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Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 7:09pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
50calibre: Fat people get no sympathy from me, I find them repellant. Its nt only "diesnt"... 1 Like |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by 50calibre(m): 7:11pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
BananaBender: Lol harsh!!! Women change their minds all the time, a super nice pot bellied guy may come along and sweep you off your feet, you won't even notice the pot belly anymore. Like this nigga down here, he may love you like no tomorrow 2 Likes
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Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Sunshinelady(f): 7:12pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
teeo:. Are u ok? Y d hostility? D person was only tryin to point out to u dat being fat & being chubby are two different things. Being chubby is very kool na, every one knws dat, but being fat...not so cool 1 Like |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 7:12pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
Oh pls! Slender girls are more flattering to look at.. Losing weight makes ppl look younger, get identical twin girls and fatten one up and let the other stay slim and you'll assume the fatter one is older cos fat just distorts facial feautures. I literally know a girl whose looks went from a 3 on a scale of 1-10 to a 9 just by losing weight, no one knew there was beauty hidden beneath her layers of lard until she put in work and shed the weight and she looked great and you could tell she felt better about herself and she became a total b!tch cos she could turn necks now so no one will hear word.. walahi fat chicks seem to be sweeter and have a better personality but that's cos of low self confidence, they know in the looks department they're not doing so great so they need extra extra personality to make up for what they lack, proof is, if you know a girl who used to be slim but later got fat when you meet her fat, she'll be a lot more humble and nice cos she's insecure and ppl might use her weight against her if she comes off as snobby. I'm slender and I dont bash fat girls but there's a lot of skinny bashing occurring here and it's laughable cos most girls claiming self love secretely dont like the way they are. Truth is most fat chicks suffer silently cos of their weight and they wish they could do something about it and they can but they're unwilling to work hard to get what they want but they want quick fixes and diet pills.. NO ONE WANTS TO BE FAT, HO HA! Girls who claim to be happy with being fat have just settled and "accepted" their fat but with their so called happiness if one morning, they miraculously lose 20 pounds, they'll be overjoyed. True, Some girls want to have curves in all the right places but they dont want to be fat, they just want like a nicki minaj or kim k bod which isnt fat but curvy. More fat chicks want to lose weight than slim ones want to gain it, let's not fool ourselves. "wow, you've added o" or "wow, you've lost weight" true to God, which one will make a girl feel good, it's the 2nd cos no one wants to be fat. You hear weight loss success stories, why do u think the word "success" is there? Congratulations on your weight loss is more common than congratulations on getting fatter. All the girls who love being fat here, pls do tell, when you sit do you not suck in that belle make shirt fine, huh? If you're so ok with it why hide it and wrap it delicately with girdles, even for men sef extra weight makes their kini look smaller, it's actually same size but it looks smaller cos of extra weight. Fat downplays good qualities, hides cheek bones, waist line, abs, collar bones and you look bloated most of the time. You get love handles, flabby arms, huge cheeks, your nose seems bigger, thunder thighs rub together and jeans rip faster, sweaty all the time and easily fatigued when climbing stairs etc. Look at Kim K when she got pregnant, no, not her body she was pregnant and she should be huge, look at her face, and see how ugly weight gain made a fine girl like her, she wasnt looking pretty at all even with extra effort from her make up artist she just wasnt stunning but after she lost the baby weight look at her now, the face wasnt designed to be fat. And yes i agree, some men love meaty girls but even the "meaty" they like is thick like nicki minaj but we know proportions like hers are unreal and very rare to find in Nigeria so they just have to make do with what's available. No man even the so-called meat lovers would choose an Eniola Badmus over a Nicki minaj/Amber rose, men really dont want fat girls, they just want slim waist, (a55 and b00b5) which kinda comes with being fat and that's why they have to manage the thick waist cos all join. Infact fat girls in Nigeria should feel blessed to live in a very fat tolerant country, i mean if you complain in fat-friendly Nigeria, just go to Europe or Asia or South America where fat ppl get dirty looks and you'll hate life. 98% of humans look better thinner, look at b4 and after weight loss pics, ppl always look better and younger in the after, some dont even resemble themselves sef. Too much denial on this thread abeg. LMAO at fat pride, una well done oh, dont choke on your meatpie sha. 12 Likes |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Sunshinelady(f): 7:21pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
teeo:. Take it easy, u r taking dis thin too personal. |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 7:23pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
