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How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by justinlmj(m): 5:05pm On Sep 05, 2014
will start with online...

Even though most guys think they know how to
text girls in order to build attraction and interest,
many of them regularly commit simple mistakes
that end up murdering any attracting the girl
might have had.

The worst part is, these are simple mistakes that
could easily be avoid. In fact, there are 3 very
common, yet very deadly mistakes that guys
often make.

I'm going to tell you what they are and also how
to fix them. See if you are guilty of some of these
pitfalls and make sure to very do them again.
OK, here we go...

●Deadly Text Game Mistake #1: NOT
Waiting Until You Get A Reply Before Sending Her
More Texts
You should never send a girl multiple text
messages without her first replying back to your
original message.

The only exception is when
your first message did not get delivered and your
phone gives you an error message.
Other than that, you should ALWAYS wait until
she respond to your first text before you bombard
her in box with more messages.

Why, you ask?

Because not doing so only communicate to her
that you are needy and desperate. Just like so
many of the lovable losers that she'd interacted
with in the past.

This is a huge TURN OFF for women!

It lowers your value and gives her power over
you. The more you keep texting her without her
replying, the more it becomes apparent that she
is the prize and you are just begging to talk to
her.
Just remember, you just met this girl. Don't give
her the impression that you are already picking
out the wedding dress.

more to come

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Re: How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by justinlmj(m): 3:12pm On Sep 06, 2014
Deadly Text Game Mistake #2: Making
Your First Text To Her BORING

The first text message to a girl you just met is
the most important text you will ever send her.
This is the text that will mostly determine
whether she respond back to you, so don't make
it boring!
Most guys make the first message they send out
look like this:

"Hi, this is John from the club last night. I just
wanted to say Hi, and that I really enjoy meeting
you...blah blah blah."

Don't do that! It's boring and, worse, it doesn't
compel her to respond back.
Here is a sad truth that you must understand...

*You Are NOT Special To Her*

OK, maybe I didn't have to scream. Sorry about
that.
But listen, the truth is, the girl (especially if she's
hot) probably gave her numbers out to a bunch
of different guys last night (girls do that.) So
sending some vanilla text message is not going
to make her remember you. And if she doesn't
remember you, she won't reply!
Instead you should say something attention
grabbing that also relates to the time when you
met her. Something like...

"Man what was the deal with that crazy guy on
the dance floor last night?! I think he gave me a
black eye - John"

Or...

"Oh my god. I just realized who you look like..."

Girls are VERY interested in their looks and this
statement is sure to peak her interest.

Also, by bring up something funny or interesting
that happened last night, you not only remind her
who you are but also pull her back to the
emotional state that she was in when she met
you (and having fun.) This is a very powerful
technique and very important for building
attraction...

more to come.. smiley smiley smiley

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Re: How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by danchuzzy(m): 3:40pm On Sep 06, 2014
can u arrange dis copied work properly?














PS: Do well to state d source!
Re: How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by hatux: 7:10pm On Sep 06, 2014
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Re: How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by valmunich(m): 7:18pm On Sep 06, 2014
Where's your sauce kid?
Re: How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by Chuksemi(m): 7:42pm On Sep 06, 2014
valmunich: Where's your sauce kid?
Where is that guy? I haven't heard anything from him since carolina..
Re: How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by valmunich(m): 7:50pm On Sep 06, 2014
Chuksemi:
Where is that guy? I haven't heard anything from him since carolina..
Hmmm, you're really not current with his songs
Re: How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by Chuksemi(m): 8:01pm On Sep 06, 2014
valmunich:
Hmmm, you're really not current with his songs
Has he any new songs?
Re: How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by valmunich(m): 8:15pm On Sep 06, 2014
Chuksemi:
Has he any new songs?
Lots of new songs
Re: How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by jefflittlecent(m): 8:41pm On Sep 06, 2014
danchuzzy: can u arrange dis copied work properly?














PS: Do well to state d source!
na wa for u oo, if person write book he no go put reference before? Wait even me dey wait d reference.
Re: How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by Chuksemi(m): 8:41am On Sep 07, 2014
valmunich:
Lots of new songs

Recommend the top three please.
Re: How To Talk To A Girl...You Have Never Met..Both Online And Real Life by justinlmj(m): 9:19am On Sep 07, 2014
Deadly Text Game Mistake #3: Sending
Texts That Are Too FORMAL

Remember, you are trying to hook up with this
girl, not audit her taxes. So don't send her
messages like...

"Dear Stacey, I'm really glad we had a chance to
talk last night and I had a very pleasant time..."

Instead, talk to her like you two are already
friends. Be playful, teasing, and fun. Don't be
afraid to use slang, misspellings, and choppy
sentences. (The obvious exception would be if
she is foreign or is highly educated and is turned
by bad grammar and slang.)
For example, a normal text like,

"How is your day
going?"

could be said in a more fun and less
formal way like...

"Hey! Man, I think I just had the weirdest day of
my life. Yours must be pretty crazy, i bet."

This message also serve to arouse her curiosity
and make her wonder what was so weird about
your day.

Remember our ultimate goal is to escalate the
texts to this girl to a sexual level so it's best to
start off with a playful tone, rather than a formal
one.

Now you might be thinking that you'd never make
these stupid mistakes, but I can't tell you how
many guys I've seen repeatedly make these text
game mistakes and...

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