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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by GentleMimi: 7:48pm On Oct 09, 2014
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abbakacici:
why you guys like going to conclusion before hearing the whole story. let assumed he actually ask her to aborted the child but she refuse that does stop him from being the child father. and after 2 years he realise his mistake and want to take responsible and for some reasons he can't stay in the uk. you guys should know he has zero chance of winning a Child custody in UK because he has to proof that Nigeria is better environment for the child to grow than UK and the term ‘parental responsibility’ is used to describe all the rights and duties that parents have towards their children, for example, in making choices regarding:
Their education
Choice of religion or atheism
Acceptance or refusal of medical treatment

What will happens in the court room?

If he go to court he will need to explain his reasons for wanting custody. This is done in front of a ‘family panel’, which usually consists of three magistrates.

The magistrates will ask each parent questions about why you want custody and what your proposed arrangements would be. They will ask about how you will care for and provide for the child.

What will the solicitors ask me?

The solicitors for the other parent can ask questions about his lifestyle, finances, home arrangements, etc. They may also bring up any potential problems, such as violence, neglect or poor communication.

A court welfare officer may be appointed to assess the family home life (which will be in Nigeria) and provide a report to the family panel on how he care and interact with the child. They may also speak to the child to learn where they would like to live and why.

If he can't reach an agreement, the courts can make orders under Section 8 of the Children Act 1989. It is always advisable to have representation in court since appeals to the court are very expensive if something goes wrong on the day. Getting it right the first time with a specialist solicitor can save you time and money in the long run.
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Bla Bla Bla.......... *oyarnachi*

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onila(f): 7:50pm On Oct 09, 2014
carefreewannabe:


All kids studied abroad and one of them impregnated a girl there even though he knew that he would have to go back one day. undecided

Tell this wicked woman to bring back the child where it belongs.


he made a mistake and got a girl pregnant while he was studying abroad
no one is perfect
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by GentleMimi: 7:52pm On Oct 09, 2014
onila:


I heard the mother wasnt a good mum

always partying and drinking
maybe the grandmother thought she wasnt fit to train the child
Bullcrap.
Still not good enough reason. Even if she is a hoe, na she get pikin. Grandma shld Park well. There are social workers and social services. If granny aint satisfied, she should sue for custody and not stealing pikin. Abi she think sey pikin na goat? The boy's family will gladly drag the girl's name in the mud, just to achieve their aims. Yeah, also heard that granny is a winsh too. How abt that?

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by kandiikane(m): 7:53pm On Oct 09, 2014
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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:54pm On Oct 09, 2014
Lmao AT some comments here. Haha

Keeping my children away from Nigerians. Wicked people with wicked mentality.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onoja12: 7:56pm On Oct 09, 2014
My dear a child does not belong to only the mother,a father can not kidnap his own child,i don't care what the white man's law says,secondly women are good at talking and even making up things just to get what they want,men on the other hand hardly voice their sufferings because they regard it as weakness.like i said if you must be a fair judge never decide a case by hearing one side of the story no matter how touching it is

Amya:


For the lady in question to pour her heart out on social media goes to show she isn't just looking for sympathy or try to smudge his name. She probably knows some people will doubt her story and possibly even call her names but at this point I think this is the only way she feels she get her baby back no matter how messy it gets.

Whatever his story, whatever his reasons are does not excuse the fact that his mum kidnapping this baby without her mother's consent is wrong. I'm looking out to see holes in her story, but so far I haven't seen any.

Growing babies need their mum.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:56pm On Oct 09, 2014
onila:


he made a mistake and got a girl pregnant while he was studying abroad
no one is perfect

He made a mistake and the mother makes the girl pay for it? undecided undecided undecided

Stvpid woman. I hope she will pay for the CRIME she committed. angry angry angry

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by cococandy(f): 7:56pm On Oct 09, 2014
You heard.
What will you hear before? Didn't you hear it from the man's side.

