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Poll: Sex on FIRST DATE!!

YES: 12% (4 votes)
NO: 57% (19 votes)
Depends on The Person: 30% (10 votes)
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Re: Sex On The First Date? by Nobody: 12:47am On Nov 30, 2008
Timmmy:

when you have sex on the first date that means the relationship will not last. love is all about sex!  angry angry

sorry. love is not all about sex.
Re: Sex On The First Date? by SeanT21(f): 12:49am On Nov 30, 2008
~Sauron~:

Stop deceiving yourself. . . . . . Even wives would tell you they didn't know about their hubbies until they got married.
6 months?? If he's smart, you would only know what he wants you to know.

Every geezer pretends to be a saint on the first date till they walk away with the "goldmine".
Not necessarily.

Exactly,So Get To Know Them Before Letting Yourself Loose!!!

You gotta keep some things for the imagination.You cant Just throw it all out there!!!
Re: Sex On The First Date? by tope2000(f): 12:50am On Nov 30, 2008
Men can never be trusted tongue
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Sauron1: 12:52am On Nov 30, 2008
SeanT21:

Exactly,So Get To Know Them Before Letting Yourself Loose!!!

You gotta keep some things for the imagination.You can't Just throw it all out there!!!


U can never know a man 100%. Remove that idea from your head, please.
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Nobody: 12:53am On Nov 30, 2008
tope2000:

Blimey! U trust me that much tongue grin

not too much ooo grin grin
Re: Sex On The First Date? by SeanT21(f): 12:53am On Nov 30, 2008
~Sauron~:

U can never know a man 100%. Remove that idea from your head, please.

~~but It wont hurt knowing him better!!
Re: Sex On The First Date? by tope2000(f): 12:54am On Nov 30, 2008
SeanT21:

~~but It wont hurt knowing him better!!

Ofcos not but they are too lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed undecided

@timmmy
grin grin grin grin
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Sauron1: 12:57am On Nov 30, 2008
SeanT21:

~~but It wont hurt knowing him better!!

U would only know what he permits you to know.
The time factor has nuthing to do with it.
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Nobody: 12:59am On Nov 30, 2008
if i have sex with you on the first date believe me i will not respect you. will count you as a cheap chick. take it that way. cheesy
Re: Sex On The First Date? by SeanT21(f): 1:01am On Nov 30, 2008
Timmmy:

if i have sex with you on the first date believe me i will not respect you. will count you as a cheap chick. take it that way. cheesy

Exactly!!

That means the Girl is too easy,have no values or self respect,etc!!
Re: Sex On The First Date? by tope2000(f): 1:02am On Nov 30, 2008
Timmmy:

if i have sex with you on the first date believe me i will not respect you. will count you as a cheap chick. take it that way. cheesy

Trust me u are not the only naija guy that would say that undecided
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Sauron1: 1:03am On Nov 30, 2008
Timmmy:

if i have sex with you on the first date believe me i will not respect you.  will count you as a cheap chick. take it that way. cheesy

This is myopic.
Re: Sex On The First Date? by tope2000(f): 1:05am On Nov 30, 2008
u think undecided
Re: Sex On The First Date? by cooldud62: 1:06am On Nov 30, 2008
many of you here talk like this because you dont have experiences when it comes to dating,
well, thank God for Tgirl's thread, it has made us know some things about many pple on this forum,


anyway@ topic,
sex at first date is like sex at 100th date,
no difference!

in this context, first date means the first time you will both see yourselves phyisically ( one on one).
Its possible that yo have been talking on phone for weeks/months/yrs and the nature of your discussion might have made you so close. Its possible you have even started calling your selves hubby/wifey just like tope2000 and some other pple on this forum.
By the time you now meet, it definitely wont look like you are just meeting,
then, sex will come naturally.
God help you both the meeting is in a convinient place.

