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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Sagamite(m): 8:20pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:20pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Those blaming the school are just being irrational I think. It's one thing to blame, it's another thing to pin-point exactly what the blamed should have done and if that activity was within the jurisdiction of the blamed. |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by opyscol(m): 8:20pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
AlphaLycan:Wot of d suicide bombers in the north eastern part of naija?? Were they raised in the US! Or ur one of those "THAT WUD RATHER KILL THEMSELVES THAN COMMIT SUICIDE" ; 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:20pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
priscaoge:as much as I would like to say it's her fault, and that sucide is not a Nigerian way of solving problems, I would also like to add that if you 've not lived through someone's life as he/she has, be cautious with accusations. Sucide takes time to build, being caught cheating might just have been the final straw. Who knows if she just found out that she had HIV, women are weaker vessels u know...nd we ought to respect the dead as well.... Not trying to promote sucide as being a way out of challenges or "depression" as the westerners do call it. I am simply saying it is never what it seems.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Sagamite(m): 8:21pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
zeroshadow: So you are saying the teachers caused her depression? Amd you are the one saying someone should not talk out of ignorance? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:22pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Pamcrest:Of course, the school would know of her health issues. So many unanswered questions...we don't even know if the German class she was in was part of the controlled learning. Or if the school had done anything to make sure that the girl is safe. I also wondered why the girl was yelled at if the instructor/school knew she had mental health issues. |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:23pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Sagamite: They should have left her with the phone,that's what he is saying |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:23pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Sagamite: LOOOL I love the bolded. "Shut up, counselor! I'm holding you in contempt for being a cretinous fúcktard." *mutters* "Product of a failed education system..." 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:23pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
saxywale: I was not there so I cannot tell how the teacher reacted but depression should not be an excuse to cheat so the teacher was right to take away her phone. I don't know if he yelled but if he did, then it was a mistake. He should not have yelled at a person who suffers from depression. But then again, did he know that she suffers from depression? In schools sometimes the teacher who invigilates an exam, is not the same teacher who teaches the class and knows the students. I think that someone who suffers from severe depression and is suicidal should not be at school taking exams but should be treated. If however the parties involved decide that the kid should take exams, then the kid has to take the exams under equal conditions. Else everybody can claim to be mentally ill and take an exam with the help of google. The mother decided that her child is able to cope with exam stress. She was wrong, she should blame herself. |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:24pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
saxywale: Don't you also wonder why her mother sent her school knowing she had mental illness? Why does she let her out of the house ? She should have kept her at home free from yells even at the height of provocation Yes That's what you are saying 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:25pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
donnypool:Law is much more complex than that.In Canada, holding someone (especially one who has mental health issues) against their wish is not kidnap. That is where a citizen arrest usually comes in. A police, peace officer and other citizens can hold a person or arrest a person against the person's wish if there is enough reason to believe the person is suffering from mental health issues and may cause harm to herself or others. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:25pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
There is nowhere cheating is tolerated. If you are not an expert in hiding your cheats that's your business. When you are caught, don't blame it on the teach or anybody else but on yourself. The teach made a silly mistake by continually exchanging words with her. It is the instructor duty to make sure she is well taken good care of than shouting or have some wrong words with her. Who knows what slurs the teacher must have used for her and the impression the peer pressure will have on her after the test? Perhaps, there is a little case there. The parents should try to sue the teach than not trying at all. Meanwhile, Nairaland is full of test cheats! Hahaha... |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Heart2heart(m): 8:26pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
IMT ENUGU mohammedmagnus: |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:26pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
babyosisi: Maybe her father is dead. Maybe not. Irrelevant. Obama was raised by single mother and became the president of the United States of America so stop generalizing. Two people can be even more foo*lish than one person. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Sagamite(m): 8:26pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
saxywale: It is "embarrassing" if a teacher shouts at a kid that is cheating? What the fck kind of arguments do liberal funky-wannabe people give for fck sake? This is the same useless mentality that is destroying UK's kids. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:27pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
all4naija: I quoted it earlier The city investigated and found no misconduct in the teacher's action and she is not part of the lawsuit You folks should read the posts carefully 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by zeroshadow: 8:28pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Sagamite: she was suffering from depression.... so the teachers didn't cause it... the teacher influenced It indirectly... babyosisi: when did I say they should have left the phone with her 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:28pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Sagamite: ROFL I think Nigeria should be sued in the first place for not teaching kids German in pre-school. If they had done it, the girl would have passed easily. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:28pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
[size=18pt]A city investigation cleared the instructor of any wrongdoing and she is not named in the suit.[/size] [size=18pt]There it is The teacher did nothing wrong.this is happening in a place where investigations are done thoroughly There must be a standard of procedure to handle cheating and she did it appropriately,she did nothing wrong [/size] 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Sagamite(m): 8:29pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
GlorifiedTunde: You are dumb! A 17 year old is a child? A 17 year old is too young to know cheating in an exam is wrong? And this foool has a right to vote? 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by 50calibre(m): 8:29pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Omotayo was a foolish child, her mother is better off without that burden. I've got no sympathy for anyone who takes their own life, and neither will I mourn such person for even a day. Her mother shouldn't mourn a child who couldn't consider her a reason to live. Severe bouts of depression is an extremely rare trait among black people, more so Nigerians who are usually exposed to very harsh conditions from birth. This foolish child emigrated to the US, at 17 she was no longer a toddler, one would expect a Nigerian bred 17 year old child to be mentally & psychologically resilient... I haven't a spent up to 15 years of my life in Nigeria, but I'm hard as nails. That doesn't mean I don't feel depressed at times, but never to the point of contemplating suicide, never!! No wonder the bible says; foolishness abound in the heart of every child, but the rod shall drive it far away from them. A good lashing to miss Omotayo, could have sent that demon out of her. Why didn't she commit suicide in Nigeria where I'm sure she'd faced far stiffer punishments? This a story of a foolish child who moved into a new environment & instead of acquiring positive trait, acquired the negative ones.. Suicidal urges are peculiar mostly to white people who feel the need to end their lives when faced with slight difficulty (sometimes, something as little as cyber bullying is enough) 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:29pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
zeroshadow: What should the teacher have done? |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:31pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Sagamite:The kid has mental health problem for f.cuk sake. She is not a normal kid |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Sagamite(m): 8:31pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
babyosisi: American judges need to start clamping down of frivolous claims by awarding punitive costs. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:31pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Sagamite: Some people don't even read the original post let alone the subsequent ones |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by holatin(m): 8:32pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
another increase in mortality rate |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:32pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
babyosisi:The city alone has no right to the investigation. Not until the parent lawyer has battled that out of the court there is no legal right to that claim yet. The city doesn't have the jurisdiction to say what is misconduct or interpret the law. Keep messing with your right! Is yelling at emotional patient not a misconduct on the part of the teacher? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:33pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Knelt down and begged for the phone |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Sagamite(m): 8:33pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
zeroshadow: Called her parents for what? How would that have stopped her killing herself? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Sagamite(m): 8:34pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 8:34pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Proffdada: 8:35pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
priscaoge:I guess most of u never felt the humiliation of being accused of cheating when you are actually far above that, the emotional distress most times are colossal and suicidal which spur outta control when not in check as in this case. bullying is a key feature in this case which was instigated by someone in higher authority. I never supported her action but counseling would have helped |
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