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|Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by lizzymomma(f): 6:22pm On Nov 08, 2014|
I would like to sample opinions from fellow bearded ladies and guys alike. It's quite unique to be different. Are you hairy, do you have a moustache, do you have beards.
1. how do you deal or take care of it?
2. Does it affect your relationship with the opposite sex
3. For the married ones, do your husbands approve of it?does he still love you as before.
4.How do you cope being a bearded lady in a society that disapprove of such.
5. has it affected your health in any other ways?
please do you love bearded ladies?
Can you marry a bearded lady?
Is it true that bearded ladies are wicked?. i would realy love to get opinions. i love the way God created all.
Oga Seun, mukina2, obinoscopy, mynd44. please move this to front page, you might just save a life.
Aunty: aisha2, cococandy,sophyrocks,chaircover, sambarry, chillisauce, nashville, hispikolo,GG,kanwulia, and many more wonderful nairalanders, kindly share from your wealth of wisdom. thank you
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by BigBizzy(m): 6:38pm On Nov 08, 2014|
made front page again.
#waveateveryone "it's nothing"
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by lizzymomma(f): 6:55pm On Nov 08, 2014|
BigBizzy:Can you elucidate on what makes it gruesome?
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by teemanbastos(m): 6:56pm On Nov 08, 2014|
awkward... Wen i sat with a bearded lady in a taxicab,it wax jux awkward..d oda guy con dy 'dress' towardz d door nd avoidinq ha.
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by lizzymomma(f): 7:02pm On Nov 08, 2014|
teemanbastos:i will like to know your reasons for this
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by lizzymomma(f): 7:02pm On Nov 08, 2014|
teemanbastos:i will like to know your reasons for that
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by freecocoa(f): 7:13pm On Nov 08, 2014|
I have small strands of hair on my chin, it's not that much but it's still bear bear .
It doesn't affect anything in my life, I even pluck them with my fingers so it's not always there, I have a small portion of hair on my chest that I have to shave because I don't like it anymore, the only problem I've had with that one, is that, sometimes some yeye people especially my brother say " ifuro ka osi gba aji na obi ka amosu" or "this girl go wicked o this one wey she gather hair for chest" like wtf?
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by lizzymomma(f): 7:25pm On Nov 08, 2014|
freecocoa:wow. that's so sweet of you. i like your confidence. what about your relationship?
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by uboma(m): 7:31pm On Nov 08, 2014|
A lady having hair on her face or chest doesnt make her abnormal. She is just as okay as every other lady around. The society frowns at such ladies due to ignorance. I have some female friends who are hairy and it doesnt change my perception about them.
@ op, stop worrying at what the society feels about u and your type. God created you that way and no one can change that. Just maintain a proper hygeine (trim the hair regularly etc) and feel free to mix with people.
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by freecocoa(f): 7:33pm On Nov 08, 2014|
lizzymomma:It has never caused a problem, if anything, the guys have loved it, you know they get to play with it and all .
My last boyfriend was even angry when I cut it.
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by eightsin(m): 7:39pm On Nov 08, 2014|
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Ishilove: 7:44pm On Nov 08, 2014|
lizzymomma:You learn to cope with it noni. I was 18 when the hair began sprouting on my chin with vigour and panache. The irony is I was among the wicked students that was laughing at a female classmate whose face was marked with biabia just two years previously, in SS3. Two years later, my own start to grow with a vengeance.
So how do I cope? I started by using my fingers to pluck them. When the biabia became too many, I moved to depilatories. The first one was named 'Anti-depil' hair remover. Then I moved to another one ''All Clear" hair remover. That one is very nice. Even has a free moisturiser in it
However, I noticed that the more I used it, the thicker the biabia became. What I mean is this: the shaft of a strand of beard is thick, even thicker than the hair on my head. Infact, I had to shave with the depilatory every four days.
It got to a point that I became vexed with it and let it grow out in all it's hirsute glory.
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Kanwulia: 7:49pm On Nov 08, 2014|
I am not quite there yet, but watching my "Eastern-Blooded" mom do battle with MANY RAZORS!
I see a few "pluckable" FEATHERS on my chest and chin(toto bia-bia no count o ). . . .SO, I PLUCK AWAY!!!!
Beware of BLACK HEADS! Don't try waxing if you have ELEPHANT GRASS as mOIStache on your chin, lip and chest o!!!!
