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Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Nov 28, 2014
If I had the chance or if I have my way I will stay single for the rest of my life and just give birth to kids if I get a willing lady.

I have been fooled to believe in love all along. I thought with marriage all dreams will come true. I have felt some form of emotions with certain girls at one point in time and they felt same too, only for us to begin to get weary and tired of one another.

We hear different stories and accounts of failed marriages and the non-existent love people claim to have disappeared in their lives.

With experience too, I have come to the realization that commitment brings more hurt than good except ofcourse those negligible amount of people who are lucky to find someone who is compartible with them.

Other problems include:
Lack of jobs.
Failing economies.
Expensive accomodation and school fees
Infidelity amongst many others.

With your experience and orientation so far, will you still get married?

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:26pm On Nov 28, 2014
marriage is fun my guy. Believe God, stay away from fornication, learn all u can about marriage and u'll find a very great wife. Me dey look forward to marriage seriously

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by iceberylin(m): 10:32pm On Nov 28, 2014
I hear say e BOring undecided
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by phabulous88(m): 10:36pm On Nov 28, 2014
I think you started out on a deficit mentality thinking that marriage will solve all your problems. Marriage comes with a whole lotta challenges and fights and arguments, at least I saw that in my parents but they always ended up on the same bed, every night of everyday grin

And so to answer your question, YES I will get married. In fact I can't wait to get married cos I'm tired of being in the kitchen and cooking at 10 pm

So if you're a lady that looks and acts like my mother, please PM me and you just might be lucky grin

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Nov 28, 2014
iceberylin:
I hear say e BOring undecided
marriage can be boring or fun depending on the two fellas involved

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by 1one: 11:16pm On Nov 28, 2014
Ohhhh very much.... Very Very much excited sef.


This konji is almost pouring out of my throat. cry
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by dmcdad: 11:21pm On Nov 28, 2014
1one:
Ohhhh very much.... Very Very much excited sef.


This konji is almost pouring out of my throat. cry
My own don dey follow ear comot sef...cheesy
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Afrobasic(m): 11:22pm On Nov 28, 2014
Lol, me sef no sure grin sad
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by 1one: 11:24pm On Nov 28, 2014
dmcdad:

My own don dey follow ear comot sef...cheesy

Looooool.

Hilarious!! grin grin
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by KanwuliaJara: 12:04am On Nov 29, 2014
I never was!
I just loooooooooove the certificate! kiss

Just like any other degree in life! cool

You can always buy one. . .if you really want! wink

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 6:43am On Nov 29, 2014
phabulous88:
I think you started out on a deficit mentality thinking that marriage will solve all your problems. Marriage comes with a whole lotta challenges and fights and arguments, at least I saw that in my parents but they always ended up on the same bed, every night of everyday grin

And so to answer your question, YES I will get married. In fact I can't wait to get married cos I'm tired of being in the kitchen and cooking at 10 pm

So if you're a lady that looks and acts like my mother, please PM me and you just might be lucky grin

You have insulted me in a civil manner and I must agree that you are matured and would be lame for me to want to rain insults on you or argue with you because I feel what you have said.

Thanks for the contribution.

Imagine some people would have used words like: "idiot" ... "stupid" I wonder why they do that?.

Besides, I like the little advert you did after your post. So girls PM this man.
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by sparklie(f): 6:50am On Nov 29, 2014
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Advertico:
marriage is fun my guy. Believe God, stay away from fornication, learn all u can about marriage and u'll find a very great wife. Me dey look forward to marriage seriously


Preach it brother! Maybe they'll hear since it's coming from a brother! If this is who u sincerely are o and not that u r fronting, then I pray that the God you serve will give u a woman that each day u spend together, you'll go to ur closet and thank Him for creating the day u met her.


@ op, marriage is pure bliss when u find ur friend, treat her well.
Most men who post on nl claiming they are seeking serious relationships are seeking for serious Bleep-TIONSHIPS!!!

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by dBard: 7:04am On Nov 29, 2014
So far,I would say Yes..I would get married again.
One thing I know tho, the mentality you step into marriage with will to a large extent determine how much you will enjoy it.
Like most thingd in life also, u need t prepare yourself. No matter how long or how well u dated, dre are a lot of tins u need t learn/be reminded of concerning marriage.
Wen I got married,I did 2 pre marital classes,one @d brides church n 2nd@ my church(which was much more organised n intense) n truly its helped a lot.
I came into marriage with no misconceptions.
You cannot be living single in marriage n expect tins to be wonderful.

