i do it alot cus most galz always tinks wen a guy is 9ice towards her, he is lookin forward to avin access...but ama different being, if i love u...u will surely get 2 knw......xo dnt eva tink me bein 9ice is an effort to date or f**k u.....peace out

temisukanmi:
nofin seriously, jst for d fun of it

Temi friend zoning Ayobami, daris God oh

Preciousjoz:

1.lol...I have no other word for you
2.no, I'm not jobless.I cant waste my time on ur. posts!
3. oh, there we go! the show off again.
4.I will certainly not take an advice from a yaba left patient even if he's wearing white.
5. magun! you know nothing about magun lol.
6. lol...who is this poor ignorant soul? on the other hand, I think this is how some adult feotus who sat for jamb countless amount of times before he got medicine types! continue with your neonatal rants. I'm sure your next MB exam should put you in place!

Fool...as if yhu are not d one who 1st quoted me..were u d only one dat saw it ?.....amebor..aproko .....u think I be specialised failure like yhu ?.....even 10 of yhu...if u lyk turn winch abi sango...una nah fit stop me....local winchy lyk yhu!! ....

Well, I have actually been friendzoned. Last week precisely. I just hope the guy isn't a member of this forum.

Thing is I've liked him for a really long time (100level or so) like 8 years ago but I never had the courage to tell him so we were just friends.
Last week I decided I was going to woman up and just say it. The worst I'll get is a 'No' and maybe some humiliation but I'd have freed my mind. So here's how our conversation went:

[13:31, 07/12/2014] me: Hi.

[13:37, 07/12/2014] him: Hi, how are you ?

[13:38, 07/12/2014] me: Am good
I have something to say to you.

[13:39, 07/12/2014] him: No qualms.

[13:40, 07/12/2014] me: I cant send it here. Give me your email address I'll attach it as a note to u.

[I attach a note describing all my mumble-jumble squashy smushy feelings and send to his email]

After a while.

[15:14, 07/12/2014] him: Your note is so sweet.

[15:14, 07/12/2014] me: Thanks.

[15:14, 07/12/2014] him: And I like you too
How on earth would you say I would hate you for sending that note.

[22:23, 07/12/2014] me: U understood what I wrote.

[22:24, 07/12/2014] him: Yeah I read what I could. Come on skype. If not we can talk here.

[22:25, 07/12/2014] me: Skype might be a little difficult.

[22:25, 07/12/2014] him: Okay no qualms.

[22:25, 07/12/2014 me: I dont know what to say really. I never wanted to say anything. ..cos u know, African mentality and all.
But I thought I shld go ahead anyway.

[22:28, 07/12/2014] him: I really don't think it's bad for you to say what's on your mind.
Especially for someone like me cause I understand how you feel.
Now back to it.
Like I said before I like you too. But the thing is that the extent may differ.
You're amazing as a person and as a friend.
Somehow I can get to sense when someone likes me.
And it's not a big deal.
I too have such feelings.
But sometimes this world is more than feelings.
Seriously.

[22:32, 07/12/2014] me: You r right.

[22:32, 07/12/2014] him: At some point while growing up there was a girl I felt same way for.
And I was simply too fascinated a about her.
But time passed.
She left.
Do I still feel same way for her today? Nooo.
But fact is that I can only get with one person.
That's the truth. I was attracted to you at some point, ***** at some point and even ***** at some point and really, I've not felt like taking it into a relationship level or something.
(***** are names of my close friends)

[22:40, 07/12/2014] me: hmmm I've been in and out of feelings a long tym with loads of people..yes.
Usually it doesn't take long. And I never think highly of it.
I just surprise for your own. Lol

[22:41, 07/12/2014] him: Ha ha ha ha.
[22:43, 07/12/2014] him: Maybe why it came back was because we later touched base.

[22:43, 07/12/2014] me: Oohh. Yeah maybe that's why.

[22:45, 07/12/2014] him: I've respected you as a friend.
And still respect you even up till now.
But I can't say anything about a relationship.
Cause it hadn't come to mind.
And that's sensitive.

[22:46, 07/12/2014] me: No its not. I wasn't thinking relationship.

[22:46, 07/12/2014] him: I really really don't want to break anybody's heart whatsoever.


[22:56, 07/12/2014] me: nah. It's just to free my mind. Finish.
[22:57, 07/12/2014] him: Cool.

Talk about friendzoning

preshuzpearl:
Well, I have actually been friendzoned. Last week precisely. I just hope the guy isn't a member of this forum.

Thing is I've liked him for a really long time (100level or so) like 8 years ago but I never had the courage to tell him so we were just friends.
Last week I decided I was going to woman up and just say it. The worst I'll get is a 'No' and maybe some humiliation but I'd have freed my mind. So here's how our conversation went:

[13:31, 07/12/2014] me: Hi.