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by teemanbastos(m): 7:53pm On Nov 08, 2014|
lizzymomma:cos itx rare to see a woman wif beards
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Ishilove: 7:56pm On Nov 08, 2014|
However, when the stares became too much, I had to run back to depilatories. I remember an ex used to lie me down, take a sharp broom and dig out all the ingrown hair. He always called me Ishi 'my bearded love'. (He is the one who opened this nairaland account for me, after another biabia digging session)
Thank God for my elder sis. She introduced me to waxing. Now I wax every two weeks. The down side to waxing is I react to it. As in, I break out in nasty rashes and pimples that take ages to clear.
Another thing, the waxing only clears half the hair because the hair has become so thick, no thanks to the hair remover. My waxist complains of back pain whenever she has to tweeze out those stubborn hairs that the wax can't clear off. As in, she has to use 'eba power' to uproot those darned hairs. So stubborn
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Ishilove: 7:59pm On Nov 08, 2014|
Kanwulia:Tell me about it. I had to go through a tortuous facial session last week to clear some of the nasty black heads
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Nov 08, 2014|
Lol beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.....
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Ishilove: 8:08pm On Nov 08, 2014|
You should see my chin now. Mum says it is "nkriki-nkriko". Bumps, zits, ingrown hair and other nasties. So rough.
I don't allow most peeps touch my chin because I don't want them to feel the sharp edges of the biabia, except of course, my mum and sibs, when they want to inspect the beard. Bro calls my enemy 'Oliver de Coque', and threatens to rub hair fertiliser on my chin when I'm sleeping. Lol
My admirers and toasters alike have no issues with the biabia. I'm very hairy, so it isn't a surprise that the hair extended to my chin. Mum says "whoever will like you will like you, biabia or not."
Even my eyebrows sef are full enough to plait shuku and base. It seems God gave me all the hair on the production line that day. Smh. God is great
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Stillfire: 8:12pm On Nov 08, 2014|
Haaa, the Igbo curse. I guess it means having more testosterone. More testosterone, more sex.ual prowess, stamina, flexibility, action, power, etc . If you dunno ask Jennykadry.
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Stillfire: 8:15pm On Nov 08, 2014|
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Ishilove: 8:21pm On Nov 08, 2014|
So lizzymomma, relax and stop being so sensitive about the biabia. Rock am wella!
As for if us hirsute women are wicked, well, that's bullshit. Wickedness is not a function of a beard, but a state of mind. A beard has nothing to do with human empathy.
However, I do hear that bearded women have high libido. As in, they like to "do".
Me I don't know if it is true oooooo!!
Freecocoa, is it true that hirsute women like to do?
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|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Ishilove: 8:23pm On Nov 08, 2014|
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by nsydear: 8:26pm On Nov 08, 2014|
i hav beards it does not mak me different from u.
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Stillfire: 8:26pm On Nov 08, 2014|
It's funny o. Oliver the coque, hahaha, your brother rocks abeg, that's a good one.
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Kanwulia: 8:28pm On Nov 08, 2014|
Relationships with the opposite sex ke?
Na wetin consain POPE WITI "KETTLE" to WASH NYANSH 6 times a day?
As women have learned to deal with PREGNANT men and their LACTATING BREAAAAAASTZ, so have men learned to deal with women with 5AM shadows!
The show must go on!
We are BI-GENDERED by the gods!!!!
Abi na curse?
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Ishilove: 8:29pm On Nov 08, 2014|
Don't mind the boy jare. He jus wan provoke me
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by mcdreeezy: 8:38pm On Nov 08, 2014|
I won't lie, I find it irritating.
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Kanwulia: 8:41pm On Nov 08, 2014|
Black heads worse pass the bia-bia sef!
If you see some women ehn?
E be like say dem get "LUPOOSE" abi na LUPUS?
Better to use BUMP-STOPPERS like their "fellow mem" abi?
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by lizzymomma(f): 8:43pm On Nov 08, 2014|
Ishilove:lol. your narrative is laughable. i'm impressed. i also started with strands, then began plucking, using tweezers. when it became much,i had to make my own wax and clean up every week with moisteurisers. i even used `threading' attimes but the blackheads n bumps is discouraging. a friend tried eletrolysis or something like that but it returned
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Nov 08, 2014|
Hi! Thought you were Yoruba. What tribe please?
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by lickspam: 8:48pm On Nov 08, 2014|
|Re: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by ichidodo(m): 8:49pm On Nov 08, 2014|
One word "Manscape"....
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