by the way tope2000, they said you can "attack" wella,
i thought i knew you,
dont mind me o, i just wanna see cheesy
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Nobody: 1:08am On Nov 30, 2008
@topic
nah mate sad
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Kweenisha: 1:08am On Nov 30, 2008
Timmmy:

if i have sex with you on the first date believe me i will not respect you. will count you as a cheap chick. take it that way. cheesy

and what does it make you? a man trick?
Re: Sex On The First Date? by tope2000(f): 1:09am On Nov 30, 2008
cooldud62*:

many of you here talk like this because you don't have experiences when it comes to dating,
well, thank God for Tgirl's thread, it has made us know some things about many people on this forum,


anyway@ topic,
sex at first date is like sex at 100th date,
no difference!

in this context, first date means the first time you will both see yourselves phyisically ( one on one).
Its possible that yo have been talking on phone for weeks/months/years and the nature of your discussion might have made you so close. Its possible you have even started calling your selves hubby/wifey just like tope2000 and some other people on this forum.
By the time you now meet, it definitely wont look like you are just meeting,
then, sex will come naturally.
God help you both the meeting is in a convinient place.

by the way tope2000, they said you can "attack" wella,
i thought i knew you,
don't mind me o, i just want to see cheesy

I concur grin grin

shocked shocked shocked shocked [Bolded sentences]
Cooldude behave yourself na tongue
Re: Sex On The First Date? by H2O2: 1:13am On Nov 30, 2008
~Sauron~:

If she's into you. . . . .talking about SPIDERMAN 3 would make her wet!!!
nothing wrong with being wet, but sex?  if she wants us to have a relationship the virgin will keep it closed.
If she doesn't, virgin my foot  grin

Nah. . . . . .not necessarily.
The babes that gave it on their first date are usually the best ones.
I hate pretenders. cheesy
Best for releasing stress.  Not wife material though.
"Tell me about yourself"
:::::::::'I can do the wheel barrow style, come let me show you'

Kills the mystery, kills the anticipation, reduces her to a piece of meat.
Works to the guy's advantage though, since she becomes a guaranteed booty.
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Sauron1: 1:14am On Nov 30, 2008
tope2000:

u think undecided

I know!!!
Sex on the first night does not make a woman CHEAP.
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Nobody: 1:15am On Nov 30, 2008
Kweenisha:

and what does it make you? a man trick?

no. i cant even do such a thing. even the if the gurl ask for it i will not give it out like that.
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Nobody: 1:15am On Nov 30, 2008
SeanT21:

Exactly!!

That means the Girl is too easy,have no values or self respect,etc!!
That necessarily might not be the case.

I don't advocate sex on the first date, but even if you do not have sex with him, he might still think you have no values or self-respect.

Point is, be careful, I thin it best if you get to know the dude before hopping into bed with him. The foundation of a r/ship ( cause of a date) is friendship. Sex is not going to keep the relationship long. Ok, you had sex with him on the first date, what's next? The next week the sex sucks and you break up. Later on you find out you're pregnant. Sadly, he's with another woman. . . . no, dnt tell me condoms might prevent the pregnancy. Are you sure, is it 100% effective?
Ok, so she's not pregnant, but later on your dck starts to itch, your sperm changes color. Your doctor diagnoses you for a STD. what do you do?

Like I tell others, don't let minutes or one night of hot sex determine the prognosis of your life. It's absolutely foolish.

Some men are so perverse that even if you don't have sex with them, they'll start thinking you think you're too good for them. Start thinking maybe you don't like them, maybe their not good enough. . . .all sorts. So if saying no means I'll be loosing my self-respect, then honey, am ready to loose it! lol
Re: Sex On The First Date? by tope2000(f): 1:16am On Nov 30, 2008
H2O2:

nothing wrong with being wet, but sex?  if she wants us to have a relationship the virgin will keep it closed.
If she doesn't, virgin my foot  ;DBest for releasing stress.  Not wife material though.
"Tell me about yourself"
:::::::::'I can do the wheel barrow style, come let me show you'

Kills the mystery, kills the anticipation, reduces her to a piece of meat.
Works to the guy's advantage though, since she becomes a guaranteed booty.

Roflmao grin grin

~Sauron~:

I know!!!
Sex on the first night does not make a woman CHEAP.

