lokito: Op also add this:
They should stop drinking and smoking like their fathers rather they should start cooking and cleaning like their mothers

handysuzy:

1. Asking a guy you just met for recharge card
This is very annoying. It makes you look cheap. A guy met you in the afternoon, gave you a call in the evening and you are already asking
him to send you a recharge card. Trust me, that guy can never respect you. He might eventually send you the recharge card, but the only thing on his mind would be to sleep with you once or twice and get rid of you.

2. Judging a guy by his looks
I believe guys should be the ones that should be hell bent on beauty and physical appearance. Dont fall for a guy chiefly because he looks good physically. You need to access his acumen, sense of judgment, level-headedness, dreams etc. What makes a good guy is by far more than just looks.

3. Having sex with a guy the day you met him
This is uncalled for. You automatically lose some respect if you allow this guy to get down with you the first day you met him. Little kisses here and there and some cuddling would do, if you are tempted, let him feel your boobs just to get yourself wet. The longer you make a guy wait, the more he will appreciate you and value your body. No one values what he gets easily.

4. Pouting of lips to take a selfie
Do we have to do this? Its so disgusting. Okay fine, I am guilty of this too and am going to stop. Every picture of a girl on facebook shows her pouting her lips to look pretty. This doesn't make us look prettier; it only make us look childish. I didnt realise it makes me look like a kid until my boyfriend told me 5 days ago.

5. Manipulating a guy to over spend for you on a date.
Because he looks rich and came to the eatery in a car makes you feel you can drain his pocket abi. This instantaneously tells the guy that you are a hungry girl and from a very poor background. Cant you just order for just one ice cream or a soft drink and be fine with this cool dude. Even if you do not like him, do not do this. Trust me, the guy will never call you again and if he does he only wants to get laid just once. The worst is taking your friend along so that you can both finish him.

6. Forcing yourself on a guy that doesn't give a damn about you
If a guy likes you, he will show it. Dont you ever force yourself on a guy. You can indicate some green lights but don't force yourself on him. If you do he will treat you like shit. I have read some post here on Nairaland telling girls how to woo a guy. Dont try it. There are a million subtle ways to make him see that you like him than forcing yourself on him and asking him out outrightly.

7. Keeping too many boyfriends
Cant we just be cool with one guy we love? 8 boyfriends equals to 8 dicks. Jesus Christ! How many guys are combing you?

8. Excessive Make Up
Excessive make up make us look like masquerades, ojuju calabar like Tiwa Savage. Trust me, guys dont like girls with excessive make-ups. I have heard guys say it more than a thousand times how much they hate excessive make up on ladies. Look natural and if you must apply make ups, make it very lite.

handysuzy:

Dont be so quick to judge bro. The fact that I came up with this doesnt make me a saint. I am not saying 'am a bad girl though.

3sha4lyf:

This world is very funny. You do, people complain; you no do, people complain. Wetin man go do na?

1) Okies, very true... But some guys like it when you demand something even on the first date. They be like "lemme know her spec/taste".

2) You're right. Unfortunately, no matter what a guy has upstairs, downstairs, inside or outside himself, if he doesn't appear "well" at first sight, you may not take a second look at him to discover what goodies he has upstairs etc. They call it Packaging

3) I wish guys still think you're cheap when you sha-g dem on d first date. Then how come some first date sha-gs turn out to be couples celebrating anniversaries? I dunno y. TBH, give it on day 1, give it on day 90, the summary remains that you gave it. What matters is how you manage the aftermath afterwards.

4) I can't agree with you any less. Pouting, I would say, is not for everyone and not for every time. If you discover your best camera looks, and it's pouting, do it. If you're unsure, ask your friend how it looks. If it doesn't fit you, just manage your smile and forget about pouting. Identify your selling points. .

