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Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by Smartsyn(m): 12:36pm On Sep 09, 2014
Have you been given the silent treatment before, a case where you're trying to make a case with someone that offended you, and s/he just kept silent on you, leaving you to be barking like a mad dog... Some people have an 'A1' in that, and even when they're wrong, you may end up being the one apologising for peace to reign..

Have you ever been given the silent treatment?
Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by ideyhere(f): 12:38pm On Sep 09, 2014
I'm the specialist in that grin
Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by Brite02(m): 12:46pm On Sep 09, 2014
have done that several times, but am learning how to cough
Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by lomaxx: 12:54pm On Sep 09, 2014
I see it as a dense form of immaturity. It's very juvenile. If you have issues with somebody or anybody, be an adult and sort it out with communication.

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Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by Nobody: 1:01pm On Sep 09, 2014
lomaxx: I see it as a dense form of immaturity. It's very juvenile. If you have issues with somebody or anybody, be an adult and sort it out with communication.
My dear u spoke d truth, my ex used to do dat weneva he offends me nd I complain he d just not respond so I tot of a way to pay him bak(he s always d offender) me like to talk well well. On dis particular day he offended me as usual, I asked him(on bbm) y is he always like dat he just read nd ignored(very annoying)
Me no dey waste time I just del am comot from my bbm. Till today if he c me e no dey fit talk.

I bliv if u have issues wit me let's talk, I don't bliv in talking to much but @ least let's sort it out or u Bleep off. Simple

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Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by GANDALF1(m): 1:06pm On Sep 09, 2014
Some pple do it because they are scared to say something that will hurt you. Its normal in relationships where one person has more love than the other.
Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by ideee03(f): 1:14pm On Sep 09, 2014
Kai u be no nonsense babe ooo

So after deleting him you guys broke up?
rozzay:
My dear u spoke d truth, my ex used to do dat weneva he offends me nd I complain he d just not respond so I tot of a way to pay him bak(he s always d offender) me like to talk well well. On dis particular day he offended me as usual, I asked him(on bbm) y is he always like dat he just read nd ignored(very annoying)
Me no dey waste time I just del am comot from my bbm. Till today if he c me e no dey fit talk.

I bliv if u have issues wit me let's talk, I don't bliv in talking to much but @ least let's sort it out or u Bleep off. Simple
Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by Nobody: 1:19pm On Sep 09, 2014
ideee03: Kai u be no nonsense babe ooo

So after deleting him you guys broke up?
Yes dear, I just told him off cos it was pretty obvious he wasn't gonna change nd I aint got time for nonsense
Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by Smartsyn(m): 1:20pm On Sep 09, 2014
GANDALF1: Some pple do it because they are scared to say something that will hurt you. Its normal in relationships where one person has more love than the other.
my dear, it is not a matter of trying not to hurt someone, it's a case where you offended someone or say something that boiled someone up, who then tries to express how angry s/he is, you just keep mute instead of apologising or explaining yourself and in the process making a fool of the person..

I hate it with passion..
Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by GANDALF1(m): 1:30pm On Sep 09, 2014
Smartsyn: my dear, it is not a matter of trying not to hurt someone, it's a case where you offended someone or say something that boiled someone up, who then tries to express how angry s/he is, you just keep mute instead of apologising or explaining yourself and in the process making a fool of the person..

I hate it with passion..

Ok. I get you
Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by priscaoge(f): 1:48pm On Sep 09, 2014
And I was even thinking that am d only one on thisundecidedundecided.It makes me feel u have a grudge against me n it hurts me so badly. I can't keep malice. So I believe if we are having issues,let's dig it instead of keeping silent. That was Y I asked "Why do people hold on to Grudge" in my last thread. I have deleted n blocked many of my friends because of this attitude. At least if I approach u because of what u feel I did to u,Y don't u say ur mind instead of ignoring me or claiming "All is well" while deep down u it's a lie. It's annoying biko
Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by priscaoge(f): 1:52pm On Sep 09, 2014
rozzay:
My dear u spoke d truth, my ex used to do dat weneva he offends me nd I complain he d just not respond so I tot of a way to pay him bak(he s always d offender) me like to talk well well. On dis particular day he offended me as usual, I asked him(on bbm) y is he always like dat he just read nd ignored(very annoying)
Me no dey waste time I just del am comot from my bbm. Till today if he c me e no dey fit talk.

I bliv if u have issues wit me let's talk, I don't bliv in talking to much but @ least let's sort it out or u Bleep off. Simple
Lol...I de delete no be small,especially when I know I have tried to sort things out with u. Reading someone's msg n ignoring it is childish. If u won't talk to me or reply my pings,then Y are u on my list?undecided
Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by Nobody: 1:53pm On Sep 09, 2014
priscaoge:
Lol...I de delete no be small,especially when I know I have tried to sort things out with u. Reading someone's msg n ignoring it is childish. If u won't talk to me or reply my pings,then Y are u on my list?undecided
I wonder o.
Re: Your Silent Treatment Experience.. by ideee03(f): 1:58pm On Sep 09, 2014
Haha,nice
rozzay:
Yes dear, I just told him off cos it was pretty obvious he wasn't gonna change nd I aint got time for nonsense

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