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Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by okotv(m): 2:42pm On Oct 25, 2014
The parents: who just allow anything in the name of modernity or civilization.

The youths: peer pressure, be like everyone else mentality.

The society: who see the wrongs but fail to speak up.

your thoughts.
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Oct 25, 2014
We hav to blame ourselves....
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by okotv(m): 2:46pm On Oct 25, 2014
Cutehector4u:
We hav to blame ourselves....
that simply means you belong to the society
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Oct 25, 2014
okotv:
that simply means you belong to the society
lol i dnt follow the society...
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by delishpot: 2:55pm On Oct 25, 2014
Parents when kids are young. The irresponsible dresser when kids are adults.
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by maryam6(f): 3:05pm On Oct 25, 2014
All of d above.
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by okotv(m): 3:05pm On Oct 25, 2014
Cutehector4u:
lol i dnt follow the society...
alright.
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by okotv(m): 3:07pm On Oct 25, 2014
delishpot:
Parents when kids are young. The irresponsible dresser when kids are adults.
nice post


but I will continue to blame parents cause some don't lead by example.

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Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by okotv(m): 3:08pm On Oct 25, 2014
maryam6:
All of d above.
that means you also have your share in the blame.
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by maryam6(f): 3:10pm On Oct 25, 2014
okotv:
that means you also have your share in the blame.
capital NO
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by okotv(m): 4:04pm On Oct 25, 2014
maryam6:
capital NO
are you not part of the society
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by maryam6(f): 4:10pm On Oct 25, 2014
okotv:
are you not part of the society
yes i am but i dnt follow d society on certain issues.
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by okotv(m): 4:13pm On Oct 25, 2014
maryam6:
yes i am but i dnt follow d society on certain issues.
see denial....keep it up ooo
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by perry2020(f): 4:32pm On Oct 25, 2014
Train your child in the way of the Lord and when he/she grows he/she shall not depart.
Teaching/instilling self discipline and good moral behaviours when a child is born down to the adolescent stage can save a whole lot of indecency.

Aldoe the society has a whole lot too but training them well and making them realise the difference between good and bad so they do not follow the wrongs of the society

Peer also has its own influence bt also boils down to good moral behaviours and the way you train ur kids(knowing their friends,being attentive to their needs,providing listening ears,study their friends and know their parents and being very alert.)

We shouldn't leave only religious institutions to train our kids or instil morals in them coz even these institutions are headed by people like us who have different approaches to life and lately news we hear going on in these religious institutions is nothing to write home about.

Above all charity begins at home if every parents train their kids very well and to the extreme then negative peer influence or negative societal influence would be reduced.

More also we should remember that our kids look up to us and would practice what they see us do,so how can a child be decent in every ramifications when even their parents ain't decent.#ItStartsFromEveryoneOfUs.

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Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by SAMBARRY: 6:27pm On Oct 25, 2014
Why can't nigerians learn to mind their damn business and face front. Run your life whichever way you want to and stop complicating life. Life is already complex on it's own

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Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by EfemenaXY: 6:40pm On Oct 25, 2014
okotv:
The parents: who just allow anything in the name of modernity or civilization.

The youths: peer pressure, be like everyone else mentality.

The society: who see the wrongs but fail to speak up.

your thoughts.

When's the deadline for this assignment of yours? cheesy cheesy

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Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by okotv(m): 7:01pm On Oct 25, 2014
EfemenaXY:


When's the deadline for this assignment of yours? cheesy cheesy
not an assignment ma

lol
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by greatgod2012(f): 7:53pm On Oct 25, 2014
The person who dresses indecently should be blamed.

Nobody should be blamed for how someone chose to live his or her own life.
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by butanep(m): 6:21am On Oct 26, 2014
perry2020:
Train your child in the way of the Lord and when he/she grows he/she shall not depart.
Teaching/instilling self discipline and good moral behaviours when a child is born down to the adolescent stage can save a whole lot of indecency.

