The journey nor easy

Ok

Yeaa... All that can happen buh the first year will also be the honeymoon period of the marriage where you'll have loads of sex. If the dating period had a level of understanding that is strong, you should have had ample time to spend with your partner, its when the marriage gets to 3-4yrs, that's when it becomes scary, that's when it dawns on you, you really aren't going no where buh either way, I can't wait to get married.

datguru:



My brother, you need Jesus in every area of your life ooo . Even to be able to cook your soup well, you need Jesus not to talk of marriage

u need help. You must be an ATM for your pastor

datguru:
It is not my portion IJN

its nt a course bt realit

I wonder why the mods hid my post because I wrote ' sureteeboy is typing' AT LEAST, I WASN'T THE ONLY ONE WHO BOOKED SPACE. WHAT GOES FOR MR A SHOULD GO FOR MR B AS WELL. IF OTHER SPACE BOOKER'S POST ARE NOT HIDDEN, WHY SHOULD MINE BE HIDDEN??

Yea true talk, buh sometime u don't face all these during 1st year of marriage but any time in the marriage especially during 1st to 10 yrs of marriage.



Another marriage till 2020

Every tom, dïck and harry knows this.

spiralwedge:


shmilling n shuffering tinz, shey?

Abi nao..

Op, I don't agree with some of your points. If d couple had a reasonable courtship period, they wd have faced some of these challenges n mastered how to deal with them even before they get married.
Don't be surprised that some of d challenges may even surface after many years of marriage....that's why u see marriages of 6,10, 14yrs breaking up n leading to divorce.
That's why we encourage courtship n counsellling for intending couples. Afterl marriage, couples should go for marriage retreats every 2 to 3 yrs.....I tell u these things help!
My humble submission

spiralwedge:


shmilling n shuffering tinz, shey?

Abi nao..

When I get to the bridge I will cross over..... I just don't want unnecessary stress from a man who calls himself my husband.

kayciano:
But. People face. All. Diz in. Dating naaaa..
I was expecting to see Something NEW...

WHICH OF THE PROBLEMS?



MARRIAGE IS DIFFERENT FROM DATING.

"Why are you not pregnant yet? Are you barren?"

Explains why Nigerian marriage is a mess. Couples don't even get to enjoy their union before introducing parenthood stress.

Only by the grace of God

some time till 3 rd yeat

Yea

ifymusa:
Hmmmm am learning oh

at 30 abi??

U are right.

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"MARRAIGE" So many have taken this course with nonchalance...It's a course that needs dedication,time,focus.alignment towards the kingdom and prayers.....I call it a course to show the proximity of its importance.Marriage is an institution entirely that needs commitment from both partners,Understanding is the charger needed to boost a healthy marriage.Like a quote I once shared "Make sure he/she share your dreams".This is of paramount importance to marriage.Don't end divorcing one another due to nagging and indifference that comes from him or her when you talk about your career,plans or dreams to him/her... Just the little my little self have got to share.Though I'm not married but I'v learnt from successful marriages and I know mine will be some day. Get Motivated,inspired and live coach on my page www.facebook.com/badirukehindeinspires. You can also view the poem I wrote dedicated to the Yobe school girls,it didin't make front page www.badirukehindewrites.. 28cc09AC God Bless NL #ConcernedNigerian #RelationshipTalk. Bless You OP..I owe you 1 ice cream *winks*

chupcake:
.. buh either way, I can't wait to get married.

you can't wait to get married my brother, u r dangerous!!

Vanellope:
OK. Got it.

Hey

Marriage is a marathon; but many think its just a 100meters sprint. You have to endure and be willing to forgive. The reason many dirvorce is because of impatience and unforgiveness. My young peeps, if u wan marry, make sure u marry d person wey u love die and d person too love u o...a word is enough 4 the wise

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Points are well articulated.I'm 8 months old in marriage,with a pregnant wife one really need to b very understanding,tolerant and patient. My wife confessed I kill her temperament with lovin kindness and positive attitude and it makes her melt in love @ d sound of my voice....may God continue to endow us with wisdom and understanding IJN

Rolly83:


Hey,I know you,you're my ex.I have your picture on my Facebook account!!!Are you sure you are the girl on the profile pix?

Your ex indeed

Just using this opportunity to say let's reflect on the death of these little children.My soldarity for peace and humanity stimulated me to write this...Let say no to violence. For the victims of the Yobe bomb blast 10/11/14 https://badirukehindewrites./2014/11/12/dedicated-to-the-memory-of-the-kids-who-lost-their-lives-on-101114-in-the-yobe-blast/

judedwriter:
Marriage is a marathon; but many think its just a 100meters sprint. You have to endure and be willing to forgive. The reason many dirvorce is because of impatience and unforgiveness. My young peeps, if u wan marry, make sure u marry d person wey u love die and d person too love u o...a word is enough 4 the wise

Na tru o my bro/sis

Likely true. However, not all marriages experience the enumerated challenges, and, not all the 8 challenges are experienced in a marriage in one year. Except if the married couple didnt get their priorities right before marriage. The only challenge i experienced in my first year is number 6. Asides that, it was and ahs been a smooth ride, seven years and counting.

martolux:
you can't wait to get married my brother, u r dangerous!!

Dangerous bawo... I really can't wait, this single life haff tire me nii jare. There is only so much random sex you can have before it gets tiring.