Your relationship is moving into the fifth year and your guy has yet to pop the question.

The relationship is fine - no problems. You (30) have finished your education, have a good job and live in your own home, so does your guy (36).

But how much longer should you wait to hear "Will you marry me?" and have that engagement ring slipped on your finger?

What should you do?

Should you continue with the relationship as it is now, hoping that someday your guy will propose?

Or...should you end the relationship and walk away, if he doesn't propose, hoping that you will meet a guy who is really serious about getting married and starting a family?

@ 30 and 36 for the lady and guy respectively??

And both working and living on their own?

Something definitely is wrong somewhere


My people call it "mkpo ufok"


Why date that long in d first place

Well op if I'm the one involve I will wake him up in the wee hrs of the night

And have some heart to heart talks.

irishCream:
@ 30 and 36 for the lady and guy respectively??

And both working and living on their own?

Something definitely is wrong somewhere


My people call "mkpo ufok"


Why date that long in d first place

Well op if I'm the one involve I will wake him up in the wee hrs of the night

And have some heart to heart talks.

Since you're already staying in his house and sleeping on his bed, he may not feel there's any thing different to gain in marrying you.

1one:


Since you're already staying in his house and sleeping on his bed, he may not feel there's any thing different to gain in marrying you.

Mr perfect I don't see whr I stated that I'm staying in his house in my post

If u are dating don't ur woman visit or spend a night once in a while esp

If something like this impt need to be addressed

Chaiii...nairalanders there is nothing one will comment y'all won't twist it

Now I'm missing those days I was a guest

Una sha knw hw to criticize/insult...I doff ma hrt for una

this is strictly for ladie

but that relationship is now half a decade

the lady closing to menaupose

the man closing to his retirement age

irishCream:


Mr perfect I don't see whr I stated that I'm staying in his house in my post

If u are dating don't ur woman visit or spend a night once in a while esp

If something like this impt need to be addressed

Chaiii...nairalanders there is nothing one will comment y'all won't twist it

Now I'm missing those days I was a guest

Una sha knw hw to criticize/insult...I doff ma hrt for una

and nobody forced you to comment
seun is a very nice guy,he gave you option to deactivate your account

Sister, ar u sure he is nt friendzoning u sha.?..I stop here

Ipledge:
and nobody forced you to comment
seun is a very nice guy,he gave you option to deactivate your account

Birds of same feathers

Manner of approach =zero

This will be interesting... Lemme park well here

irishCream:


Mr perfect I don't see whr I stated that I'm staying in his house in my post

If u are dating don't ur woman visit or spend a night once in a while esp

If something like this impt need to be addressed

Chaiii...nairalanders there is nothing one will comment y'all won't twist it

Now I'm missing those days I was a guest

Una sha knw hw to criticize/insult...I doff ma hrt for una

I neither criticized, insulted nor twisted your statement. I just inferred from what you said "wake up in the wee hours of the night", that you would have had to be sleeping in his house for that to happen ..I couldn't have imagined that you may be referring to phone call.

Besides the "you" I used there was more generic than specific, I was not necessarily referring to you... No need to take it personal.

5yrs relationship?
must you wait for them to propose to you?
leaving him wont solve it, because i am sure you will still allow yourself to spend another 5yrs in another relationship and by then getting to 35.
better upgrade this one to marriage.

irishCream:


Birds of same feathers

Manner of approach =zero

birds of a feather

am sorry,i have manner of approach,this one of the reason nairaland is fun to me