It shouldn’t come of any surprise to ladies that men are initially attracted to women via their physical appearance, but that does not mean all men are looking for the Tyra Banks super model type. Different strokes for different folks. Some men do like thick women, some like them curvy, etc.

But it’s the first five minutes that counts the most. That’s the time you have to use your physical appearance first and then your personality to “reel him in.”

Here are some characteristics that men say they tend to notice when they first encounter a woman.

• A woman’s shape- Relationship guru Dr. Paul Dobransky says men look at curves and shape. And he won’t hide it, either. So don’t be surprised to catch him looking you up and down when you enter his space.

• A woman’s attitude- Men love a woman with confidence. Her posture, her ability to look him straight in the eye and her air of confidence are all traits men will be attracted to.

• Her smile- Subconsciously, men are drawn to certain smiles. Some like sweet and genuine, while others like a mischievous look.

• Your girl friends- Oh yea. He is checking out whom you hang with. He will be intimidated by a large group of women, but will approach a lady in a trio. If he’s rejected, at least he knows the giggles will be at a minimum.

• A woman’s hair- They like well kept hair that smells good. So make sure your weave is fresh! In fact, research shows that men notice your hair before they notice what you are wearing.

• Your makeup- Keep it light and natural looking. And wear lipstick. It doesn’t (and shouldn’t) be bright red, but he will notice moist shiny (yet natural) looking lips.

• The butt and the bust- Yea, you knew that was coming. But be cool about it. That doesn’t mean you should wear spandex or a shirt that leaves nothing to the imagination. Do leave something to the imagination. And remember, some guys like a handful, while others go for the melons .

• Your bag- Yep. He will check out your purse. If you are lugging around a big ol’ bag, no matter if it’s Gucci or not, he will take that as a sign that you are high maintenance and that you are also materialistic (that you need a lot of things). So when it comes to bags, bigger is not better.

So ladies, look your best and show that smile , whether you are going to the super market or out with your crew. You never know when you are going to encounter “the one.”

You're right the appearance matter most at the 1st sight but dat of makes-up, I'm not freaked with that and I think most guys prefer natural beauty

olexjay:
You're right the appearance matter most at the 1st sight but dat of makes-up, I'm not freaked with that and I think most guys prefer natural beauty

Yea, most guys prefer natural beauty but some also like it with a bit make up.

Jennydoris:





Yea, most guys prefer natural beauty but some also like it with a bit make up.

.... Well I think its a matter of choice anyway, one man like maybe another man poison, I just like a lady with a simplicity, lip glosses is ok..lol

Jennydoris:
It shouldn’t come of any surprise to ladies that men are initially attracted to women via their physical appearance, but that does not mean all men are looking for the Tyra Banks super model type. Different strokes for different folks. Some men do like thick women, some like them curvy, etc.

But it’s the first five minutes that counts the most. That’s the time you have to use your physical appearance first and then your personality to “reel him in.”

Here are some characteristics that men say they tend to notice when they first encounter a woman.

• A woman’s shape- Relationship guru Dr. Paul Dobransky says men look at curves and shape. And he won’t hide it, either. So don’t be surprised to catch him looking you up and down when you enter his space.

• A woman’s attitude- Men love a woman with confidence. Her posture, her ability to look him straight in the eye and her air of confidence are all traits men will be attracted to.

• Her smile- Subconsciously, men are drawn to certain smiles. Some like sweet and genuine, while others like a mischievous look.

• Your girl friends- Oh yea. He is checking out whom you hang with. He will be intimidated by a large group of women, but will approach a lady in a trio. If he’s rejected, at least he knows the giggles will be at a minimum.

• A woman’s hair- They like well kept hair that smells good. So make sure your weave is fresh! In fact, research shows that men notice your hair before they notice what you are wearing.

• Your makeup- Keep it light and natural looking. And wear lipstick. It doesn’t (and shouldn’t) be bright red, but he will notice moist shiny (yet natural) looking lips.

• The butt and the bust- Yea, you knew that was coming. But be cool about it. That doesn’t mean you should wear spandex or a shirt that leaves nothing to the imagination. Do leave something to the imagination. And remember, some guys like a handful, while others go for the melons .

• Your bag- Yep. He will check out your purse. If you are lugging around a big ol’ bag, no matter if it’s Gucci or not, he will take that as a sign that you are high maintenance and that you are also materialistic (that you need a lot of things). So when it comes to bags, bigger is not better.

So ladies, look your best and show that smile , whether you are going to the super market or out with your crew. You never know when you are going to encounter “the one.”

...thank u...are u light skin?

Always have a nice smile.. Its encouraging for the male folks

The weaves? Babes sabi carry weaves for months.. E go dey scratch them but them no go remove am.. All in the name of putting on a brazillian hair.. Nansense.. Tho guys prefer it or so

I am always on big handbags jare.. It contains all my stuffs abeg.. Ranging from purse,books,makeup purse and all what nots


Nice post op

MrCork:


...thank u...are u light skin?