selflessmaya: Oh pls! Slender girls are more flattering to look at.. Losing weight makes ppl look younger, get identical twin girls and fatten one up and let the other stay slim and you'll assume the fatter one is older cos fat just distorts facial feautures. I literally know a girl whose looks went from a 3 on a scale of 1-10 to a 9 just by losing weight, no one knew there was beauty hidden beneath her layers of lard until she put in work and shed the weight and she looked great and you could tell she felt better about herself and she became a total b!tch cos she could turn necks now so no one will hear word.. walahi fat chicks seem to be sweeter and have a better personality but that's cos of low self confidence, they know in the looks department they're not doing so great so they need extra extra personality to make up for what they lack, proof is, if you know a girl who used to be slim but later got fat when you meet her fat, she'll be a lot more humble and nice cos she's insecure and ppl might use her weight against her if she comes off as snobby.Does she look better thinner? 6 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Eyop: 7:25pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
CharmO1: Does she look better thinner? Do the comparison with an healthy slim person and not the AIDS victim you displayed there. 5 Likes |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by komek(m): 7:26pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
Jahniece: Its very true and I need help too. Look at how big u are becoming, u will not hit the gym or quit eating ru,bbish. Soon u will join the queue of pple who want to be pitied. 2 Likes |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Eyop: 7:27pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
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Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 7:30pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
Eyop:Actually she's not an AIDS victim. She's got anorexia. I'm just trying to understand if all thinness is good. This girl was a normal sized girl but decided to lose weight so she can become a model and this is what happened. I prefer when people use slim not thin. |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 7:30pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
CharmO1: Having been on both ends of the scales: skinny with ribs sticking out (teen years) and my current size (size 20, stats 45-40-48), I can say a lot about size matters. My dears, it's an issue when you're overweight because people's first impression of you is: lazy glutton. We are the cause of our social and romantic problems. Holy molly, you're size 20, no? I honestly don't think going to the gym would be enough to change your size that much. You're better off with weight-watchers(or whatever Jennifer Hudson used and what Fat Joe is using). And perhaps, you can combine that with whatever routine you do at the gym. 4 Likes |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 7:31pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
Sunshinelady: . Take it easy, u r taking dis thin too personal. |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Eyop: 7:33pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
CharmO1: Actually she's not an AIDS victim. She's got anorexia. I'm just trying to understand if all thinness is good. This girl was a normal sized girl but decided to lose weight so she can become a model and this is what happened. I prefer when people use slim not thin. Yeah i know. She looks sick and not even tiny though some people have different interpretations of a slim girl. But i know when i see a slim or fat girl. |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 7:34pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
CharmO1: Actually she's not an AIDS victim. She's got anorexia. I'm just trying to understand if all thinness is good. This girl was a normal sized girl but decided to lose weight so she can become a model and this is what happened. I prefer when people use slim not thin. This is what I was trying so hard to make people understand. Whatever size you are, just do yourself some good. Accept it and keep fit. That's all there is to it. |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 7:34pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
selflessmaya: Nicki Minaj and Amber Rose aren't "meaty" - they are normal. Both of them can't be bigger than size 12, and that's the perfect size for chics. However, I'd say the likes of: Chrisette Michele, Jazmine Sullivan, and Jill Scott are meaty. But they're still extremely sexy, pretty, and attractive. But once you start getting bigger than these three - you need to apply for gym-rat license and turn into a vegetarian. 3 Likes |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Romanciella(f): 7:35pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
CharmO1: Having been on both ends of the scales: skinny with ribs sticking out (teen years) and my current size (size 20, stats 45-40-48), I can say a lot about size matters. My dears, it's an issue when you're overweight because people's first impression of you is: lazy glutton. We are the cause of our social and romantic problems.oh wow..... 2 Likes |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by honeric01(m): 7:38pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
Atmmachine: I hate Nigerians.. 1: Stop pulling stats from the thin air. 2: Learn to speak for yourself and yourself only! 1 Like |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Sunshinelady(f): 7:41pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
safarigirl: this thread is nonsense. As far as I know, unless you look like Eniola Badmus or you don't know how to package yourself well, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong in being fat in NIGERIA.toolz is not fat she is 'curvy'. Haba , a fat person is som1 like Eniola Badmus (wen she acted Jenifa, cos now she has slimmed down a bit sef) |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Eyop: 7:45pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
