Hi all, what d'ú think about couples / to be couples with like temperaments (in marriage). Its widely accepted that 'opposites attract' but I read a book  (Date or Soul Mate By Neil Warren )where the author (who is supposed to be a relationship expert) advised people to look to marry someone who is a lot like themselves, what's ur take on this, can anyone confirm this by their personal experiences (or those they know about) i.e, of successful copules with like temperaments or personalities? Thanks in advance for your informative contributions

@Igwe 1, mmmmnnnn thankx 4ur comments it makes sense, cos the same author i referred to earlier said; its the same qualities that attract opposites (temperament-wise) that drive them crazy (upsets) in the long-run. Nice contribution bro!

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Well I guess both couple can't be "exactly" alike. . . .

It's possible they have very similar and common attributes or attitudes. . . .but most likely there would be some

differences between them, like they might both be quiet and laid back,

but one of them might be quick tempered and the

other might be very mellow. . . .and so on. . . . . . . .

but it usually evens out or balances out. . . . . .

iice:

Nah, i have seen two opinionated people work really well together. The key is knowing and accepting when one is wrong and willing to learn from the other.

OK

Ehen. . so that they can both kill each other. People marry who they are like.

Ehen. .  so that they can both kill each other.

Can we have more thoughts on this??