A man is a potential rapist if…



*.He has ever sexually engaged with any woman while she was underage, drunk, high, physically restrained, unconscious, or subjected to psychological, physical, economic, or emotional coercion.



*.He has blamed a woman for “putting herself in a situation” where she “could be” attacked.


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*.He threatens to patronise prostitutes when patner says no to his sex appeal defends .

Defends men accused for rape in court even with glaring evidence


*.He watches pornography in which women are depicted.
*.He watches any pornography in which sexual acts are depicted as a struggle for power or domination, regardless of whether women are present.


*.He characterizes the self-sexualizing behavior of some women, such as wearing make-up or high heels, as evidence of women’s desire to “get” a man.


*.He tells or laughs at jokes involving women being attacked, sexually “hoodwinked,” or sexually harassed.


*.He expresses enjoyment of movies/musicals/TV shows/plays in which women are sexually demeaned or presented as sexual objects


*.He mocks women who complain about sexual attacks, sexual harassment, street cat-calls, media depictions of women, or other forms of sexual objectification.

For every penny he gives you, he indirectly expects girl to pay back in kind

*.He states or implies that women who do not want to have sex with men are “inhibited,” “prudes,” “stuck-up,” “man-haters,” or psychologically ill.



*.He argues that certain male behaviors towards women are “cultural” and therefore not legitimate subjects of feminist attention.


*.He ever subordinates the interests of women in a given population to the interests of the men in that population, or proceeds in discussions as if the interests of the women are the same as the interests of the men.


*.He promotes religious or philosophical views in which a woman’s physical/psychological/emotional/sexual well-being is subordinated to a man’s.


*.He describes female anatomy in terms of penetration, or uses terms referencing the supposed “emptiness” of female anatomy when describing women.e.g calling girls holes.



*.He defends the sexualization or sexual abuse of minor females on the grounds of “consent” or “willingness.”


*.He promotes the idea that women as a class are happier or more fulfilled if they have man, or that they “should” have man.


*.He argues that people (or just “men”) have sexual “needs.”


*.He discusses the “types” of women he finds sexually appealing and/or attempts to demean women by telling them he does not find them sexually appealing.


*.He defends these actions by saying that some women also engage in rape.


Are you guilty of any of these?


Www.tobechispeaks./2014/11/21/identifying-potential-rapist-by-their-words

Are you studying Molestology?

Op is very correct. Especially on how such a man sees women generally as S*e*x objects only, is addicted to P0rn and refers all women as wh0res.

True. These characters raise red flag for any seasoned women who knows how to identify a man that seems off from the get go. Although unfortunately,a guy can seem cool and exhibit non of those traits up there but turn out to be the worst of all despite his saintly outward disposition.

And as usual the enemies of the truth are already getting buttt hurt.

Nonso23:
As usual, e don start.
Na only man fit be molester.
Soon dem go rush open 'thread for faithful non-molesters'
One-sided article laced with subtle misandry.

Huh? Are you a molester?

Nonso23:



We have better things to do with our time.

mmhmmm. Yet you opened the thread,read and found the time to comment on it. What's annoying you about the thread? Did it say anywhere that only guys molest?

cococandy:
And as usual the enemies of the truth are already getting buttt hurt.

I dnt even understand why anyone would be against the Op. The Op has stated nothing but the truth. seems the Op has revealed some hidden 'demons' in whomever disagrees with it.

Any molester irrespective of gender is a risk to the community and should not be ignored but taken up.

Many potential molesters on NL then

Nonso23:


Will my answer give you night food

Why do you have a problem with the Op? Its telling ladies how to identify potential molesters. What is your problem with it? why are you being defensive? Oh, are you addicted to p0rn?

Nonso23:

will my answer give you night food

Dnt worry about me getting night food. Food has nothing to do with molestation. I already know your answers to my questions.

Nonso23:

Good. Medidate wella on your manufactured answer

Like I said before:
Make una carry go.

Hehehehe. The Op revealed a lot of things about you right?

Issorait. we dey carry go ooo.

Nonso23:

I have time to read threads, i don't have time to become a specialist in molester tracking or analyst.

Did you see any other gender pointers other than the masculine ones

Like i said, make una carry go.

the op is about male molesters. But in no way said only males molest. You can help your fellow men to avoid being molested by female molesters if only you complete the op's job by bringing the other half I.e tips in how to identify female molesters.
If like you said,you don't care about molesters be they of any gender,then kindly leave those who care about them to worry about how to avoid them.

Nonso23:


Yes ma!

good boy.

Nice tips. Molestation is simply taking advantage,a crime of power. Anyone who always take advantage of his/her position,gift etc to demand se,x hmmm avoid am ooo

So if any guy is guilty of at least ONE charge, then he's a potential molester?

And this:

For every penny he gives you, he indirectly expects girl to pay back in kind

This sounds scary may God help us.

UjSizzle:
So if any guy is guilty of at least ONE charge, then he's a potential molester?

I wouldn't really say so. Although many or most of those points should make one be wary of how they associate with such a person.

Nonso23:
As usual, e don start.
Na only man fit be molester.
Soon dem go rush open 'thread for faithful non-molesters'
One-sided article laced with subtle misandry.

the OP must be infinitely stüpid!
there's no iota of truth in all the heresies he printed up there. matter of fact, 90% of rapë victims know their attackers. they willingly opened the door for him, or they willingly went to his house just before the attack.

all those pointers up there would just guide the ever-gullible women to the true räpists. men mostly involved in sëxual violence don't even talk about it - you don't see them coming. he's quiet, he keeps to himself until he cops the red mist & target his prey.

coogar:


the OP must be infinitely stüpid!
there's no iota of truth in all the heresies he printed up there. matter of fact, 90% of rapë victims know their attackers. they willingly opened the door for him, or they willingly went to his house before the attack.

all those pointers up there would just guide the ever-gullible women to the true räpists. men mostly involved in sëxual violence don't even talk about it - you don't see them coming. he's quiet, he keeps to himself until he cops the red mist & target his prey.

I really don't know why tobechi20 decided to post this topic here. Why not post it in the romance section, by the way it seems all the women affirming to what the OP posted have all been molested/gang raped e.tc

I don't necessarily agree with the OP on all his conclusions...

But what will a typical woman do if she sees one of those signs in her lover?

Leave him?