What was the boy doing fvcking a bad wild party girl?

onila:


I heard the mother wasnt a good mum

always partying and drinking
maybe the grandmother thought she wasnt fit to train the child

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by fireforfire: 7:57pm On Oct 09, 2014
riskit33:

And your point is? So the right thing to do is to kidnap the child? You claim to know court proceedings but you aint better than a novice.

pls tel dat olodo.he must be as heartless as dt granma

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by cococandy(f): 7:58pm On Oct 09, 2014
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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:58pm On Oct 09, 2014
onoja12:
My dear a child does not belong to only the mother,a father can not kidnap his own child,i don't care what the white man's law says,secondly women are good at talking and even making up things just to get what they want,men on the other hand hardly voice their sufferings because they regard it as weakness.like i said if you must be a fair judge never decide a case by hearing one side of the story no matter how touching it is


If you go to the white man's country, you have to obey his laws.
If the white man comes to your country, he has to obey your laws.

It is that simple.

You can't impregnate a girl in HER country and claim that tradition allows you to take the child to YOUR country.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by kandiikane(m): 8:00pm On Oct 09, 2014
cococandy:
sad sad
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I know. sad

Please unquote my previous messages.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 8:00pm On Oct 09, 2014
Get a lawyer

Have her arrested in Nigeria

Go and get your child.

They assume that the same lawlessness in nigeria is permitted everywhere else.

In America, if you take my child without my permission, I'm calling the cops on your zzz, even if you're her fairy godmother.

The man wants an avenue to come back to Europe jare.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by cococandy(f): 8:01pm On Oct 09, 2014
The child belongs to both of them. So you think he did the right thing by taking her?

What kind of mothering does he intend to give the 2yr old?

What white man's law are we talking about here? Even in Nigeria a child less than 9yrs can't be taken lawfully from the mother no matter what unless she's mentally ill and presents a danger to the child.

Only after 9yrs can a joint custody or total custody be awarded to either parent depending on the specifics of the particular case.


onoja12:
My dear a child does not belong to only the mother,a father can not kidnap his own child,i don't care what the white man's law says,secondly women are good at talking and even making up things just to get what they want,men on the other hand hardly voice their sufferings because they regard it as weakness.like i said if you must be a fair judge never decide a case by hearing one side of the story no matter how touching it is

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by cococandy(f): 8:02pm On Oct 09, 2014
Ok
kandiikane:

I know. sad

Please unquote my previous messages.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onila(f): 8:02pm On Oct 09, 2014
GentleMimi:

Bullcrap.
Still not good enough reason. Even if she is a hoe, na she get pikin. Grandma shld Park well. There are social workers and social services. If granny aint satisfied, she should sue for custody and not stealing pikin. Abi she think sey pikin na goat? The boy's family will gladly drag the girl's name in the mud, just to achieve their aims. Yeah, also heard that granny is a winsh too. How abt that?

the granny is not from Nigeria
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onila(f): 8:03pm On Oct 09, 2014
the girl is a typical of-emanu B1tch

fcck the whor.e with her bitchiness!

of-emanu and their trouble, tufia!

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by GentleMimi: 8:07pm On Oct 09, 2014
onila:


the granny is not from Nigeria
Sweerie, I repeat, still not good enough reason. Even if she is from hell, she has no right to do what she did.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by pickabeau1: 8:07pm On Oct 09, 2014
^^^And now onila anti yoruba rant surfaces
So u just hate the girl for no reason n u think abducting a child from the mother is thebest

Are u not a woman

onila:
the girl is a typical of-emanu B1tch
fcck the whor.e with her bitchiness!
of-emanu and their trouble, tufia!

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 8:07pm On Oct 09, 2014
cococandy:
The child belongs to both of them. So you think he did the right thing by taking her?

What kind of mothering does he intend to give the 2yr old?

What white man's law are we talking about here? Even in Nigeria a child less than 9yrs can't be taken lawfully from the mother no matter what unless she's mentally ill and presents a danger to the child.

