sukkot:
the man of God is irrelevant. this here issue is between husband and wife. this here issue is an A and B issue and the pastor should C his way out of it

Read the OP again
The man of God is at the center of the marriage and is controlling her every move ,could even be dictating when she can sleep with the husband
When a prophet can tell a woman where she can hang her laundry,he is part and parcel of the relationship and in total control
Believe me

Heb 1:1-2.

You better stop her or else those charlatans will deplete her/your financial resources all in a bid to secure for her deliverance or worse still one of the deliverance expert might convince her into adultery . Both of you should go for medical evaluation then counselling to reset her already tampered inhibitions. Therafter both of you should pray fervently for Gods supplication in the area of marital fruitfulness and finally….

Do your work well and hope for the best.


Noto bene: I didn't mean you should stop her going to church, I meant she should stop patronising seers.

babyosisi:


Read the OP again
The man of God is at the center of the marriage and could even be dictating when she can sleep with the man

tis why i said he has to put his foot down. stop seeing the man of God or move out of this house and move in with him. em is the only two options you have. and dont let the door knob hit ya where the good lord split ya

God will help you my bro...I believe woman can go any length to get whatever they needed. For won't be good but sweet words and encouraging ones...

Bros, the whole issue as you have said is from not being able to conceive. Being in the medical field, I can tell that due the advancement in medicine, some of these condition can be diagnosed and treated.

First, you and your wife would need to see some specialist. You never know, it could be you. They will be able to recommend specific tests and procedures that will determine what the issue is. As long as there are underlying conditions, the probability of shooting blank would be high. The good news is availability of specialist hospitals/clinics now unlike before. Again, they are using more modern diagnostic equipment and there have been profound increase in knowledge regarding infertility.

But these are not cheap anyway.However, do not give up on prayers. Cheers

Issues relating to religion are very sensitive.

If the center cannot hold, tins wud fall apart.

Be prepared for the worse.

all these men of god ( notice i use small g ) who go around baptizing women with their holy gbola. animal in human skin

You need to tell her that more time in the bedroom with you less time with the magic pastors her womb will be unlocked. That's my own prophecy. If that doesn't work do it over again. I'm surprised all these prophets never told her that

@op you aint seen nothing yet. Wait until the night vigils start coming in thick & fast. Maybe na that time your eye go open. Better wake up & let her understand these so called prophecies aren't healthy & putting a strain on your marriage

sukkot:
all these men of god ( notice i use small g ) who go around baptizing women with their holy gbola. animal in human skin

What's gbola

This is a serious issue and I am afraid that your marriage is heading to the rocks. Your wife has allowed external influence into your home. I wish I could advice you but it seems your wife has gotten so deep with these fraudsters who call themselves MOG. They will make your wife hate everybody in this world including yourself

If you can stop her from going to church please do

cal her to order that you can have children when u pray urselves in ur room.and GOD will answer ur prayer

sandijey:



What's gbola

prick

Davidoff2000:
I am recently married..if one year six months is recent. I dated my wife for a few years before marrying her, last year. She is not born again per se, but very churchy and religious. She always says that they (who ever they are, I don't know) have always told her that she has a calling for God....fine

She likes going to church and always likes pastors 'wey dey see road' meaning pastors who often prophesy...prophets and the like.

Now that we haven't had a child yet, she often goes to church- quite a few different churches if i might add or sees different pastors often on the recommendation of family members or friends...and all of them keep giving her prophecies, bulk of which are not good.

"Its someone in your husband's family, thats responsible, its your husband's step mother, (whom she has never met). Now only recently, by yet another pastor: "its one girl ur husband dated and didnt marry that is the cause of ur predicament...."

"Your first issue going to be a boy but that scorned girl has bewitched you and locked your womb, and untll you and your husband come for deliverance, you can't conceive.

And to the best of my knowledge there is no girl i promised marriage up to that serious level that i disappointed...yet she says two different pastors have said the same thing.

I feel all these are works of charlatans and I tell her if i was to consult prophets too...they will tell me its her own mother, her uncle or her family member that is the cause.

I feel if she keeps listening to all these so called pastors, they will develop a siege mentality in her that will make her start looking at everyone around us with suspicion.

The same pastor that told her about me disappointing a girl also said there's some one in our compound that doesnt like her(my wife) and she should start being careful how or where she (my wife) spreads her clothes...A compound of few people and 6 flats..3flats of which are empty at the moment with only 7 other grown ups, 3 other wives inclusive.

