5minsmadness:

No no no, you are getting me all wrong.
I am saying our ladies now wear indecent clothing without shame. And the 'without shame' part comes from westernization.

i.e previously someone would have been able to correct her or at least she would have cautioned herself, but nowadays she would wear it knowing fully well how openly indecent it is but use phrases like 'haters gon' hate', 'its my body, I can do with it as I please', its none of your business' , 'its modern/western dressing-get with the program' etc to wave away the fact that she isn't properly dressed.

5minsmadness:


I rest my case.

5minsmadness:

No no no, you are getting me all wrong.
I am saying our ladies now wear indecent clothing without shame. And the 'without shame' part comes from westernization.

i.e previously someone would have been able to correct her or at least she would have cautioned herself, but nowadays she would wear it knowing fully well how openly indecent it is but use phrases like 'haters gon' hate', 'its my body, I can do with it as I please', its none of your business' , 'its modern/western dressing-get with the program' etc to wave away the fact that she isn't properly dressed.

red101:
foolish thread created by a boko haram member.




don't mind him. He wears western clothing but hates when women wear it.
ask him if he wears agbada to work every morning.

carefreewannabe:


Maybe some people do not want to be "properly dressed".
What gives you, me or anyone else the right to tell another adult how he/she should dress?

EfemenaXY:
^^ Lol Chilli sweetheart!
Good morning babes

edwife:
Chillisauce I swear you Cray Cray,on a Sunday morning?
Girl,you need Jesus!


Bonjour!

Tamee:



You killed it.
The OP is 'good' and the gym-suit gal is 'bad'. Thus, the world is balanced. I dunno why OP feels his degree of 'morals' has any bearing on how others should live their lives.
Naija people sha

NoContract:
@OP, please shut up witht your 'corrupted morality iish'
What a gang of self serving mofos blaming the west for their failed empathy. You rob your citizens, and build mansions overseas and companies, then you come back and claim the west are the ones messing you up!
What a bunch of hypocritial fools, fooling themselves since they forcefully ganed independence.
I've never seen such a sheepish country filled with 97% gullible people.
Chai! For 2014!

Chillisauce:

Dont mind dem, they will preach preach, after they hide one corner as per sister and brother in christ dey chock chock themselves.
Holy holy, but when you see what they do behind close doors, you sef go wonder.

red101:
foolish thread created by a boko haram member.
don't mind him. He wears western clothing but hates when women wear it.
ask him if he wears agbada to work every morning.

Tamee:


You killed it.
The OP is 'good' and the gym-suit gal is 'bad'. Thus, the world is balanced. I dunno why OP feels his degree of 'morals' has any bearing on how others should live their lives.
Naija people sha

ladygogo:

BUHAHAHAHAHAHAA!

EfemenaXY:

You know, I get really irritated when people with a hidden agenda best known to them, try to turn a debate into a religious one. This cheap stunt of yours isn't going to work, but let me humor you nonetheless, assuming the real issue here is you not fully comprehending my posts so far:
Now, Mr FkForYou, this is an excerpt from 5minsmadness' initial poste:
And Ms Haftob's post trying to butteress his point about how women not "properly" covered up could be seen as s.ex.ua.l objects:
And my response to her:
You do understand that at this point, I'm letting her know that it matters not how much a woman covers herself, even if she's completely wrapped up like an Egyptian mummy, any man who wants to get between her legs will still find a way to do so, irrespective of what she wears!
And then a couple of posts on, I post two pictures - a painting of a young Nigerian girl in mid 19th century first, dressed in Nigerian traditional attire and a second picture of the same girl swathed in Victorian clothes from the same era.
Did I not clearly state what my preference was? Did you see any Christians jumping on my post claiming that my post "degraded" Christianity and or christian women? Seeing as the Victorians were staunch Christians?
Now does this help make things clearer to you or not?

rofemiguwa:
I dont even know what to say,it is crazy how the op Pov have being twisted and turned
Op next time get a pics. Maybe just the back side. So the face is not shown.
Pic says a thousand words. Maybe then the will reason it out with u.
Someone wears a netted tight gym suit. So tight that her crack is visible and some pple are soo in support.
OMG!!!!
We. Are losing touch with reality. We dont knw where to drawn the line anymore.
Very soon ladies will start wearing bikini bra and bum shorts to work. It is dir body and dir business.
And pls no advising them. They have the right to do as the please.
God help us!!!! I fear for the generation my children will be born into. I need to work extra hard to maintain a moral balance.
There is a major shift in morality towards the negative axis. Major one!!!

