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Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Ibiyomee(f): 8:30am On Sep 10, 2014
Leaving your spouse at home and going outside of marriage for sex is the most despicable, dehumanizing, and self-disrespecting thing that can happen to you, your spouse and your marriage. Just the thought of undressing, unzipping and unashamedly pulling down your pants and exposing yourself to someone else other than your spouse and coming home to do the same with your spouse is disgusting enough to stop any decent person from committing adultery. The Bible commands, "Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well. Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares? Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers. May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer— may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love. Why, my son, be intoxicated with another man’s wife? Why embrace the bosom of a wayward woman? For your ways are in full view of the Lord, and he examines all your paths." Proverbs 5:15-21
... l heard in one seminar that 62% of married women are faithful to their marriaqes whereas men have dropped to 38.
l want to ask,'when men unfaithfulness is so alarming,62%,are they held up in the act by uranus voyagers, UFOs,robots or sagitarius holocusts?'.lf they aren't held up by non of these for the aforesaid non-conformed act,then who are their falling partners in the act? ARE THEY WOMEN?.So shouldn't the penalty for the heinous sin be equal?
ceteris paribus
feel free to advice people indulging in such act...God bless our homes

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Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 9:04am On Sep 10, 2014
REASONS WHY MEN GO OUTSIDE:
NATURAL REASONS ARE....
1)not contented with what he has..or gets..(MALES have natural EGO ...which goes down to the HORMONE we release...that's TESTOSTERONE)
THIS hormone has a REAL SEXUAL driving FORCE.
Dats Y..most ladies dat are known as TOM BOYS or INTERSEX have diz hormones in large quantities like d males...
EXAMPLE is SEMENYA of south Africa...
SO it will only take a MAN dat has GUTS to stay put with one woman...


2)...LADIES dress SEDUCTIVELY diz days thereby arousing men often..since it has bin documented dat MEN get moved by what they SEE.

MEDICAL REASONS ARE ...BELOW.

3)....FRIGIDITY on the LADIES part.

4)....VAGINISMUS likely from PID...previous genital trauma or infected episiotomy.

5)..CHRONICALLY sick wife or partner.

6)...SUBFERTILITY...

7)...POSITIVE FAMILY HISTORY WOMANIZING ..(some women see this, yet submit themselves for marriage).

SOCIOCULTURAL REASONS....ARE..

cool...NAGGING LADY...(HELL on earth).

9)...BOSSY WIFE..(not ready for sex on demand even when there is no evidence of REASON for abstinence)

PLS...ADD YOURS...

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Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by ammyluv2002(f): 3:33pm On Sep 12, 2014
kayciano: REASONS WHY MEN GO OUTSIDE:
NATURAL REASONS ARE....
1)not contented with what he has..or gets..(MALES have natural EGO ...which goes down to the HORMONE we release...that's TESTOSTERONE)
THIS hormone has a REAL SEXUAL driving FORCE.
Dats Y..most ladies dat are known as TOM BOYS or INTERSEX have diz hormones in large quantities like d males...
EXAMPLE is SEMENYA of south Africa...
SO it will only take a MAN dat has GUTS to stay put with one woman...


2)...LADIES dress SEDUCTIVELY diz days thereby arousing men often..since it has bin documented dat MEN get moved by what they SEE.

MEDICAL REASONS ARE ...BELOW.

3)....FRIGIDITY on the LADIES part.

4)....VAGINISMUS likely from PID...previous genital trauma or infected episiotomy.

5)..CHRONICALLY sick wife or partner.

6)...SUBFERTILITY...

7)...POSITIVE FAMILY HISTORY WOMANIZING ..(some women see this, yet submit themselves for marriage).

SOCIOCULTURAL REASONS....ARE..

cool...NAGGING LADY...(HELL on earth).

9)...BOSSY WIFE..(not ready for sex on demand even when there is no evidence of REASON for abstinence)

PLS...ADD YOURS...
True...Truer....Truest grin grin
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Skybright227: 5:29pm On Sep 12, 2014
Really don't know what to say,,,very shameless tho

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Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by chii8(f): 5:47pm On Sep 12, 2014
Sorry for derailing but what could make one's spouse be in a habit of watching indecent movies and pictures.
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 5:59pm On Sep 12, 2014
chii8: Sorry for derailing but what could make one's spouse be in a habit of watching indecent movies and pictures.

...Masturbative Issues.
That's just one part...
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by 5minsmadness: 6:55pm On Sep 12, 2014
chii8: Sorry for derailing but what could make one's spouse be in a habit of watching indecent movies and pictures.
He's not getting enough of the real thing. Simple.
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by gidjah(m): 7:08pm On Sep 12, 2014
MAY be the man is tired wit one meal every day!,abi wetin we go say about the matter?
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by rexana: 6:17am On Sep 13, 2014
Noted
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Pavore9: 6:58am On Sep 13, 2014
Adultery is NOT a solution 2 whatever one goes thru in marriage,no matter how d heart tries to justify it. lt is pain coated in bliss which reveals itself sooner or later for what it really is & d society that justifies it abandons one when yawa gas!
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 7:09am On Sep 13, 2014
gidjah: MAY be the man is tired wit one meal every day!,abi wetin we go say about the matter?

