ratatis:


Didn't feel like opening one.
Would do so when the need arises.
Thanx for bothering to know.

you are welcome.

foxxynik:


Am not laying off my focus on "desirable"
My focus is on the reiterated statement!
You're saying the same thing!

A person not sexually desirable to you...is the same thing as Not having the desire to have sex with that person!

Its English tho...
If you don't get my point... I'll have to cross my fingers!

I think it's more of a logic.
Why I'm having difficulty equating the two statements is that, to me, the statement. "you do not find the woman sexually desirable" implies an inherent repulsive element. The same as saying I find the woman not sexually desirable. I know with some men, it is either a woman is sexually desirable or sexually repulsive. This is not so in my case. If I do not have the desire to have sex with a woman, it does not necessarily implies that I am finding the woman sexually undesirable or repulsive.
When I am in love with a woman, the feeling is quite distinct & palpably different from the one I experience when I am in lust. The two ( i.e. the feeling of love & the feeling of lust ) are not intertwined - the feeling of love is not dependent on sex "to fire it", even when the two are operating simultaneously. It's extremely difficult trying to reduce exact feelings into words.

I've noted from the posts above, that some few individuals, more or less, feel the way I do. I believe it has to do with the way our emotional bodies function. Admittedly, unless one is a demi-sexual, he will have a hard time feeling from our perspective.

Unibenstudent:
this one u escape from nairaland ,I led a team of 4 vigilantes to go in search of u ,and we were discouraged to not have found u despite our intense search

hmmmmmmmm

chibwike:
Longest time...where have you been.

around

Sarimah:
around

Buh i haven't seen u for a while

Sarimah:
hmmmmmmmm

y d hmmmmm,,are u planning something wicked for me??#?

It is possible! I have fal In Love with a girl to the extent dat I can't touch her, she tought na Okobo I be but one day....

ratatis:


I think it's more of a logic.
Why I'm having difficulty equating the two statements is that, to me, the statement. "you do not find the woman sexually desirable" implies an inherent repulsive element. The same as saying I find the woman not sexually desirable. I know with some men, it is either a woman is sexually desirable or sexually repulsive. This is not so in my case. If I do not have the desire to have sex with a woman, it does not necessarily implies that I am finding the woman sexually undesirable or repulsive.
When I am in love with a woman, the feeling is quite distinct & palpably different from the one I experience when I am in lust. The two ( i.e. the feeling of love & the feeling of lust ) are not intertwined - the feeling of love is not dependent on sex "to fire it", even when the two are operating simultaneously. It's extremely difficult trying to reduce exact feelings into words.

I've noted from the posts above, that some few individuals, more or less, feel the way I do. I believe it has to do with the way our emotional bodies function. Admittedly, unless one is a demi-sexual, he will have a hard time feeling from our perspective.

I wouldn't agree with you any further on this...
You've got ur points intact...

But... Its crystal clear that "emotions" have a strong bond with sexual desires!

The physiology of emotion is closely linked to
arousal of the nervous system with various states
and strengths of arousal relating, apparently, to
particular emotions.

This particular emotions are complex... And the resultant of such feelings are both physical and psychological.

So if you have a gf you love and you don't have the desire to make love to her...then ur psychological effect must be corrected!

I'll agree with you more on this if you say...
You love ur sister and so you find her sexually repulsive or not sexually desirable!

Wondering what will make ur dick ebb down whenever you're with the girl you love!

Sarimah:
hmmmmmmmm

am suspecting u

eph12:
Loving someone and having sexual urge are two different things and are not related in any way.

i see a victim...shm

cutecanson:
i see a victim...shm

Victim of what na?

[quote author=Sarimah post=28201374]hmmmmmmmm[/quote


baby i am back...missd u like madt...

But anyway am filled wit sarimah (joy)

yes, its very possible.