Sorry op i understand how disgusting it must have bin to be assualted with such unappealling features. It is well

EfemenaXY:


Does being wrapped from head to toe in an oversized tent provide 100% protection to women, from being rr.aped, so.do.mi.zed, or even getting killed?

youngice:
So she can walk around naked hmmm
If I can't correct someone because I've done something wrong then every one is doomed ,because no one is perfect and I accept correction,
All this sycophants I give up on a lost cause,
But if them chyke you only for sex we go hear say all men are dogs, a ho is a ho irrespective of tribe, culture and religion mtcheew
In the quest for enlightenment we have become fools

cococandy:
@5minmadness the fact is that the West didn't corrupt us in that regard.
It is actually the other way round.
African culture is that of unclothedness or half clad kind of dressing if I may call it that.

We are the ones who exported unclothedness to the West while they brought their prim and proper kind of dressing to us.
Now the west is more African than Africans in terms of unclothedness while we are forming more Western than the West by trying to enforce prim and proper dressing.

Enough of blaming them for everything that goes wrong with our society.

Eesh.

yousee:
Call them hypocrites, call them fanatics, but you can't take their sense of modest dressing from them.

One of the good things I like about Muslims up North.

The Arab culture is still strong there.

cococandy:
Yes Arab culture.
Not African culture.
African culture includes nudity.

Africa should pls stop corrupting other parts of the world with nudity.

latolak:


Yes,it kind of does. Being close to naked makes a girl an obvious target for sexual assault.

Chillisauce:


I wake up with oga Jesus every morning. He understands his daughter

Bonjour babes.

Je dois réduire mon activité ici . Trop attaché et l'internet ne marche pas bien ici.

Fais bisou a toute ta famille

Stillfire:
Lol, we can rewrite history, ehn? Most Nigerians need to take a class or two in their precolonial history before ranting about the West. I don't know why the Nigerian educational system does not make History compulsory for every Nigerian. What most of you deem as 'in the past' started from 1960- post colonial Nigeria. In a bid to worship the 'queen' more than the British, we became more conservative than the frigid Brits. Se...x that was not inhibited for the African woman was now inhibited even in marriage because as an upright Christian or Muslim woman, 'thou shalt not know how to p..oke'. , only the man should rotflmao. Some African cultures teach their girls how to have se.xxxx. Today our mothers can't even broach the subject of se.xxxx to us.
When it comes to nudity, I don't shoot my mouth, because that is the natural state of some African societies, and it will be highly, highly hypocritical to blame the West. You are the one influencing the West. Western women have tagged it 'free the nipple', google Rumer Willis and her campaign for 'freeing the nipple' in a bid to copy us, of course . Do you know that some Igbo women went around beating up women that adopted the Western style of covering their bre..asts? Do you know a woman could divorce her husband in Igbo culture? But today Nigerians would shout it's the West corrupting us. As I said, go learn your real history before blaming the West.

cococandy:
Some parts of Africa have nuude breats exhibitions as part of their culture.
Nigerian culture for most parts include half dressing,skimpy wraps et al as the core of our dressing.
The West brought cloths to us because they saw us as naked African gorrillas.

Now you're saying they are the ones who introduced us to nudity?
Be serious pls.

If you're talking about. Our identity as Africans,half nude is one part of it.what you're actually doing is asking us to throw away our culture as Africans and embrace prim and proper dressing which used to be Western culture.