Yeah, may your wife never be "tired wit one meal every day!"

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Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by cococandy(f): 8:20am On Sep 13, 2014
Reasons why women commit adultery

1) Temptations from outsiders. Some men don't let married women be even after they've had babies. A woman who's not strong can fall for such temptation especially if the wooer is better than her husband.

2)Boring husband. When the wife is the out going type and husband is the reserved type of person,sooner or later,the wife is likely to wander out in search for some excitement.

3)Some women are natural cheats,even with no reason,they just have to find a reason to cheat.even if the man is up to standard in every way,the thrill of a new affair and a new handsome guy giving them attention on the side is enough to make them cheat.

4) Need for attention. Women crave their men's attention. I don't know why that is. But when a woman is starved of attention,she's more liekly to fall for the new guy by the corner who makes her feel like a princess and appreciates her beauty,unlike the husband that has 'seen her finish'

5) Financial reasons. I would be pretending if I didn't say some women cheat on their husbands for the sake of money.
Job promotions,new job aquisition,even if the boss is forcing you at the risk of loosing your job,all join for financial reasons.

6)Lack of love. Some women married their husbands out of necessity. Social reasons,financial reasons etc etc. But he's not truly in possession of their hearts. No emotional connection. This kind of woman will keep cheating until she gets tired or gets caught.(There's no guarantee she'll stop even after getting caught). She's vainly searching for something that's missing in her marriage.

7) Under endowed husband.
Don't act surprised. Your wife can cheat on you for the reason that you're not well endowed down there to give her the necessary O.


*still typing....
Brb.

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Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 5:27pm On Sep 13, 2014
[quote =cococandy] true talk sha [/quote]

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Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Ibiyomee(f): 6:01pm On Sep 13, 2014
On points!... cococandy

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Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by DukeNija(m): 7:12pm On Sep 13, 2014
cococandy: Reasons why women commit adultery

1) Temptations from outsiders. Some men don't let married women be even after they've had babies. A woman who's not strong can fall for such temptation especially if the wooer is better than her husband.

2)Boring husband. When the wife is the out going type and husband is the reserved type of person,sooner or later,the wife is likely to wander out in search for some excitement.

3)Some women are natural cheats,even with no reason,they just have to find a reason to cheat.even if the man is up to standard in every way,the thrill of a new affair and a new handsome guy giving them attention on the side is enough to make them cheat.

4) Need for attention. Women crave their men's attention. I don't know why that is. But when a woman is starved of attention,she's more liekly to fall for the new guy by the corner who makes her feel like a princess and appreciates her beauty,unlike the husband that has 'seen her finish'

5) Financial reasons. I would be pretending if I didn't say some women cheat on their husbands for the sake of money.
Job promotions,new job aquisition,even if the boss is forcing you at the risk of loosing your job,all join for financial reasons.

6)Lack of love. Some women married their husbands out of necessity. Social reasons,financial reasons etc etc. But he's not truly in possession of their hearts. No emotional connection. This kind of woman will keep cheating until she gets tired or gets caught.(There's no guarantee she'll stop even after getting caught). She's vainly searching for something that's missing in her marriage.

7) Under endowed husband.
Don't act surprised. Your wife can cheat on you for the reason that you're not well endowed down there to give her the necessary O.


*still typing....
Brb.

Chop Knuckle! Num one on point esp 9ja Men.

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Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 8:27pm On Sep 13, 2014
Nigerian men have the exclusive right to cheat because we pay the bills shocked shocked. We go through alot of stress trying to fend for the family, so we deserve the extra pleasure from flirting with young girls we meet at work shocked.Nigerian women on the other hand don't have that right and that is why they get thrown out of the house whenever they are caught cheating shocked.Yes! because we spend so much money to marry you and even after marriage, we work our aszzes off to fend for you. shocked
cococandy: Reasons why women commit adultery

1) Temptations from outsiders. Some men don't let married women be even after they've had babies. A woman who's not strong can fall for such temptation especially if the wooer is better than her husband.

2)Boring husband. When the wife is the out going type and husband is the reserved type of person,sooner or later,the wife is likely to wander out in search for some excitement.

3)Some women are natural cheats,even with no reason,they just have to find a reason to cheat.even if the man is up to standard in every way,the thrill of a new affair and a new handsome guy giving them attention on the side is enough to make them cheat.

4) Need for attention. Women crave their men's attention. I don't know why that is. But when a woman is starved of attention,she's more liekly to fall for the new guy by the corner who makes her feel like a princess and appreciates her beauty,unlike the husband that has 'seen her finish'

5) Financial reasons. I would be pretending if I didn't say some women cheat on their husbands for the sake of money.
Job promotions,new job aquisition,even if the boss is forcing you at the risk of loosing your job,all join for financial reasons.

