jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

destante:
sorry but anything that has been gifted is no longer yours. pele

keyman0007:


Am not pitying him oh, am just vexed with the babe, she knew she was going to break up yet she collected the phone. The guy has come to NL for advise and am giving him my own from the little info he has provided.

on the assumption the relationship will last long, however circumstance has changed. seriously 2days that so unfair, at leaset she cld have waited fo r1 or 2 months


People collect their engagement ring back, let him collect his phone abeg. especially since he is still paying for it.

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

somcherry:
She wanted to brk up with u and u bought her a fone, to make her change her mind .
U didn't even tell us the real reason why she broke up with u. U were just beating around the bush,claiming to be the victim.

This is a lesson to guys who think they can buy a gals love with gifts and money.
NDO!!!


*unfollows*

ugwum007:


I like u

brownlord:



First, I won't buy phone for the woman to pay later, like I said before

Back to this op, if I'm in his shoe, I won't collect it back, you jes saying this collect, collect as if its that easy, what if the girl self head dey scatter? Omon no reason o, the op don fall mugu make em jes be mugu finish

Now trying to act tough at this time the guy don dey sample new bobo, will even make the matter worse.



Make em bear me loss simple

beinstein:

that's how we roll bro.
I told myself i can't afford to lose 2 things(the e-diot and my phone) at a time.
I collected it with the charger, carton and the sim card i gave her. Nonsense!

frebike:
Some of you are so funny. I do not agree it is a mistake. It is one of those stress one undergo when trying to find true love. The fact you offer to give out a precious gift,does not mean you have given out all u have. In an atempt to collect it back i see u could be regarded as a thief.

Krystalxxx:


How rare for a man to say that. I will praise you when I see a guy like that

pansophist:


So how far? make we enta koro and do the needful? I dont kiss and tell

Tallesty1:
I'm certain that 90% of the likers of this comment would be people that collected big gifts from their partner and dumped them later.










I beg you in Gods name@OP. To jejely collect your phone if you can.

Someone who does not love you do not deserve your gift.

She knew for sure that she would breakup with you yet she collected it.

To hell with maturity.


Please use ur brain next time you wanna date.

ololo12:
Let go the phone, Hermanos. . Show maturity homes

Krystalxxx:


There's no need really

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

Originalsly:
I don't support taking back gifts. A gift should be given from the heart and received by the heart. This one was not...so I don't consider it being a gift. If as something of less value...and paid for then you can letit go. But in this case....I suggest for the record..ask her once to return it...which the golddigger wouldn't. Go pay two women to accuse her of stealing the phone and beat her down to retrieve it.

keyman0007:





1: approach her and tell her you need to phone back, cos it on a contract and you are still paying for it. Since you guys are nt together anymore you will need it back. If she refuses go report her to the police. scratch the officer like 2500 and explain you gave the phone on the assumption the relationship will be. now things have fallen apart. and i bet you will get the phone back. To me it doesnt make sense to give what you dont have, if you dont have you dont give. Dont borrow or suffer for any woman who isnt yet your wife abeg. I beg you in the name of God go collect the phone. I am also hoping the phone receipt and every is still with you and not in her name?
And pls act fast, time is running.

pansophist:




Searching for rope, suicide things

pansophist:




Searching for rope, suicide things

harde2lah:
This guy is a Dumbass. Anyway, I don't believe this story.

Mckandre:
jet li Untop wetin? m sure this Nigger never see the honeypot talk more of touching it. I know him type . brother OP if you still get any atom of male hormones running through ya veins,rush that babe and finish her off in anyway possible. holla @me anytime you're ready to meet m.