Don't allow naija hypocrites to confuse my dear..


When you are in love with someone, you will definitely have the urge to be intimate with the person.


But of course you can fight that urge if u are mentally strong enough..

How can u claim to love a girl to the extent that u propose marriage to her and yet u say u re not sexually attracted to her? My dear dat marriage won't last for up to 6weeks


Leave all these people forming saint obi on nairaland.. Konji don finish most of them

hardbody:



Do you have dysfuntional issues or u only sleep with ashewos? Just asking. No offence intended.

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I can say that's a situation if find myself

Earlier last year I came in contact with this girl, I love her like the socket and the eye. She will come to my room we tallk play and such desire never cross ma mind. It's ma strongest emotional weekness.

And in some cases if the female isn't selfish, Ijust loose out chai, its painful

eph12:
Loving someone and having sexual urge are two different things and are not related in any way.

lies....this is a theory some group of people established in order to caution girls which is a cool way to actually caution a daughter.

Wait..... Lemme ask google_L0Lz

dat feeling always comes up ....to me, literally all the time..

If she is HIV positive it is possible

mecussey:


lies....this is a theory some group of people established in order to caution girls which is a cool way to actually caution a daughter.

am confused

sex doesnt matter ...y is away match a problem??

If you love someone and have no desire to sleep with the person, then you've found real love.

I was here.

The truth is; there are no rules for this game of luv cos emotions differ. Some men can luv and still do not feel the urge to make luv to their partner, while for others its the other way round. That does not mean the later does not luv his girlfriend.

sukkot:
depends on how long the relationship is. i am sure jonathan goodluck loves patience but he does not have the desire to sleep with her

Lmao!

Na amateurs full here dey yarn bullshit

there they go again with sexual talks ... Just stop comparing urself with others. when the feelings is right, u shall do the unbelievable and enjoy the act again and again.... Nature comes with its own situation (SIN)

faithugo64:
most ladies believe that a guy who loves you would never want to sleep with you untill he marries you.so here is my question

is it possible to love someone and not have the DESIRE to kiss,hug or have sex with him/her?

Please i don't mean having sex with the person,i mean is it possible not to have the DESIRE(wanting) to be intimate with that person.

NOTE: HERE AM NOT TALKING ABOUT AGAPE LOVE O!!!

it is only a robot or a non sexual entity that will be in love without having any sexual sensation.
As for me personally,i can cope without sex,but hugs and kissess? will be very difficult.
Team V

kamez:
Don't allow naija hypocrites to confuse my dear..


When you are in love with someone, you will definitely have the urge to be intimate with the person.


But of course you can fight that urge if u are mentally strong enough..

How can u claim to love a girl to the extent that u propose marriage to her and yet u say u re not sexually attracted to her? My dear dat marriage won't last for up to 6weeks


Leave all these people forming saint obi on nairaland.. Konji don finish most of them

You haven't found love yet, very sad.

U all keep lying
God forgive u all

GOD WHERE IS MY 200K E NOR GO BETA FOR YOU AND JESUS IF I NOR GET MY MONEY BACK

No

why ? it is very possible, it depends tho....i've had about four or five sexless relationships , the only thing is that when the chips are down and the girl eventually fuckup, guys tend to regret and wished they atleast mark the register.......playing lover boy doesnt pay at the end of the day...you miss once you miss forever be dat....im speaking from experience.
but that doesnt mean i wont still repeat it again, love can be real complicated sometimes.. the only drug for love is dont fall in it, if you mistakenly fall...ehn? if dem dey call mumu for street, make sure you answer cos thats you they are calling

These funny threads on NL are unending. Sometimes I can't help but wonder whether these people are real Nigerian human beings who live in the real Nigerian world. . . . . . . . . or deluded, dreamy couch potatoes with zero experience of how things really go down out there in the real world.

So sex is now such a big deal (with someone you supposedly 'love' for that matter!)? Since when? All these super set girls wey full town wey know wetin dey, where dem dey comot from? Smh. Choir girl in the day, olosho in the night.. . . and 24/7 Virgin girl on Nairaland. Deceit Inc.

faithugo64:
most ladies believe that a guy who loves you would never want to sleep with you untill he marries you.so here is my question

is it possible to love someone and not have the DESIRE to kiss,hug or have sex with him/her?

Please i don't mean having sex with the person,i mean is it possible not to have the DESIRE(wanting) to be intimate with that person.

NOTE: HERE AM NOT TALKING ABOUT AGAPE LOVE O!!

most people don't even understand the question by the answers they give.

Yes

I guess the last time such a tin happened was in the garden of eden.. what kinda love wud make you stay without hugging and kissing.. hmmm! or You want to start family planning in advance wen u aint even sure of tomorrow. If she doesn't complain then she's getting it from mr right n you will definitely becm johny. This is naija n we knw how we do it.

DaWorshiper:
Sure! It's possible!
That's why we have lust and we have love. Besides, there are 3 types of love. So it depends on which u're feeling, that will tell if u can think of such act with the person.
For example, i love my sister but i can neva desire to hav sex with her.

oh yes,dats becos d love u have for ur sis is called "storge"love,which is totally different from the d kind (EROS)d OP is reffering to.

It is possible. However as a result of atrocities commited by men and women in their youthful days, some lose their ability to give birth thus making most dudes test before they pay. I believe that if you really love her, there z this really lovely feeling y'll always have when u remember she is urz. Sex is just a way of expresssion of ur feelings towards the lady in question. Anodaa hitch is that some women feel you ain't man enough when u don't touch her...this also drives dudes to have sex with her lest they lose her coz she wanted something which they felt was too small for her...

Its not possible

faithugo64:
and your wife? I belive you will marry someone that you love, does it mean you are not going to sleep with her?

Humans... Trying To Get Objective/ Analytical Answers To Spiritual Things Since The Tower of Babel... Little Wonder Their Confusion Knows No End...

Agape Love Is Needed To Love Your Spouse...
Since it's from God, it encompasses other kinds of love: erotic, platonic, brotherly etc..

IT IS POSSIBLE IN LOVE BOOKS...I HAVE READ SUCH STORIES MYSELF. SO IT IS POSSIBLE; NOT FOR ME THOUGH!

Erm I guess its possible, but not possible for me. I'm sorry if I'm not attracted to a guy, I cannot be in love with him. Being attracted to him means I wanna Bleep his brains out, not hold his hands and talk about rapture. Duh?! I just can't be in love with someone when there's no chemistry. Liking the person- yeah. Loving the person without love making-attractions, urges. Ah hell no!