Billyonaire:
21st Marriages need 21st century manipulations and controls. Our parents', churches' advises and prayers may likely not quench our quiet desperation. For example, How do you talk a woman, whose fantasy is to have sex in a club toilet ? This is the world of women (fantasy).

OP; This is my advise; Marriage issues are never to be taken lightly as a man, you must be a man. Every suspicion in marriages must be treated like war.

Step 1: Copy the man's phone number, write it in a piece of paper.

Step 2: Buy 2 new smart phones and sim cards.

Step 3: Make your wife's phone to disappear with the sim card ofcourse, and when she complains she hasnt seen her phone, give her a new phone and simcard registered.(Never allow her retrieve the other line). Keep one of the new phone for your covet Operation.

Step 4: Insert your new simcard into your new phone and text her lover, (as your wife ofcourse), telling him you (your wife) lost your other phone and this is your new sim, send the message text or whatsapp messages. You should be able to play out the true nature of their relationship in 24hrs, you should know if they have done it yet, about to do it or never going to. Simple.

Step 5: If they have done it, then you have your wife's previous phone messages as evidences, plus confirmation on the new phone. If they are about to do it, then move to step 6.

Step 6: Accept (as your wife) to do it, give venue, (hotel with good security and by the road), make sure, you plan in such a way that the lady is the one paying the Hotel fees etc. Lets say its room 215, Eko Hotel on Saturday 4PM, move to step 7

Step 7: Plan for evening get away to Eko Hotel with your wife, and stay in room 215 with your beautiful wife, and make sure you have 2 trusted friends, and one of your wife's friend in the next room, your wife must not know these allies are around the corner.

(All conversations with the lover restricted to chats cos cheating wife's hardly talk on phone lest the husbands know).

Step 8: (Action); When there is a knock on the door, that fateful date and minute, excuse your wife, and go into the bathroom, and have her attend to the (room service) lover at the door. Move to step 9.

Step 9: Drama! Drama!! Drama!!! (What you do there, is at your discretion, but if you need my advise.....)

aisha2:
Na wa oh, boyz are not smiling see as them wan lynch me. Abeg who go help them donate fuel, matches and tyre lmao.
So stupid advice dey pain.
Poster better go on his knees buy red boxers and singlet, he shouldn't allow all these single meninst break his home, they are jealous they will immediately rush in and take his home and he will be left alone and an old cargo

aisha2:
Na wa oh, boyz are not smiling see as them wan lynch me. Abeg who go help them donate fuel, matches and tyre lmao.
So stupid advice dey pain.
Poster better go on his knees buy red boxers and singlet, he shouldn't allow all these single meninst break his home, they are jealous they will immediately rush in and take his home and he will be left alone and an old cargo

Kimoni:



Hehehehe I don see sontin today oooo

Oga, is this a template you already have or you actually sat down to map this out?

Billyonaire:
The motto of Boy Scout is "Be Prepared"; Before I entered into marriage, I had already equipped myself excellently to handle every minor hiccup and treat any major Bleep up. That's why they call me, The Master Planner.

Kimoni:



Hehehehe I don see sontin today oooo

Oga, is this a template you already have or you actually sat down to map this out?

Stillfire:
Op sorry, but if you are looking to buy red boxers as someone suggested, please contact me. I sell them. This is every wife's kryptonite o! Don't carry last abeg.

Stillfire:
Op sorry, but if you are looking to buy red boxers as someone suggested, please contact me. I sell them. This is every wife's kryptonite o! Don't carry last abeg.

Sophyrocks:


Hahahahahahahahaha. Lol @ tearing cloth. Hypocrisy stinks in this thread. Thank God someone is seeing what i am seeing. Let me drop my own nollywood advice sef.

Op, what took you to your wife's phone? you want high b.p abi? You want to die of stroke? dnt you know what you dnt know wont kill you? Ignore it and perform your husbandly roles jare!! Show her more love and care. Women are like babies and need to be pampered. Pamper her joor. Her heart will soften and She wont dare cheat on you. Fast and Pray. Pray pray pray. Go and find seductive boxers to wear. Your six packs and biceps nko? are they popping out? You better hit the gym. Are you romantic? are you a thoughtful person? How many times have you taken your wife out for romantic getaways? your bedmatics nko? is it on point? Better improve. You better make yourself happy o. What you saw in her phone was your mind playing tricks on you jare.

Kanwulia:
PLEASE GO AHEAD!
You need permission from NL?
Or, the fear of "lack of warm toto for winter" dey panik ya blokos ni?
Come back and show me the slap-marks on your face!
(If na me ehn. . . . .I GO SAAAAAAAND ya face gaaaaaaaan. . . . .CALL THE COPS TO CHARGE YOU WITH DOMESTIC-AGGRAVATION"
Obviously, ya tin is not SWEEEEEET again.
Time for a fressssssssh "wan"!
Pele mon dia!

sandijey:
Exactly. He doesn't no men are not smiling. The wife can send him out wiv the children and bring in another man.

Sophyrocks:
......Op better take my advice o. Your fellow men aint smiling.....They wanna bed all women married and single in the name of being polygamous in nature......

aisha2:
.......Poster better go on his knees buy red boxers and singlet, he shouldn't allow all these single meninst break his home, they are jealous they will immediately rush in and take his home and he will be left alone and an old cargo

aisha2:
Everybody is here tearing cloth. Nobody has asked:

1. Why did you touch her phone
2. What did you do to push her out
3. Why not fast and pray, loose that belle and wear sexy boxers
4. Ignore it, dont question her or nag it will push her to the other mans arms
5. Infact when you catch her sleeping with the man dont say anything instead, do your husbandly roles and when she asks tell her that its probably because you failed as a husband that pushed her out.

Poster sorry for making light of this but the double standard here stinks to the highest level

aisha2:
Everybody is here tearing cloth. Nobody has asked:

1. Why did you touch her phone
2. What did you do to push her out
3. Why not fast and pray, loose that belle and wear sexy boxers
4. Ignore it, dont question her or nag it will push her to the other mans arms
5. Infact when you catch her sleeping with the man dont say anything instead, do your husbandly roles and when she asks tell her that its probably because you failed as a husband that pushed her out.

Poster sorry for making light of this but the double standard here stinks to the highest level

edozie04:
Did you catch her in another man's arms??Seriously itz just a chat,some ladies can say all that without meaning anything,do u want me to show you screen grabs of some of my chats that some ladies use that for me?As far as you have not caught her in another man's arms,she is 100percent innocent

beeevan:
Oga go and work on your marriage, you have to nip this in the bud when 'the do' probably hasn't been done. Snap her out of that fantasy fast and start rebuilding what's broken in your relationship .

oladunwo:
This life is a full of competition. I will advise u not to confront her yet, instead u increase ur care, love and affection towards her. When u do that, she will wanna have a change of mind about the new man coz no woman one would like to leave uncertainty for certainty. Sir, fight for ur home not by quarreling or beating but by intensifying ur ways of showing love. I believe with all these, she would talk to herself that "what else do I want".. thank you

Sophyrocks:

Hehehehehe. Nowadays wey men find married women attractive. Op better take my advice o. Your fellow men aint smiling. Many of them no dey shame again o. They wanna bed all women married and single in the name of being polygamous in nature. So hold your wife tight and do the needful.

Emaprince:
I think some hopless men are doing it because they noticed that women are cheap and very much availlable these days..so they are exploiting the opportunity..

PrettyClare7:
biko,you made the best point.

Wendy80:
Emotional cheating is as bad as physical cheating. NIB it now b4 it gets too late. She might think it's nothing or she's just enjoying d attention but it's wrong for a married woman.