Only few and i mean FEW naija men will think like that undecided
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Nobody: 1:19am On Nov 30, 2008
tope2000:

Only few and i mean FEW naija men will think like that undecided
Even fewer than few sha undecided
Re: Sex On The First Date? by cooldud62: 1:19am On Nov 30, 2008
thats the funny mistake most young guys make,
you have fun with a guy and you go about telling people,

there was this case when i was in school,
a guy told his friend he fcked a gurl,
the gurl heard somehow and went to his room,
you are a bastard she said, we both fcked each other!
you fcked me, i bleeped you, so what's the noise about?

by the way,{ turning to gbeboruns} he couldnt stay for 5 minutes! shocked
is it a lie? tell them she shouted.
the guy ended up disgraced.

As adults, when you know what you want on the bed, you just want to know
what stuff this person's made of and get on with life!

tope2000:


Cooldude behave yourself na tongue
hey sweetheart, i didnt mean to be rude,
i like good thing na  grin
Re: Sex On The First Date? by mrghost: 1:20am On Nov 30, 2008
Now question time.
Tope
the present relationship you are into, when exactly do you had sex for the first time? 1st date,months,years
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Nobody: 1:21am On Nov 30, 2008
cooldud62*:

thats the funny mistake most young guys make,
you have fun with a guy and you go about telling people,

there was this case when i was in school,
a guy told his friend he fcked a gurl,
the gurl heard somehow and went to his room,
you are a bastard she said, we both fcked each other!
you fcked me, i bleeped you, so what's the noise about?

by the way,{ turning to gbeboruns} he couldnt stay for 5 minutes! shocked
is it a lie? tell them she shouted.
the guy ended up disgraced.

As adults, when you know what you want on the bed, you just want to know
what stuff this person's made of and get on with life!
hey sweetheart, i didnt mean to be rude,
i like good thing na grin


u be my guy.
Re: Sex On The First Date? by H2O2: 1:22am On Nov 30, 2008
Yeah it's not even about right or wrong
Re: Sex On The First Date? by tope2000(f): 1:22am On Nov 30, 2008
mrghost:

Now question time.
Tope
the present relationship you are into, when exactly do you had sex for the first time? 1st date,months,years

Are u MAD

cooldud62*:

thats the funny mistake most young guys make,
you have fun with a guy and you go about telling people,

there was this case when i was in school,
a guy told his friend he fcked a gurl,
the gurl heard somehow and went to his room,
you are a bastard she said, we both fcked each other!
you fcked me, i bleeped you, so what's the noise about?

by the way,{ turning to gbeboruns} he couldnt stay for 5 minutes! shocked
is it a lie? tell them she shouted.
the guy ended up disgraced.


As adults, when you know what you want on the bed, you just want to know
what stuff this person's made of and get on with life!
hey sweetheart, i didnt mean to be rude,
i like good thing na  grin

Buahahahaahaha
I like girls like that grin
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Nobody: 1:23am On Nov 30, 2008
Not even about '1st date' sha, I won't have sex on any date, not unless we're married lipsrsealed kiss
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Nobody: 1:24am On Nov 30, 2008
cooldud62*:

there was this case when i was in school,
a guy told his friend he fcked a gurl,
the gurl heard somehow and went to his room,
you are a bastard she said, we both fcked each other!
you fcked me, i bleeped you, so what's the noise about?
How old is he?
Now if a girl says no, what wouldhe have told his freinds? Same story or made some up like the usual naija men?

Some men scare me o. Kiss and tell.
Re: Sex On The First Date? by Nobody: 1:24am On Nov 30, 2008
ibkaye:

Not even about '1st date' sha, I won't have sex on any date, not unless we're married lipsrsealed kiss
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed Young girl, leave this thread tongue
Re: Sex On The First Date? by tope2000(f): 1:25am On Nov 30, 2008
ibkaye:

Not even about '1st date' sha, I won't have sex on any date, not unless we're married lipsrsealed kiss

I like ur detemination grin grin grin
I op u will be sayin same thing in 2yrs time undecided tongue

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