rolls eyes* make ur soldier no come arrest me ooo.

mencade5: *rolls eyes* make ur soldier no come arrest me ooo.

...LOL...my sojaman knows i cant cheat on him....

BTW, how are you doin??....noticed you av been off the section for a while...

runnazz:


me i prefer the 60 40 she loves me 60% i love her 40% it works for me, it can never really be 50-50 someone must feel it more no be movie na real life matters we dey reason here.

That is it!

Trust me, as time goes by, you will not know when the reverse would be the case

In fact, a lady that can love you at 40%? What eventually happens is that you will try to do everything possible to beat her in this love game.

youngds: Guy... U be learner? Most girls do this sturf u just mentioned above every time not that they dont like you but because you probably came out too strong with your emotuon and she got confused, trying see how much of her bullcrap u can take, how much u care abt her(obviously u av proved her ryt dat u by not callin cus she didnt call u) or even trying to play hard to get so she dont look easy. .. U re on a chase, u should be proud to be Hunter, so quit waiting for her to chase you cos she wont, just go for wat u want...

SECONDED

temigracie: ...LOL...my sojaman knows i cant cheat on him....

BTW, how are you doin??....noticed you av been off the section for a while...

E bi like say e don dey turn pastor small small.

Abi you no see one of mencade5's posts about preaching like a pastor today

Then you miss Ooo...it is not too late shaa...just search for it

temigracie: ...LOL...my sojaman knows i cant cheat on him....

BTW, how are you doin??....noticed you av been off the section for a while...

affirmative. I dont frequent here like before in terms of creating topics. But i do sneak in, contribute to a thread and am off again to politics section.

Am now a politician now not a lover.