SirShymex:


Nah, you make black men look soft lol.

The emasculation of black, with folks showing more estrogen traits than chics need to stop. Get a grip and find ya balls lol.

eleojo23:
Oh now I get it. So the going out and having fun is just to prove that my testosterone level is far higher than the oestrogen level? If that's the case, there is nothing to prove..

SirShymex:


Get ya priorities right, man. And if at all you want to write a next soliloquy, it should be about ya unborn kids and how you will be a great dad, and make sure they get the best life has to offer.

hydeka:
Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

adeoladrg:

eleojo23:
Come o, adeoladrg and hydeka, what coded language are you guys using on this thread? Spill it out!

adeoladrg:


Coolmoon wrote an open letter to her husband some months ago.

You have done likewise. So who knows, just who knows if...

eleojo23:
This is becoming funny to me. You're so quick at making conclusions. You think I've not got my priorities right? All I see here is you trying hard to force your ideology down my throat (with little success anyway). I take pleasure in writing down my thoughts and as for the bolded part of your statement, I'm already on it.. I have a reason for posting this here. Check my other topics and you'll see that I rarely talk on things like this.

SirShymex:


Anyway, be more creative in ya thought process, and make it more about realism. Let chics deal with emotions and fantasies about imaginary husbands.

Black men grind and deal with real life. There are too many soft mofos out there these days with more female tendencies than females, hence the rapid increase in the number of homoerotic black men. Get a grip and find ya manhood, ya dig?

smurfy:
Don't forget to show this thread to her when she finally shows up.

eleojo23:
I only had this 'chat' with you because I had some time to spare this evening. I hardly engage in long conversions with someone on a thread. Anyway, thank you for keeping the thread alive. Goodnight.

SirShymex
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Nah, you are always bored hence the symptoms of emasculation evident on
this thread lol.

Just go out more, there is a chic out there somewhere that will help you
out with whatever you are going through. When you start creating a
fictitious image of a woman that doesn't exist in ya head, writing
imaginary stuffs about "it" - evidently you are putting yourself and
whatever woman you end up with in a hole. Just let it flow and put ya
priorities in other important things about real life. You are a black
man and you need to start acting like one lool.

STENON:
Its a normal thing for every normal individuals to have the picture, or Inner Image of how their future Home/Future partner will Look like.
It is not everybody that Lacks remorseful spirit/Guilty conscience in dealing with your chics.
we still have some that are scrupulous in this life.
If you knw what you want/what you desire in this Life, Then you wont be Frustrated to take any odd alternatives.

STENON:
And that is jst the main reason while most guys will keep on Jumping frm one chic to another, not until they finally fall into the wrong hand.
That is one of the major reasons while we have so many broken homes in this generation.

When you dnt evn knw the exact things that you desire frm your future partner, eventually, You will settle for less or Ephemeral material things , forgeting about the Evalasting cogent attributes to take into consideration.

You are a man...You must be able to set some goals/standard for your future home.

A man that fails to plan, is alrealdy planning for Failure.

SirShymex
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Lmao...don't tell me you're going to start citing allegorical names from
the Bible to buttress ya point.

Nah, you don't plan for women, especially by creating an imaginary
picture of someone that doesn't in ya head. Once you do that, you're
just planning to fail.

You plan for things you can control/influence, and create ya own reality
- not a mortal you can't create. With women, once you meet the right
person, you'll know. You can't plan for that - you just have to let it
flow.

STENON:
If you are saying that a man should not Plan for his future,
Then I wonder what you will advice a Lady to do.
You will evn tell her to sit down, and be expecting any version of Man to take her to the altar...

SirShymex:


A man shouldn't plan for imaginary things that only exist in his imagination.

A man should plan for things he can control.

Women can do whatever they like, that's why they're emotional beings.

SirShymex:


A man shouldn't plan for imaginary things that only exist in his imagination.

A man should plan for things he can control.

Women can do whatever they like, that's why they're emotional beings.

STENON:
Owkay sir.

Just let me Pretend as if I understnd your points.

I doubt if we can ever think in the same way.

Alright, thank you, and Enjoy ur week to the fullest.

SirShymex:


Anyway, just trying to set these youngin' straight.

These guys are becoming too soft these days, acting all metrosexual and shiit.

STENON:
Owkay,
NL is a faceless forum, where a Teenager claims to be an Adult.

SirShymex:


Well, based on ya thought process, I'd wager that you can't be older than 15.

Only kids dream...grown folks create their own reality.

STENON:
well said !!

Sophyrocks:
Nice words for your future wife Op. Do not mind the myopic people here making jest of the write up. What do you expect from little boys with empty brains? A lot of them were not properly trained to treat women with respect. Their comments tells you a lot of how horrible their marriages would be. A lot of these boys are attracted to vain women no matter how they condemn them and beat chest for us here. At least, the write up shows a man ready to handle the responsibilities of a real man. Real men that all these small small 'boys' should learn a thing or two from. Only Small 'boys' that size up their Ego by their Diks will mock your write up. Immaturity isnt about age. Real men will end up with women who deserve them.

eleojo23:
Come o, hydeka, what coded language are you guys using on this thread? Spill it out!