6)Lack of love. Some women married their husbands out of necessity. Social reasons,financial reasons etc etc. But he's not truly in possession of their hearts. No emotional connection. This kind of woman will keep cheating until she gets tired or gets caught.(There's no guarantee she'll stop even after getting caught). She's vainly searching for something that's missing in her marriage.

7) Under endowed husband.
Don't act surprised. Your wife can cheat on you for the reason that you're not well endowed down there to give her the necessary O.


*still typing....
Brb.
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by cococandy(f): 8:44pm On Sep 13, 2014
Ok.
In a case where the woman is the bread winner,she reserves the right to cheat EXCLUSIVELY while the man stays faithful.

But if she shares the bills with her husband,she's reserves the right to cheat as much as he does.

cheesy grin

Okokobioko(Lmao @ this new funny slang)
donpeey22: Nigerian men have the exclusive right to cheat because we pay the bills shocked shocked. We go through alot of stress trying to fend for the family, so we deserve the extra pleasure from flirting with young girls we meet at work shocked.Nigerian women on the other hand don't have that right and that is why they get thrown out of the house whenever they are caught cheating shocked.Yes! because we spend so much money to marry you and even after marriage, we work our aszzes off to fend for you. shocked
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 8:45pm On Sep 13, 2014
donpeey22: Nigerian men have the exclusive right to cheat because we pay the bills shocked shocked. We go through alot of stress trying to fend for the family, so we deserve the extra pleasure from flirting with young girls we meet at work shocked.Nigerian women on the other hand don't have that right and that is why they get thrown out of the house whenever they are caught cheating shocked.Yes! because we spend so much money to marry you and even after marriage, we work our aszzes off to fend for you. shocked

You guys are kindly invited to stay at home, take care of the kids, do the cooking, laundry and other house chores. I will be glad to make the money. wink

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Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Ibiyomee(f): 8:59pm On Sep 13, 2014
carefreewannabe:

You guys are kindly invited to stay at home, take care of the kids, do the cooking, laundry and other house chores. I will be glad to make the money. wink
God bless u ma 6ta. Who says men do the work in this 50-50 generation. We ar in bread n butter/bama/waterwinner generation so tel me who can eat bread without takin butter or water 2 support it.
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 9:02pm On Sep 13, 2014
Ibiyomee:
God bless u ma 6ta. Who says men do the work in this 50-50 generation. We ar in bread n butter/bama/waterwinner generation so tel me who can eat bread without takin butter or water 2 support it.

Thank you. God bless you! kiss

Well, the biggest problem I have with his post is that he thinks that he has more rights when he pays the bills as if the work done at home is some sort of inferior work.Then some men will come and complain about feminism when they are the ones pushing it by degrading the traditional role of a woman.

Who told them that they have to make money, I can do it too. Can they do the hard work at home?

Apart from this, you are right, women nowadays share bills.
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 9:14pm On Sep 13, 2014
[quote author=cococandy]Ok.
In a case where the woman is the bread winner,she reserves the right to cheat EXCLUSIVELY while the man stays faithful.

But if she shares the bills with her husband,she's reserves the right to cheat as much as he does.

cheesy grin

Okokobioko(Lmao @ this new funny slang) [/ :oquote] Yes! If she's the bread winner and owner of the house, then she can cheat if she so desires. If the contribution is 50/50, then the right to cheat is 50/50 also. shocked shocked
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by cococandy(f): 9:16pm On Sep 13, 2014
Smh.
donpeey22: .

HiV is real sha. cheesy
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 9:18pm On Sep 13, 2014
carefreewannabe:

You guys are kindly invited to stay at home, take care of the kids, do the cooking, laundry and other house chores. I will be glad to make the money. wink
Thanks but no thanks. Enjoy you nature-given position of 'housewifery'. grin
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 9:19pm On Sep 13, 2014
donpeey22: Thanks but no thanks. Enjoy you nature-given position of 'housewifery'. grin

You can say such things to your girl.

I am not dating men like you wink
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 9:22pm On Sep 13, 2014
cococandy: Smh.

HiV is real sha. cheesy
Smd1ck. Rough rider is
available in the market sha . grin
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Nobody: 9:27pm On Sep 13, 2014
carefreewannabe:

You can say such things to your girl.

I am not dating men like you wink
Sweerie, you are missing a lot for not dating 'men like me'. cool
Re: Leaving Your Spouse At Home And Going Outside Of Marriage For Sex by Kanwulia: 8:58pm On Sep 14, 2014
Feel free to advice ke?
Who are the 38% of randy men sleeping with?.
Surplus women needing attention!
Abi you nor hia say ratio of man to woman na 1:20? cheesy

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