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Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by experts: 3:22pm On Nov 20, 2008
my girl friend just called me one Saturday evening that she would love to take me out on sunday to ceddi plaza.

but when i got to my friends (female friend) and told them about it, they were like, thats crazy.

y will i take a guy out.

it is suppose to be him who will always to me out not 4 me. i was like, this is my babe, i am use to taking out many time so, taking out is not any big deal to her.

but when i got to my guys too and told them about it, some of them said thats crazy, how will a lady take me out. its to OK.

i am confused.

although i went out with her that sunday, but am, still bothered.

is anything wrong with that?
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by kokorunna(m): 3:27pm On Nov 20, 2008
There is nothing wrong in that, its the thought that counts.

Don't let people poison your mind.

It works both ways. wink
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by skfa1: 3:28pm On Nov 20, 2008
nothing wrong bro
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by kokoye(m): 3:44pm On Nov 20, 2008
You have a confident and strong lady.

Be proud of her and enjoy.
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by Nautillus(m): 3:46pm On Nov 20, 2008
Your female friend that appears shock abt ur gals gesture has a warped leecher mindset. . .

enjoy you outing brov
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by Choco(f): 4:15pm On Nov 20, 2008
@ poster

Its cool, Why don't you just relax and enjoy the ride,

Infact I enjoy taking my guy out sometimes. If I can't spend my money on him, then I am probably self-centered.

Cheers
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by MrCrackles(m): 4:18pm On Nov 20, 2008
No it is not!!

At times i wonder how old some nairalanders are with stupid and daft questions!!
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by HRhotness(f): 4:22pm On Nov 20, 2008
nuthin wrong with it. . . i take my boys out all d time
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by experts: 4:24pm On Nov 20, 2008
but even some of my guys too said no its not ok.

that how will i now go out with my babe and she do the spending when i have too much money in my pocket.

but even when i tryed to stop her from spending, she get annoyed and say do i think she is here with me because of my cash. so jst let her.
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by Sauron1: 4:26pm On Nov 20, 2008


Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out?


Yes, it is wrong. . . . .It's TACKY!!!
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by bigfather(m): 4:30pm On Nov 20, 2008
I see no big deal in a babe taking a guy out. As long as this doesn't come on regular basis.
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by Ben13: 4:35pm On Nov 20, 2008
HR.hotness:

nuthin wrong with it. . . i take[b] my boys[/b] out all d time

no be small thing o
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by HRhotness(f): 4:38pm On Nov 20, 2008
experts:

but even some of my guys too said no its not ok.

that how will i now go out with my babe and she do the spending when i have too much money in my pocket.

but even when i tryed to stop her from spending, she get annoyed and say do i think she is here with me because of my cash. so jst let her.


a girl taking u out is not about showing off. . . its about doin sumthin nice for her man, its d sentiment behind it that matters. how much money u hav shdnt be relivant in this case, its like she's buying u a gift or treating u, accept it graciously because thats good manners.

~Sauron~:

Yes, it is wrong. . . . .It's TACKY!!!

tacky is u being to immature and too insecure to let a girl do sumthin nice for u angry

Ben20001:

no be small thing o

meaning?!!
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by A40(m): 4:40pm On Nov 20, 2008
Absolutely nothing wrong grin grin cheesy cheesy
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by experts: 4:44pm On Nov 20, 2008
to  me, it not a big deal.

infact the saturday night she called me, i took her out that saturday and she new i would not think of going out on sunday, so i guess she really want to take me to a sweet place, where i will see beautiful faces that will make me 4get about the stresses am facing.

i was really glad to be there, i enjoyed mysel,f but u no since my guys also compalined i was like

is it wrong?
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by Sauron1: 4:46pm On Nov 20, 2008
HR.hotness:


tacky is u being to immature and too insecure to let a girl do sumthin nice for u  angry


There are many other nice things she can do. . . . .Taking me out is just NOT it.
Jeez, so when the bill comes, she opens her purse and PAY?? shocked shocked shocked
What am i?? A male escort or her son??  angry angry angry
Tufiakwa!!!

@ A-40,

That errorist on rap battle needs ur attention. grin
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by HRhotness(f): 4:49pm On Nov 20, 2008
~Sauron~:

There are many other nice things she can do. . . . .Taking me out is just NOT it.
Jeez, so when the bill comes, she opens her purse and PAY?? shocked shocked shocked
What am i?? A male escort or her son?? angry angry angry
Tufiakwa!!!

so its alright for a woman to feel like a LovePeddler eh?
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by A40(m): 4:52pm On Nov 20, 2008
~Sauron~:

There are many other nice things she can do. . . . .Taking me out is just NOT it.
Jeez, so when the bill comes, she opens her purse and PAY?? shocked shocked shocked
What am i?? A male escort or her son??  angry angry angry
Tufiakwa!!!