Sunshinelady: toolz is not fat she is 'curvy'. Haba , a fat person is som1 like Eniola Badmus (wen she acted Jenifa, cos now she has slimmed down a bit sef) Fatness has category and toolz own is slightly a combination of the 2 and there's a red flag i.e a high tendency of blowing up after giving birth though hers is still by far better than Eniola Badmus. If Toolz remains the way she is after marriage/having kids,then no wahala but i doubt. |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by perry2020(f): 7:45pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
Team#Big#BOLD#BEAUTIFUL. I love the way I am n m gonna rock it while I last.life is too short to be getting depressed over size,height,complexion or whatsoever. |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Sunshinelady(f): 7:46pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
Ishilove:. Dats d thin, most fat pple are usually agressiv cos dey always hav to be on d defensive, to protect their self esteem. (No offense, no chew my head join e joor) 2 Likes |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 7:46pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
SirShymex:Yessir. I'm a size 20. I don't want to lose weight if I wanted to I would have have liposuction last year (my uncle's a plastic surgeon) but I'm not bothered about it cos I'm healthy and for the most part happy. If the weight does come off, kudos and if it doesn't no wahala. I'm not interested in looking like a mannequin. Thank you very much. 2 Likes |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nmeri17: 7:48pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
Jayne2014: I love my size. I love it too 1 Like |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by lyricalz: 7:48pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
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Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by lyricalz: 7:48pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
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Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by lyricalz: 7:50pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
God is mighty, he has made all girls pretty. As for me I love dem BIG. I know there isn't much guys like me but there is a considerable number is out there. |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Sunshinelady(f): 7:52pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
2legit2qwt: I think you're getting them mixed up.. Gbam! Fat ppl on here are coverin up by sayin dey hav more hips & boobs, wonder who told dem dat being fat means u hav curves. One can be slim & curvy, & on d oda hand, most fat pple aint even curvy 3 Likes |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Ishilove: 7:55pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
Sunshinelady: . Dats d thin, most fat pple are usually agressiv cos dey always hav to be on d defensive, to protect their self esteem. (No offense, no chew my head join e joor)That's bullshit, sister. Why won't they be aggressive? When society constantly picks on plus sized people, overtime it gets to them and they react differently. Some become like oyibo rats (timid and shiit like that), others become lions, while the remaining just simply learn to ignore. 3 Likes |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 7:56pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
CharmO1: Yessir. I'm a size 20. I don't want to lose weight if I wanted to I would have have liposuction last year (my uncle's a plastic surgeon) but I'm not bothered about it cos I'm healthy and for the most part happy. If the weight does come off, kudos and if it doesn't no wahala. I'm not interested in looking like a mannequin. Thank you very much. Yo, for your own health and to stay alive longer, size 20 is ridiculously big. And sometimes, we need to ditch pride when it comes to staying alive. If Big Pun had listened, he'd still be alive today...but he never did, hence we lost one of the greatest rappers to excessive fat and being over-weight. It isn't about being "happy"(I believe happy in this context means being comfortable in your own skin). It's about being able to be perfectly functional, and maximising everything out of life, without jeopardising anything with saturated fat which can cause high cholesterol, and untimely death. 3 Likes |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 7:56pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
teeo: Wahala dey oo. Anyways some of us don't dig thin, tiny slim girls. Chubby girls rock. Mehn, in romantic disposition, i hate tiny/slim/extremely slim girls worse than death. Naturally, I do have no feelings for them at all. Am very sure even if i meet them nak..ed, nothing will move in my body. But at the same time, i am not pleased by fat girls. Though i find them more atrractive than the slim/tiny counterparts, i dont think i can sincerely be a honest relationship with one. I love them dark skinned, not fat and not slim(but fleshy enough), average height with a lovely face. Not those faces whereby if i wake up at night and see who is lying down beside me, i will be feeling frightened like i've just seen a vampire. Lol. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by shyshally(f): 7:57pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
To 50calibre and the rest who think fatness is caused by eating too much food n nt exercising only,you seriously need to do sme research on dat b4 concluding,der r oda factors like genes n an abnormality with your cells.just smh 4 sme pple here,you have to be fat and be called fat before you'll understand what they go through,starving demselves,crying to sleep,locking themselves up in the room to avoid meeting people, |
Re: The Agony Of A Nigerian Fat Girl by Nobody: 8:01pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
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