Marriage is to be enjoyed not endured but you havr got to work @it.

my take tho...peace
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 7:07am On Nov 29, 2014
I have a very independent way of thinking and whatever anyone says,doesn't always threaten it......I have never thought of marriage to be anything less than what you(both)make of it.......
So
YES,I would get married someday,
I should get married someday,
and I will get married....
She who finds a worthy man,finds a good thing
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 7:08am On Nov 29, 2014
sparklie:
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Preach it brother! Maybe they'll hear since it's coming from a brother! If this is who u sincerely are o and not that u r fronting, then I pray that the God you serve will give u a woman that each day u spend together, you'll go to ur closet and thank Him for creating the day u met her.


@ op, marriage is pure bliss when u find ur friend, treat her well.
Most men who post on nl claiming they are seeking serious relationships are seeking for serious Bleep-TIONSHIPS!!!

LMAO.
Hi and morning.
Most of us who post here just post for posting sake and to stir people to give information.

It doesnt really reflect who we are.
Trust me, the poster you quoted might actually be the opposite of what he said.
Reality is different from appearance.

This is my mindset of marriage;

I envisage a marriage where I would sing for my wife and kids playing my guitar and reading poems that I wrote myself. Bla bla bla.

I missed a lady called IfyCream.

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by dBard: 7:13am On Nov 29, 2014
sparklie:
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Preach it brother! Maybe they'll hear since it's coming from a brother! If this is who u sincerely are o and not that u r fronting, then I pray that the God you serve will give u a woman that each day u spend together, you'll go to ur closet and thank Him for creating the day u met her.


@ op, marriage is pure bliss when u find ur friend, treat her well.
Most men who post on nl claiming they are seeking serious relationships are seeking for serious Bleep-TIONSHIPS!!!

Problem is,most guys want t eat their cake n have it. Be married yet single n am not talking about sex alone...single in their minds,single in their actions.
You didn't date a girl exclusively n yet u want t wife her? That's just totally wrong.
If ur beginning is wrong, then how do u expect to finish strong??

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by YourCoffin: 7:26am On Nov 29, 2014
Marriage is a bliss only if you're dead. Spirits enjoy marriage here in the graveyard.
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 8:12am On Nov 29, 2014
YourCoffin:
Marriage is a bliss only if you're dead. Spirits enjoy marriage here in the graveyard.

I wish you could come down to our own level and let us understand.

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by YourCoffin: 8:22am On Nov 29, 2014
ATOB:


I wish you could come down to our own level and let us understand.

Nah! I'd rather you climb up. I don't have a ladder here.

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 8:28am On Nov 29, 2014
YourCoffin:


Nah! I'd rather you climb up. I don't have a ladder here.

LMAO funny dude.
Id rather not.
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:20am On Nov 29, 2014
sparklie:
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Preach it brother! Maybe they'll hear since it's coming from a brother! If this is who u sincerely are o and not that u r fronting, then I pray that the God you serve will give u a woman that each day u spend together, you'll go to ur closet and thank Him for creating the day u met her.


@ op, marriage is pure bliss when u find ur friend, treat her well.
Most men who post on nl claiming they are seeking serious relationships are seeking for serious Bleep-TIONSHIPS!!!
AMEN DEAR.

ATOB:


LMAO.
Hi and morning.
Most of us who post here just post for posting sake and to stir people to give information.

It doesnt really reflect who we are.
Trust me, the poster you quoted might actually be the opposite of what he said.
Reality is different from appearance.

This is my mindset of marriage;

I envisage a marriage where I would sing for my wife and kids playing my guitar and reading poems that I wrote myself. Bla bla bla.

I missed a lady called IfyCream.
I am not, team no sex before marriage that is where i belong. No need to come front for NL.

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by sparklie(f): 10:32am On Nov 29, 2014
dBard:


Problem is,most guys want t eat their cake n have it. Be married yet single n am not talking about sex alone...single in their minds,single in their actions.
You didn't date a girl exclusively n yet u want t wife her? That's just totally wrong.
If ur beginning is wrong, then how do u expect to finish strong??


Sometimes the way they treat us with this sex thing.....I feel like weeping. More like if u don't wanna do, pls fall out, the queue is long. I knw some gals have made them feel like this but why not give everyone a fair chance. If sex is gonna happen even after both parties have sworn "no sex b4 marriage", let it take a natural course and not by force, coercion or undue pressure. Let it happen because the woman also wants u not because she feels that if she doesn't give u, u might leave her or seek for it else where.