5) Yes. Yes. Yes. If you don't want him, don't use him. But sometimes, guys don't wanna hear No! We don't wanna take No for an answer. Girls, just refrain from placing orders that you don't need, and you can't pay for if the guy's wallet suddenly got missing. . Lol.

6) Truly... When it comes too cheap, it's taken for a roller coaster ride. Tell him you love him, but don't act like you'll die as he's mot in love with you. You're as good as dead to him, yet he'll use what's left of you and toss u when he's tired of your remains.

7) Hmmmm. I can't judge oooo. So what makes you comfortable. If you can manage a football team, welldone. If it's only the goalkeeper you can handle, face him only. Only you can tell how many eggs you wanna put in a basket or how many baskets you wanna put your eggs in. .

Funny enough, some guys won't take you out if you haven't got make-up, false nails, fake hair, boar-eyelashes etc. They'll even be the ones to ask you of everything's alright, the day you decide to go on your natural hair.
What can one do?!

TBH, it's different strokes for different folks.

@Handysuzy, you're too much for this "counter-post" I've just learnt and I'm still learning. Welldone. (y)

litetias:
Actually they are. If not we would be stuck with por*n and our hands

Einsthawkton:
joblessness

4. Pouting of lips to take a selfie Do we have to do this? Its so disgusting. Okay fine, I am guilty of this too and am going to stop. Every picture of a girl on facebook shows her pouting her lips to look pretty. This doesn't make us look prettier; it only make us look childish. I didnt realise it makes me look like a kid until my boyfriend told me 5 days ago.

Xtarxhyne: don't KOBALIZE me o

I will

Tazmode: d transforma no wet. Make i bring pure water. Electric shock challenge

vanstanzy:

No way!!!!! They dont do this, or do they?

firstolalekan:


# Thinking that every guy that smiles or give nice gesture is lusting after them.
# Thinking because they have holes between the legs, they can get or have anything they want
# Borrowing money and not wanting to pay back. wtf! And if you ask, they will start thinking that you're not cool or one is not a gentleman. Girls una dey crase. I be mumu or father Christmas?
#pouting their thick smelly lips for selfie is what annoys me the most.
#When they misbehave and truly deserves hot slap, they still want you to pamper, beg and treat them "like a lady" nonsense!

farano: No. 3 is none of your business or lemme say it's nobody's business @op

koyyes: Good points op but i'm sorry to say that you've completely wasted your time. why? check how many males are viewing this thread at this very moment. alot of guys/men have these kind of girls as babes. they only come out here and make noise about what they ironically love and these girls know it because they've been encouraged to do them- its part of their(guys) guilty pleasure if not,why are'nt deeper life girls hot cakes huh?

Danhumprey: That number 8 exactly explain what I think. I don't dig make-up,but if a girl must use make-up,it should be light make up!

Elantracey:

am 100% sure am not guilty of any .

lokito: Op also add this:
They should stop drinking and smoking like their fathers rather they should start cooking and cleaning like their mothers

lokito: Op also add this:
They should stop drinking and smoking like their fathers rather they should start cooking and cleaning like their mothers

farano: No. 3 is none of your business or lemme say it's nobody's business @op

farano: No. 3 is none of your business or lemme say it's nobody's business @op

Coldfeet: Not in your heart but in your soul!

Was once taken from you now reconciled with you!

Beside you and by you is where I'll be till the air in me is exhausted....


Thank you for fanning this embers from a lil spark to a raging inferno! Thank you for believing in me.

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farano: No. 3 is none of your business or lemme say it's nobody's business @op

Worksunlimited: The thin wey dey annoy me for woman - Na when dem go wear tight jeans and tight round neck shirt, and whenever dem 1 siddon dem go dey pull the shirt down over 10X per sitting.. If you know say the shirt go jump each tym u siddon - make all man , why u wear am?

farano: No. 3 is none of your business or lemme say it's nobody's business @op

Afghanistan:
nor mind me o. The lips fit you die. Shey u go allow me kiss you?