Cutehector4u:
She shouldnt get pregnant.... Its called fornication....

LogoDWhiz:
Well, I think this shouldn't be a debate.

In a moral way, haven't sex before wedding is a no no.

Also, as a guy, a lady looses a sense of value to you when you have sex with her.
If u love her, u forget about it but if u don't, the girl is no longer useful to the guy. Just a sex machine to keep the body warm.

So, in this era where saving yourself for marriage is loosing value and where guys don't value gals they sleep with again, it'll be good for a girl to keep herself.

Let me add this. What's d assurance that the guy will bear the responsibility of d child when it comes out?

iceberylin:
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missberrypop5:
yeah, its a grown trend these days. It is so wrong. Its a no no for me. I can't and i won't do it.

iceberylin:
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BreezyRita:


And how does getting pregnant before marriage reduce bride price??
In my place, it increases it o.

missberrypop5:
hmmm, in my place its an abomination to accept the bride price of a pregnant woman.

BreezyRita:


Yes.... In this era, saving yourself could be good....
But guys also like to ascertain that the babe is good in bed too......
I know Biblically this shouldn't even be debated buh let's get real.

BreezyRita:
Cos those village elders no dey free.... They have eyes that see when you're just a week gone.

oliverdon:
Biblically is wrong but un dis nature we are now i support it bc most marriage dis days now after all d waste of money no show for child,now who is at lost?

merit12:
No comment

But I was here when the e-fight between the boys and the girls started lemme call the moderators,panel of judges,the co-debater. And my fellow nairalander


Why do I have this feeling this thread is going make front page?


Maybe it because the op is black

Op are you?

Kachisbarbie:


sweetee, it's only God that gives children - whether before /after marriage.

___ she could get pregnant, have a miscarriage and not take in, in years.
___she could have that particular child, and not conceive another in years to come.

Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honour among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

but in all, if it happens that the woman is pregnant, and they plan on getting married. They should ask God to forgive them(for the sin of fornication)
Please don't ever, abort the child.

Kachisbarbie:


sweetee, it's only God that gives children - whether before /after marriage.

___ she could get pregnant, have a miscarriage and not take in, in years.
___she could have that particular child, and not conceive another in years to come.

Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honour among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

but in all, if it happens that the woman is pregnant, and they plan on getting married. They should ask God to forgive them(for the sin of fornication)
Please don't ever, abort the child.

AgapeCharis:
Nice words ma'am
But
I thought u'r a Muslim

'Indeed'
I'm not please. That was an error of which I have sent mails to the mods/supermods...
__It has been resolved

Kachisbarbie:


'Indeed'
I'm not please. That was an error of which I have sent mails to the mods/supermods...
___ I wonder their plan .