Yes, I am .
Do you have a problem with that

I look at what she's wearing first.....The shape, her face....

A woman’s attitude- Men love a
woman with confidence. Her posture,
her ability to look him straight in the
eye and her air of confidence are all
traits men will be attracted to''



no i dont like you looking at me in the eyes.. i like a shy lady, i can easily fall in love with her by that shyness.. A woman’s attitude- Men love a
woman with confidence. Her posture,
her ability to look him straight in the
eye and her air of confidence are all
traits men will be attracted to''



no i dont like you looking at me in the eyes.. i like a shy lady, i can easily fall in love with her by that shyness..

A woman’s attitude- Men love a
woman with confidence. Her posture,
her ability to look him straight in the
eye and her air of confidence are all
traits men will be attracted to''

no i dont like you looking at me in the eyes.. i like a shy lady, i can easily fall in love with her by that shyness..

A woman’s attitude- Men love a
woman with confidence. Her posture,
her ability to look him straight in the
eye and her air of confidence are all
traits men will be attracted to''

no i dont like you looking at me in the eyes.. i like a shy lady, i can easily fall in love with her by that shyness.. by shyness i will feel you are still innocent.

Different tinz for different folks.
Na ur own list be that, not my list.
Here comes my own list.

Have u Eva heard about UKWU.
Mehn.. Dis is what attract my eyes before I decide to look at other tinz.. A moderately sized ukwu like nicki minaj's


b¤¤bs
dis r the asset m gonna trace next after d first process
God forgive me and punish the devil...

i dont like ladies with big eyes. it's a turn- off ..

Jennydoris:





Yes, I am .
Do you have a problem with that

..u fine?

All this preaching na to please men?

olexjay:
.... Well I think its a matter of choice anyway, one man like maybe another man poison, I just like a lady with a simplicity, lip gloss is ok..lol

Ok ooo.

Most of these are incorrect.

dechandel:

Always have a nice smile.. Its encouraging for the male folks

The weaves? Babes sabi carry weaves for months.. E go dey scratch them but them no go remove am.. All in the name of putting on a brazillian hair.. Nansense.. Tho guys prefer it or so

I am always on big handbags jare.. It contains all my stuffs abeg.. Ranging from purse,books,makeup purse and all what nots


Nice post op

Thanks dear.
My dear I too can't do without my big hand bag . Like you said that's where I hide most of my stuffs when going out. I use a purse unless if it's just to go to market, church, wedding or just an outing.

As for hair, chai I dey drop my cap for some babes who leaves their weaves and braids for two months or more before losing it.


Smiles...... I wear it all day long even in my sleep . Except if am not in a good mode

Davidairmarshal:
A woman’s attitude- Men love a
woman with confidence. Her posture,
her ability to look him straight in the
eye and her air of confidence are all
traits men will be attracted to''



no i dont like you looking at me in the eyes.. i like a shy lady, i can easily fall in love with her by that shyness.. A woman’s attitude- Men love a
woman with confidence. Her posture,
her ability to look him straight in the
eye and her air of confidence are all
traits men will be attracted to''



no i dont like you looking at me in the eyes.. i like a shy lady, i can easily fall in love with her by that shyness..

Different strokes for different folks.

The "butt" & "bust" first

ERCROSS:
Different tinz for different folks.
Na ur own list be that, not my list.
Here comes my own list.

Have u Eva heard about UKWU.
Mehn.. Dis is what attract my eyes before I decide to look at other tinz.. A moderately sized ukwu like nicki minaj's


b¤¤bs
dis r the asset m gonna trace next after d first process
God forgive me and punish the devil...

If they give you the 'moderately sized UKWU' you fit carry am?

Davidairmarshal:
i dont like ladies with big eyes. it's a turn- off ..

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Chai! Even me no like guys with 'B.I.G eyes. It's not just a turn off, I simply don't fancy it. Although a female friend of mine said guys with big eyes look more sexy with their BIG eyes

MrCork:



..u fine?

Fine ke . My ugliness dey cause traffic even OBJ fine pass me

Jennydoris:






If they give you the 'moderately sized UKWU' you fit carry am?

A trial will convince u...
Let's start with urs naaw..

ERCROSS:









A trial will convince u...
Let's start with urs naaw..

Noooo. I no get big ukwu mine is very very tiny.

THICK FOREVER.

Jennydoris:




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Chai! Even me no like guys with 'B.I.G eyes. It's not just a turn off, I simply don't fancy it. Although a female friend of mine said guys with big eyes look more sexy with their BIG eyes

THAT IS NOT TRUE

Ass

Chioma and her small backyard.

Davidairmarshal:

THAT IS NOT TRUE

What is not true?

benromeo39:
Chioma and her small backyard.

Who is Chioma?

Jennydoris:





Who is Chioma?

we both know u
know who that is.