Only after 9yrs can a joint custody or total custody be awarded to either parent depending on the specifics of the particular case.



He wanted her aborted. I doubt he took any responsibility for her care.

I'm telling you, his hungry family wants to use the child as an avenue to bring him back to the UK. The grandmother is a wicked woman.

She imported kidnapping crime that is synonymous with her husband's people into the UK.

Imagine a mother stealing another mother's child for nefarious reasons.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by MsNas(f): 8:08pm On Oct 09, 2014
onila:
I know this family very well

leave them alone

the Ehiemeres are a very well educated family

the grandmother is actually not from Nigeria but from the Island of Barbados in the Caribbean but married an Igbo man
and moved to Nigeria

they made a mistake but dont deserve this kind of publicity
onila:

he cant stay in the UK
because he was an international student in the UK
he has finished with school
so he has no choice to go back to Nigeria
hes a well educated brother, with a degree in business from the university of Hertfordshire
onila:
the paternal grandfather died long time ago around 2005
shes the one that has trained all her children to this level
all her kids studied abroad despite their father not there
the grandmother is a very strong Island woman
onila:

he made a mistake and got a girl pregnant while he was studying abroad
no one is perfect

What the heck are you talking about? The grandmother kidnapped the child and you're seated behind your China phone chatting shyt? Are those people feeding you? Are they related to you? Are you their househelp? You called the lady an unfit mother, yet you didn't stop to think that the mother could have chosen to abort the pregnancy and not allow the resulting child to impede her freedom? Did you go to school at all? In short, you amaze me. Heaven help that grandmother who tries that kind of shyt with me. Island of Barbados Ko, Isle of Man ni. Rubbish

They deserve all the negative press they get. If they were as educated as you've portrayed them to be, then they will go the course of the law and allow the judge to decide who gets the kid. Not stealing. Like damn!!! WTF??

FYI: I'm pretty damn sure you're not female. You need help, ma'am or mister.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by fireforfire: 8:09pm On Oct 09, 2014
onila:
the girl is a typical of-emanu B1tch

fcck the whor.e with her bitchiness!

of-emanu and their trouble, tufia!

u just pushed d issue on ground aside and ur being tribalistic...
y so hqrsh on her u sabi am bfor?
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by MsNas(f): 8:09pm On Oct 09, 2014
onila:
the girl is a typical of-emanu B1tch

fcck the whor.e with her bitchiness!

of-emanu and their trouble, tufia!
This Yoruba girl is about to school you and give you an e-asswhooping. Just continue running your trap mouth, okay?

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by zeb04(f): 8:10pm On Oct 09, 2014
onila:
the girl is a typical of-emanu B1tch

fcck the whor.e with her bitchiness!

of-emanu and their trouble, tufia!
my friend shut up your mouth.all of a sudden she is LovePeddler.

What kind of an irresponsible
grandmother will teach her son to mess with a 'hoe'
Pls take your too left legs and move them some other place.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by eleko1: 8:10pm On Oct 09, 2014
angry angry angryThis is beyond selfishness oooo,the mama nah confirm evil woman.Any lady who have such mama as mother inlaw go hear wen.They should be traced and put in d next available plane back to London.Hope/pray dey nefa murder the girl sha.
MoyoGENERAL:
This is wicked ooooo!!!!
Upon wetin the lady don sacrifice to raise her daughter and not abort the might be future Wive of a President ( just saying)...
then one selfish, inhumane family comes to extort her and take away her JOY!!!!
God forbid!!!!!!
BTW.......why always NAIJA sef??