We have a problem with one of the families just a lady with a bad character, but who cant and wont go to any diabolical route to do us bad...I told my wife that so because of what that pastor told her now, she will start thinking this woman wants to harm her?

That's the sort of siege mentality these prophesies can engender in her.

So question now is- how should i handle this? Should I stop her from seeing these pastors? Or stop her from going to church? Since i always encourage her to go though am not the church type myself...Or go for deliverance to one of these her 'obviously' fake pastors or pastors with inaccurate prophecies.

It is written: My people perish for lack of Knowledge.

This is what happens if you are ignorant of the word of God.

Your wife is being tossed around because of her ignorance on the word.

Find and plant yourself and your wife in a church that will teach you about the word of God and how to stand your ground on it.

You also need to know God better so you can take the lead spiritually for your family otherwise your wife will be led by wrong people to the wrong hands.

Search and you shall find.

The internet is available for you and yours to search on what the word of God says about the fruit of the womb and his promises, hold on to the promise and stand on it.

Finally, both of you should go to a fertility clinic to run a fertility test.

Stop your wife from visiting those prophets now. Take charge.

Sorry about ur troubles. Note that psychological trauma contributes to infertility. Also, worry is a clear sign of lack of trust in God-God hates it. Faith is what you need! And don't forget it is the "substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen."
You also need to be a genuine believer so you can study God & learn how to attract His blessings-there's no short cut to His standard.
Please beware of false prophets-we're in the endtime!
I'm a called minister & I declare to you that if you will trust God & be obedient to Him you will not only have a child but children in Jesus Name. God Bless you Sir.

Sorry.
Your wife is very local.
No insult intended. . . JUST THE FACT!

She is timid and without a mind of her own.
Stopping her is not the problem.
If she does not see a 'pastor'. . .SHE WILL VISIT A BABALAWO for sure.
Some people constantly look for 'validation'. . . from others.
Especially when they have LOW SELF-ESTEEM ISSUES. . . OR LIKE TO PARTAKE IN GOSSIP AS THEIR ONLY HOBBY!

Very big problem if not taken care of this time, if not by the time some of them has finished with her if care is not taken and she falls into the wrong ones, they will start bedding her not only telling her about your family and people in the compound. Too bad. Your wife has gone far and call her to order if not, your marriage is bound to crash.

OP simply married the wrong person or someone incompatible.

Men who married the right person never used languages like "stop my Wife from doing this or that".

You and your Wife are not on the same page and I have a concern about introducing children into this relationship at this time.

Let me remind you about one thing never said that someone cannot go diabolical,and you appear to be very carnal minded prophecy may not come to pass as in the book of Jonah and some may not be intepreted well, that doesn't make it generally fake. However,you said that she is not born again so how will the thing even work.

May Allah curse the christians and the jews

on a side note, you cant drink garri three times a day and expect to get pregnant. try eating fresh vegetables

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sukkot:
prick

Choiiiiiii. I want my mummy.....

What if he finds out the wife even agreed to marry him based on the same prophecies,what will he do
It's not today the woman started hearing from yahoo temples

tspun:
Persistent prophecy is a familiar way of
assuring the event. Please try and examine yourself properly.

What's the f@ck kind of b@llsh#t statement is that?You dey form grammar? Abeg,Park well if you don't have any better thing to say..

sandijey:



Choiiiiiii. I want my mummy.....

hey all am saying is when i read about african pastors and their female congregation members, these types of things seem common place.

on a sidenote i am loving my phone. i got 6 apps on it already
1-heart rate monitor
2-solar system
3-foreign exchange calculator
4-world clock
5-audio bible
6-fingerprint scan

tell me what apps you got and which one you think i would like. no games please. i dont like computer games

flipboss:
.if she must visit any where first... it should be a hospital. Why not encourage her, and both of you go see a doctor. Infertility is inability to concieve after one year of regular sexual intercourse.
Perhaps she's got some very 'ugly' past with medical implications and she's just trying to cover it up and play 'smart'

So on point!!

If this continues, ur marriage will soon be in serious trouble bcoz of this mushroom prophets and churches.

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Op don't call prayer house "prophet " a pastor. From your story It's safe to say your wife has been patronizing these seers before she married u; probably she believes she got.married through the help of these fake demonic seers. you are on a long thing, because a person who is patronizing these prayer houses is worse than the devil.

sandijey:



What's gbola

i tink is hausa meanin manhood