Aldoe the society has a whole lot too but training them well and making them realise the difference between good and bad so they do not follow the wrongs of the society

Peer also has its own influence bt also boils down to good moral behaviours and the way you train ur kids(knowing their friends,being attentive to their needs,providing listening ears,study their friends and know their parents and being very alert.)

We shouldn't leave only religious institutions to train our kids or instil morals in them coz even these institutions are headed by people like us who have different approaches to life and lately news we hear going on in these religious institutions is nothing to write home about.

Above all charity begins at home if every parents train their kids very well and to the extreme then negative peer influence or negative societal influence would be reduced.

More also we should remember that our kids look up to us and would practice what they see us do,so how can a child be decent in every ramifications when even their parents ain't decent.#ItStartsFromEveryoneOfUs.
Nice write up I must confess. This is a Simon that we need to preach on a daily basis but some parents are so negligent about teaching their children about morals.
As you have said, if the parents refuse to instill the right discipline on their children. They might learn it the wrong way from their peer.
Our society is going the wrong path and message like this will help bring up a better society.
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by Nobody: 9:47am On Oct 26, 2014
It is now fashionable for a girls pant to show, boys sagging, sex is everywhere-even Jss3 student are having sex...... Many persons are morally bankrupt. No one gives a damp about what youth wear, all are in the name of fashion.

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Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by perry2020(f): 6:02pm On Oct 27, 2014
butanep:
Nice write up I must confess. This is a Simon that we need to preach on a daily basis but some parents are so negligent about teaching their children about morals.
As you have said, if the parents refuse to instill the right discipline on their children. They might learn it the wrong way from their peer.
Our society is going the wrong path and message like this will help bring up a better society.
That is honestly what is killing our society,parents shy/are too busy to train and discuss with their kids
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by perry2020(f): 6:03pm On Oct 27, 2014
Ofumaria:
It is now fashionable for a girls pant to show, boys sagging, sex is everywhere-even Jss3 student are having sex...... Many persons are morally bankrupt. No one gives a damp about what youth wear, all are in the name of fashion.
It's very heartbreaking I tell u.
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by roWzayy: 6:46pm On Oct 27, 2014
May God almighty help us all so dat we will be able to lead them d right way
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Oct 27, 2014
okotv:
nice post


but I will continue to blame parents cause some don't lead by example.

The problem is people procreating for the hell of it. It's completely unfair to put the blame on actual parents.
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by 5minsmadness: 7:18pm On Oct 27, 2014
Ourselves.
We see indecency and say nothing about it.
When we keep silent we give consent.
We say its nobody's business.
Well, one day it will be everybody's business.


We will reap the consequences.
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by pickabeau1: 10:35pm On Oct 27, 2014
5minsmadness:
Ourselves.
We see indecency and say nothing about it.
When we keep silent we give consent.
We say its nobody's business.
Well, one day it will be everybody's business.


We will reap the consequences.


According to your thread the consensus is that there is nothing like irresponsible dressing

So that means there is no issue.. No blame

All izz well

grin
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by 5minsmadness: 11:06pm On Oct 27, 2014
pickabeau1:



According to your thread the consensus is that there is nothing like irresponsible dressing

So that means there is no issue.. No blame

All izz well

grin

And do.you know the funny thing? The same set of people that were falling over themselves to defend women's freedom of indecent dressing came out to condemn a woman for dressing indecently to her wedding! The inconsistencies and iodicisms on Nairaland is amazing!



https://www.nairaland.com/1967160/outfit-made-grooms-parent-walk#27458511

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Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by pickabeau1: 5:20am On Oct 28, 2014
5minsmadness:


And do.you know the funny thing? The same set of people that were falling over themselves to defend women's freedom of indecent dressing came out to condemn a woman for dressing indecently to her wedding! The inconsistencies and iodicisms on Nairaland is amazing!



https://www.nairaland.com/1967160/outfit-made-grooms-parent-walk#27458511


grin grin grin
Re: Indecency Among Today's Youth : Who Is To Be Blamed ? by Nobody: 2:56am On Jul 06, 2016
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