@ A-40,

That errorist on rap battle needs ur attention. grin

Like Camron let him dig a hole and bury himself.Is he chasisgirl too?

A male escort is more like it  grin grin what is wrong with a girl taking you out? this ain't medieval times or the Ice Age i think its cool if she has her mind made up on taking you out let her spoil you its all love
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by Sauron1: 4:55pm On Nov 20, 2008
A-40:

Like Camron let him dig a hole and bury himself.Is he chasisgirl too?

Apparently, he has about 21 monikers.


A male escort is more like it  grin grin what is wrong with a girl taking you out? this ain't medieval times or the Ice Age i think its cool if she has her mind made up on taking you out let her spoil you its all love

It makes a man look like a freeloader.

HR.hotness:

so its alright for a woman to feel like a LovePeddler eh?

There's nuthing new in a man taking a woman out and spoiling her. . . . . .
Would u open and hold doors for ur man?? Would u go on one knee and propose to a man in public?? tongue
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by A40(m): 5:15pm On Nov 20, 2008
~Sauron~:

Apparently, he has about 21 monikers.
The dude is ignorant i have never seen someone so confident about his whackness!! Salawa Abeni why not Haruna Ishola and Christy Essien Igbokwe  tongue

~Sauron~:

It makes a man look like a freeloader.
Naah i disagree so long as its not a regular thing it only shows how much she appreciates and cares for you,its like cooking a nice meal for your babe she would find it hard to leave you alone after that
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by albridge(m): 5:16pm On Nov 20, 2008
not at all. just depends on how she goes about it.
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by Sauron1: 5:27pm On Nov 20, 2008
A-40:

The dude is ignorant i have never seen someone so confident about his whackness!! Salawa Abeni why not Haruna Ishola and Christy Essien Igbokwe  tongue

He is a flaming leprechaun!!!


Naah i disagree so long as its not a regular thing it only shows how much she appreciates and cares for you,its like cooking a nice meal for your babe she would find it hard to leave you alone after that

Are u sure about this??
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by Willyesq(f): 5:36pm On Nov 20, 2008
you are just about the luckiest guy alife. cherish what you have, it is gold
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by experts: 5:45pm On Nov 20, 2008
she meant to harm , but i dont no may be she will abuse with it tomorrow.

but even with that.

i dont see anything wrong with that
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by A40(m): 11:44pm On Nov 20, 2008
~Sauron~:

He is a flaming leprechaun!!!
He needs to learn to write coherent english first before attempting to rhyme he has his priorities seriously mixed up
~Sauron~:

Are u sure about this??
I swear girls like a guy who can cook ooh
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by Sauron1: 11:56pm On Nov 20, 2008
A-40:

He needs to learn to write coherent english first before attempting to rhyme he has his priorities seriously mixed up

He's brain-damaged. grin


I swear girls like a guy who can cook ooh

Ma cooking skills are shambolic. . . . .Are u saying i stand no chance??
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by bilms(m): 11:32am On Nov 21, 2008
y are u guys always complaining abt other poeple eglish,

this is not a class.

in a place like this, u can decide to write anyhow without check it b4 sending because u dnt care. so if some 1 's english is an error. its not a big deal
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:32pm On Nov 21, 2008
Now, some Nigerians need to have a mentality check.

So a girl decides to treat you on an outing, whats the big deal?

Still the same peeps who gona open their mouths later, and say oh Nigerian girls are blah blah blah.

Phew, what's a girl ever gona do right in their eyes? undecided
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by Tranngirls(f): 12:40pm On Nov 21, 2008
Guys beware if your socalled girl never takes you out or pay for some for you or spends her hard earn money on you then you dont mean much to her. If a girl loves you she will be ready to sleep with a dog if that will get you out of trouble.
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by sexyLeamon(f): 12:43pm On Nov 21, 2008
I do not find anything wrong in that
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by kizito902(m): 12:46pm On Nov 21, 2008
Do you really want ur girl to sleep with a dog?Mehn ur brain de go far o.
Re: Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out? by whitelexi(m): 12:48pm On Nov 21, 2008
Nothing wrong with that - it doesnt make u less of a man, i'm going out tomorrow night with a few guys but its gonna be bankrolled by a girl. . .  And i'm gonna make sure the bill is burting with £££s grin grin grin

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