missberrypop5:
lol, i wouldn't mind being single for the rest of my life. Marriage ain't a do or die affair.

BreezyRita:
Ok. This is a hotly debated issue....
I'm sure the guys will bash me.

There seems to a growing trend.... Guys saying their women are to pregnant before proposal or any marriage rite. I condemned a guy's stance on this and thought I'd be supported. But I was surprised. Even women took sides with the guy! It was shocking!

And guys, what's the reason behind this assertion??

So what do you think??
Should a lady get pregnant before she gets proposed to or should she walk out of the relationship??

doskie:

Please what is the meaning of mbok in english?
I won't argue.
I like you so much
Mmmuaah! Xoxo

Mbok is please

ajaopopo:
I hv experience on this thread. So getting pregnancy b4 weeding in dis days,is very important be cos lady's of nw ate day's hv spoil there womb only looking 4 d unfortunate guy as escape goat.

jossi994:
lol.. No mind me jare. That stuff's rampant here in calabar.. Most times the woman is 2 months gone by the time they tie the knot.

BreezyRita:


Yes.... In this era, saving yourself could be good....
But guys also like to ascertain that the babe is good in bed too......
I know Biblically this shouldn't even be debated buh let's get real.

Kachisbarbie:


sweetee, it's only God that gives children - whether before /after marriage.

___ she could get pregnant, have a miscarriage and not take in, in years.
___she could have that particular child, and not conceive another in years to come.
___she could have that particular child - and have many more...then the guy feels he is smart.

Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honour among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

but in all, if it happens that the woman is pregnant, and they plan on getting married. They should ask God to forgive them(for the sin of fornication)
Please don't ever, abort the child.

BreezyRita:

Mbok is please

oliverdon:
Biblically is wrong but un dis nature we are now i support it bc most marriage dis days now after all d waste of money no show for child,now who is at lost?

doskie:

Okay please I don't know the correct pronunciation. I almost called it Uduak just now. Can you tell me over the phone the right way to call it? Thanks

oliverdon:
Biblically is wrong but un dis nature we are now i support it bc most marriage dis days now after all d waste of money no show for child,now who is at lost?

missberrypop5:
yeah, its a grown trend these days. It is so wrong. Its a no no for me. I can't and i won't do it.

BreezyRita:


Even in Bible times, marriage was marriage! You don't just live in a man's house cos you've agreed. No! There were certain procedures. Say the wedding is not necessary but there has to be parental blessings (traditional) and pastoral or priestly blessings (church wedding).......

Even a prostitute can be a wife! No one is to judge..
You're kinda biased here. Women commit abortions. Men get them pregnant and ok the abortion.. That's for another day sha......

As a man, you may have gotten a lady pregnant, suggested or enforced abortion...... Dumped that lady, moved to another. One probably more wifely. . You've decided to marry her but you wanna ensure she'll be able to bear kids cos your conscience is haunting you... ...
You are playing God!

We hardly see a case of impotent men being questioned or tested here in Naija. Its always the women getting tested.....
#Get pregnant or remain single!

For the impotent guys, they're like; I can get another woman pregnant. You're not ok, leave!

Cutehector4u:
She shouldnt get pregnant.... Its called fornication....

BreezyRita:


Even in Bible times, marriage was marriage! You don't just live in a man's house cos you've agreed. No! There were certain procedures. Say the wedding is not necessary but there has to be parental blessings (traditional) and pastoral or priestly blessings (church wedding).......

Even a prostitute can be a wife! No one is to judge..
You're kinda biased here. Women commit abortions. Men get them pregnant and ok the abortion.. That's for another day sha......

As a man, you may have gotten a lady pregnant, suggested or enforced abortion...... Dumped that lady, moved to another. One probably more wifely. . You've decided to marry her but you wanna ensure she'll be able to bear kids cos your conscience is haunting you... ...
You are playing God!

We hardly see a case of impotent men being questioned or tested here in Naija. Its always the women getting tested.....
#Get pregnant or remain single!

For the impotent guys, they're like; I can get another woman pregnant. You're not ok, leave!

Agbalanze:


Is it that she shouldnt get pregnant or there should be no premarital s*x?

iceberylin:
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BreezyRita:

Can't.... (Stylishly wanting to call )
Neways, no derailing

doskie:

No oh! Why are you lying on my head na?
Okay lemme call you to explain my self.
Okay this is how it is: I send you credit, and my number, you hide your number, call, pronounce it, and end the call. Deal?

Lol....... Pleaseeeee!
All that trouble? Just for 'Mbok'?
It rhymes with cheebok...
Try it. Maybe I'll teach you lera

BreezyRita:


Lol....... Pleaseeeee!
All that trouble? Just for 'Mbok'?
It rhymes with cheebok...
Try it. Maybe I'll teach you lera

*modified*

#No derailing #

doskie:

Okay please what's the meaning of uduak and imeabasi?

BreezyRita:

Seriously? No derailing!!!

bokoarerams:
how old are u? Hope u are still a virgin and not having sex, if ur answer is no, don't say it cannot happen to u. A good guy is a good guy, in or out of marriage, same with a bad guy, so not having sex before marriage is not a a guaranty dat ur marriage will be blissful. Looking for a guy who will be a good father should be ur priority.

major466:
Getting pregnant before before marriage is like dghjgjhjl














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