[13:37, 07/12/2014] him: Hi, how are you ?

[13:38, 07/12/2014] me: Am good
I have something to say to you.

[13:39, 07/12/2014] him: No qualms.

[13:40, 07/12/2014] me: I cant send it here. Give me your email address I'll attach it as a note to u.

[I attach a note describing all my mumble-jumble squashy smushy feelings and send to his email]

After a while.

[15:14, 07/12/2014] him: Your note is so sweet.

[15:14, 07/12/2014] me: Thanks.

[15:14, 07/12/2014] him: And I like you too
How on earth would you say I would hate you for sending that note.

[22:23, 07/12/2014] me: U understood what I wrote.

[22:24, 07/12/2014] him: Yeah I read what I could. Come on skype. If not we can talk here.

[22:25, 07/12/2014] me: Skype might be a little difficult.

[22:25, 07/12/2014] him: Okay no qualms.

[22:25, 07/12/2014 me: I dont know what to say really. I never wanted to say anything. ..cos u know, African mentality and all.
But I thought I shld go ahead anyway.

[22:28, 07/12/2014] him: I really don't think it's bad for you to say what's on your mind.
Especially for someone like me cause I understand how you feel.
Now back to it.
Like I said before I like you too. But the thing is that the extent may differ.
You're amazing as a person and as a friend.
Somehow I can get to sense when someone likes me.
And it's not a big deal.
I too have such feelings.
But sometimes this world is more than feelings.
Seriously.

[22:32, 07/12/2014] me: You r right.

[22:32, 07/12/2014] him: At some point while growing up there was a girl I felt same way for.
And I was simply too fascinated a about her.
But time passed.
She left.
Do I still feel same way for her today? Nooo.
But fact is that I can only get with one person.
That's the truth. I was attracted to you at some point, ***** at some point and even ***** at some point and really, I've not felt like taking it into a relationship level or something.
(***** are names of my close friends)

[22:40, 07/12/2014] me: hmmm I've been in and out of feelings a long tym with loads of people..yes.
Usually it doesn't take long. And I never think highly of it.
I just surprise for your own. Lol

[22:41, 07/12/2014] him: Ha ha ha ha.
[22:43, 07/12/2014] him: Maybe why it came back was because we later touched base.

[22:43, 07/12/2014] me: Oohh. Yeah maybe that's why.

[22:45, 07/12/2014] him: I've respected you as a friend.
And still respect you even up till now.
But I can't say anything about a relationship.
Cause it hadn't come to mind.
And that's sensitive.

[22:46, 07/12/2014] me: No its not. I wasn't thinking relationship.

[22:46, 07/12/2014] him: I really really don't want to break anybody's heart whatsoever.


[22:56, 07/12/2014] me: nah. It's just to free my mind. Finish.
[22:57, 07/12/2014] him: Cool.

Talk about friendzoning

Hmmmmm. Bold. Mature. Evolved. #respect# both u n him.

natureblack:
pardon my ignorance,but what's a "spirikoko-girl" .....

all this pious girls. I.e all these girls that carries church on their head.

CAMNEWTON4PRES:
why did you find the need to mention her nationality? don't get me wrong tho, but this seems to be a trend among Nigerians esp on Nlers, does it boast your confidence or something? or you feel like you scored big ? I sincerely doubt if she was Nigerian you would mention her ethnic group

i tot we were all having fun, no offence meant nd non taken .one luv dear

frisby:

Hmmmmm. Bold. Mature. Evolved. #respect# both u n him.

You too deserve some respect for giving it to whom it is due.

chigoizie7:
as a matter of fact, yes, i think i ve upto 4 gals that are on friend zone,1st na ma next door nebo(though we became nebos recently, i ve been her friend for upto 3yrs now, we do Bleep, but we never dated) 2nd na upto 8yrs now,she is more like a sister, cant fork her cos i dont want anything to come btween us, (abum ochuu) she is certainly getting an get about the life style. if i date her, we will eventually brkup,nd i dont want that, being friends is still the best. 3rd na one cameroun babe like tat i helped her when she 1st entered naija (accomodation) its been 2yrs now, i never 4ck her, (dont want her to see the phucking as paying me back for the good i did for her,). 4th, met her last year, phucked her twice, still friends nothing attached. are all these called friendzoning? cos i never knew.

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no not at all ...... it's more or less friends with benefits........

Men and women have different concepts of what friend zone means.

When a man friend zones a woman, it means he can't marry or have an exclusive relationship with her, but they can have unattached friendly sex just to let off steam (like having a beer with a paddy).

When a woman friend zones a man it means she can't have sex with him, but she can accept unlimited friendly financial (and other) support from him.