Elantracey: Its far better to get married to someone who you know you can enjoy your marriage with even through difficulties than someone you'll have to manage , your family won't be in the marriage with you , its just between you and your spouse , by the way have you tried talking to your family at least to make them see your choice here or the guy if he could change he's religion for you , at least just start from somewhere so you won't make a mistake you'll regret later.

Danhumprey: You constantly mistake he's for his when trying to personalise a male's property/action/views/inclination,etc. Stop it. Or else it might affect you in future.

Dannylux: You completely avoided what's most important in this issue; why did your family object to the marriage?
Maybe solution will come forth whence you answer this.

Adaeze003: Omoge! Give us the details...



Hi

mizshawny: Many of u commenting here are just here for insults instead to advice, for whatever little advice u can give,type it...not insults. If you can't do that, FREAKING get off this page!!! The truth is that my mom and my bf's elder sister have had an argument in d past over our relationship. My mom said the family is rude, that since the elder sister is like the mother of the family(yes, his mother is late), that I will suffer when I get into the family. He's yoruba and I'm a deltan. My mom says my bf would more allegiance to his family than me and our subsequent family,when we get married. My bf doesn't exhibit any of such traits for the 5yrs I've known him, though on few occasions his family have succeeded in swaying his thoughts but I don't blame him for that bcus I have my own moments too. As par d religious aspect, we r both christians but not of the same church denomination, my mom believes our union is purely interfaith, my bf believes its not. For me, I care about him too much to see facts, truth or reason from both sides. I care and love my family and my bf and I don't want to lost any. Thanks

Dannylux:


Ada Ada, How are you?

mizshawny:
we've been dating for a long while now and the prospect of marriage have been on our minds. Due to some incidents that happened some years back my family doesn't want me associating or dating him anymore. the topic of different spiritual views has been involved. I've been defiant concerning what my family think about him, though he's not rich(for now) I still love and care for him. he's the other half of me, that's how u classify him. but this my defiance has made me like a black sheep in my family...there's so much to say but I'll cut it short to pleas and advice. Guys and Ladies what should I do

Many of u commenting here are just here for insults instead to advice, for whatever little advice u can give,type it...not insults. If you can't do that, FREAKING get off this page!!! The truth is that my mom and my bf's elder sister have had an argument in d past over our relationship. My mom said the family is rude, that since the elder sister is like the mother of the family(yes, his mother is late), that I will suffer when I get into the family. He's yoruba and I'm a deltan. My mom says my bf would more allegiance to his family than me and our subsequent family,when we get married. My bf doesn't exhibit any of such traits for the 5yrs I've known him, though on few occasions his family have succeeded in swaying his thoughts but I don't blame him for that bcus I have my own moments too. As par d religious aspect, we r both christians but not of the same church denomination, my mom believes our union is purely interfaith, my bf believes its not. For me, I care about him too much to see facts, truth or reason from both sides. I care and love my family and my bf and I don't want to lose any. Thanks