For me, whatever will be, will be. Yorubas say that, the water that one will drink, will not flow pass u, meaning if it's urs, u'll drink it and u go belle full.

It's just appalling when most of what men wanna discuss is how much they love se.x, like I love it so much and u shld be ever ready to drop ur ass 4 me to grind!

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:58am On Nov 29, 2014
sparklie:


Sometimes the way they treat us with this sex thing.....I feel like weeping. More like if u don't wanna do, pls fall out, the queue is long. I knw some gals have made them feel like this but why not give everyone a fair chance. If sex is gonna happen even after both parties have sworn "no sex b4 marriage", let it take a natural course and not by force, coercion or undue pressure. Let it happen because the woman also wants u not because she feels that if she doesn't give u, u might leave her or seek for it else where.

For me, whatever will be, will be. Yorubas say that, the water that one will drink, will not flow pass u, meaning if it's urs, u'll drink it and u go belle full.

It's just appalling when most of what men wanna discuss is how much they love se.x, like I love it so much and u shld be ever ready to drop ur ass 4 me to grind!

Why are you ignoring my comments when I quote you.
I just want to say I apologize for anything I may have said to you.
I sincerely am.
Please forgive me.
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 11:00am On Nov 29, 2014
Advertico:
AMEN DEAR.

I am not, team no sex before marriage that is where i belong. No need to come front for NL.

Yes its a struggle.
I admire you.
I was that too for many years after I lost someone I love till someone came around and the relationship went sour again. I still am right now for months sha.

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 11:06am On Nov 29, 2014
I'm so excited, can't wait for Easter smiley smiley smiley

Maybe cos he's been my best friend for years now... People always say if you spend yrs with a person you get bored, but mine is sooo soo different, I keep loving him more..He has so become become a part of me that I get sooo bored without him....God has always been the foundation of our relationship too



OP, Marriage is so sweet.. Maybe cos you haven't met the right person, cos if you do, you may even borrow to make sure you settle down with her grin grin grin

Wish us all the best in our marriages kiss kiss kiss

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by veevean1(f): 11:17am On Nov 29, 2014
MarvellousGod:
I'm so excited, can't wait for Easter smiley smiley smiley

Maybe cos he's been my best friend for years now... People always say if you spend yrs with a person you get bored, but mine is sooo soo different, I keep loving him more..He has so become become a part of me that I get sooo bored without him....God has always been the foundation of our relationship too

Easter and u didn't even tell me shocked uhhh am so happy for u, will like to be like u when I grow up



OP, Marriage is so sweet.. Maybe cos you haven't met the right person, cos if you do, you may even borrow to make sure you settle down with her grin grin grin

Wish us all the best in our marriages kiss kiss kiss
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 11:21am On Nov 29, 2014
ATOB:


Yes its a struggle.
I admire you.
I was that too for many years after I lost someone I love till someone came around and the relationship went sour again. I still am right now for months sha.
it doesnt have to be a struggle.
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 11:23am On Nov 29, 2014
MarvellousGod:
I'm so excited, can't wait for Easter smiley smiley smiley

Maybe cos he's been my best friend for years now... People always say if you spend yrs with a person you get bored, but mine is sooo soo different, I keep loving him more..He has so become become a part of me that I get sooo bored without him....God has always been the foundation of our relationship too



OP, Marriage is so sweet.. Maybe cos you haven't met the right person, cos if you do, you may even borrow to make sure you settle down with her grin grin grin

Wish us all the best in our marriages kiss kiss kiss
wow...nice

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 11:31am On Nov 29, 2014
Your marriage is what you make of it.... Marriage needs manure for continuous and blossom growth... Go out with your partner, see movies together both at cinema and home, play ludo, cards etc together, buy things for each other, crack jokes, go on holidays, pray together, do those things that keep the bond so strong and love evergreen. ...

Learn to forgive cos you ain't perfect too.
Never assume or hold unhealthy suspicions in your mind.
keep no third party
Above all, Let go of whatever ego you have when it comes to your partner.....

Marriage is sweet cos many marriages around me are just sooo kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss

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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Nobody: 11:34am On Nov 29, 2014
Veevean1, welcome to family section cheesy cheesy cool


Advertico:
wow...nice
smiley smiley smiley
Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by Emasel(m): 11:35am On Nov 29, 2014
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Re: Are You Still Excited About Marriage? by sparklie(f): 1:30pm On Nov 29, 2014
ATOB:


Why are you ignoring my comments when I quote you.
I just want to say I apologize for anything I may have said to you.
I sincerely am.
Please forgive me.


smiley I hold no grudge against u. How have u been?

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