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onoja12: 8:10pm On Oct 09, 2014
you deceive yourself,every child needs both his or her father and mother to grow up normally,she has had the child for two years without the father,meaning the child begins to think in life all you need is a mother and the father is useless,when she becomes big she carries on that mentality,her psychology is already messed up.now just as you think the father figure can be replace so can the mother figure be replaced by his mother.the point is when it comes to a child its not about personal selfishness its about the well being of that child,if you read my first comment on this issue,i said that the girl should resolve what ever problem she has with the guy,am quite sure that before that action must have been taking the lady is question stubbornly went to hide in the uk,with the knowledge that the british law would back her,but that is personal selfishness and not thinking of the best interest of the child but hers

cococandy:
The child belongs to both of them. So you think he did the right thing by taking her?

What kind of mothering does he intend to give the 2yr old?

What white man's law are we talking about here? Even in Nigeria a child less than 9yrs can't be taken lawfully from the mother no matter what unless she's mentally ill and presents a danger to the child.

Only after 9yrs can a joint custody or total custody be awarded to either parent depending on the specifics of the particular case.


Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 8:11pm On Oct 09, 2014
dealslip:


did you read all her tweets at all?

Can't read em on this phone . . .
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 09, 2014
Family issues though, she should travel down to Nigeria to settle issues with the family,nobody can do any thing about it and should stop posting all this because it wouldn't help,she should stop using the word kidnapped for the kid because the child bear the surname which makes it equally her child .any thing family issues for naija is on another level ,she should call her family and settle amicably with guys family
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onila(f): 8:12pm On Oct 09, 2014
Ilekere:


He wanted her aborted. I doubt he took any responsibility for her care.

I'm telling you, his hungry family wants to use the child as an avenue to bring him back to the UK. The grandmother is a wicked woman.

She imported kidnapping crime that is synonymous with her husband's people into the UK.

Imagine a mother stealing another mother's child for nefarious reasons.

what is he doing with dead UK citizenship
all his siblings are married and living comfortably in the United States

They dont have to be doing all that rubbish just to enter dead, rubbish UK

his family far from hungry
their father was a big time man in Shell Nigeria
we are not talking abt any kind of family here
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by cococandy(f): 8:15pm On Oct 09, 2014
If the guy was concerned about the child's welfare,he wouldn't kidnap her.
He would take the lady to court and let them judge give a fair hearing.

All I see is a little boy controled by his mother.
onoja12:
you deceive yourself,every child needs both his or her father and mother to grow up normally,she has had the child for two years without the father,meaning the child begins to think in life all you need is a mother and the father is useless,when she becomes big she carries on that mentality,her psychology is already messed up.now just as you think the father figure can be replace so can the mother figure be replaced by his mother.the point is when it comes to a child its not about personal selfishness its about the well being of that child,if you read my first comment on this issue,i said that the girl should resolve what ever problem she has with the guy,am quite sure that before that action must have been taking the lady is question stubbornly went to hide in the uk,with the knowledge that the british law would back her,but that is personal selfishness and not thinking of the best interest of the child but hers

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by bukatyne(f): 8:15pm On Oct 09, 2014
cococandy:
Smh for some comments here

Honestly, I wonder the stuff some people are made of.

A lady gets pregnant and loverboy tells her abort. She proceeded to have the baby for reasons known to her and 2yrs later, the grandma comes to kidnap the baby and some people are saying 'according to our culture/africa, a man & woman owns a baby so the man can do what he likes with him/her'

Sincerely, I am sometimed tempted to think that whites have a different brain from blacks.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by MsNas(f): 8:16pm On Oct 09, 2014
onila:


what is he doing that dead UK citizenship
all his siblings are married and living comfortably in the United States

They dont have to be doing all that rubbish just to enter dead, rubbish UK

his family far from hungry
their father was a big time man in Shell Nigeria
we are not talking abt any kind of family here
Shut up, Madam. Which part of America do they live in? Cos I'm sure if they do live here and they know what the law is all about, they won;t have allowed their militant mother steal a kid's birth certificate and also kidnap the kid. They all knew about the deal.

Oloshi, see as you dey rant out another family's antecedent without looking book? When will you have the pride to defend you own family? Dead UK citizenship? cheesy Okay, someone pass her some Prozac, stat!

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