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Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by odi4ever: 11:55am On Dec 08, 2008
we have been together since childhood,there was one love with us b4 this girl friend of my causin came in.b4 she came we were living happily.there come a time tins started going rund.if this girl is around and my causin is not around she can never feel free and base on am the only person at home i will try as mush as possible to make her happy and to make her feel at home.sincerely speaking i dont have any thin in mind over her.am just trying to be a good friend and a good brother in-law to her.she has being doin this so i now told me causin about it and he told me that may she is shy of me.that she will talk to her so that she will get use to me. is only when my causin (her boy firend) she is free and does things happily.me i dont like it that way so when ever she comes around and my causin is around,i will stay i while them i live so that she can be free and do every thin she needs to do freely.i dont really no why she is acting like this.me and my causin are staying together in one room apartment, i have alomost 90% of the thins inside the room.some months later thins started changing between me and my causin,we use to donate money if we want to cook and we do alomost everything together before now.but this day if i ask my causin for money he will tell me he dont have but if this girl is around he will get money to buy indomie and egg for her.not only that, the way they both of them are now using my tins any how they like.my causin dont sweep the room again and he use to do this things before and he doesn't wash plate and other things any more.and am a year older than him.there was a day he took my fone that i told him i want to give to my gran-mother he gave it to her girl friend on my behalf.when i came he told me he has giving the phone to her girl friend to use for a while that he will bring back the phone in 2weeks time.3 months past i ask my broda about d phone, the way he answer me was very anoying.i jst control myself.i ask him another 2months after, he told me not to worry that he will tell her to bring the phone.i said ok.my gran-mother started disturbing me about the phone i promise her and he was there.i bought my granny another phone waiting for my causin to bring back my phone.he seems not to care about it any more and i did not ask him again.still thins still remain the same.one the i called him and ask him why he has charge his ways that this is not how we use to live before that i want to no if there is anything bodering him and if i have offended him he should tell me so i can say sorry.after teling him all this, all he can tell is''guy nor worry, we nor d quarrel''so i siad ok, since we nor d quarel y ur ways come change.i told him both of us no that we dont do things the way we use to do .what he told me is ''guy no dullin we nor d quarel just that so many things too mush my head.''to me i think that not an amswer to the question i ask him. now i think i should park-out of the room 4 him.since things is not going well as b4 and since i dont no his mind any more.me am not confortable with the whole thing.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by eminemkayc: 12:36pm On Dec 08, 2008
Ur use of d english word nd grammar hs made ur story difficult 4me 2 comprehend!!
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by steve49ja(m): 12:48pm On Dec 08, 2008
odi4ever:

we have been together since childhood,there was one love with us before this girl friend of my causin came in.before she came we were living happily.there come a time tins started going rund.if this girl is around and my causin is not around she can never feel free and base on am the only person at home i will try as mush as possible to make her happy and to make her feel at home.sincerely speaking i don't have any thin in mind over her.am just trying to be a good friend and a good brother in-law to her.she has being doin this so i now told me causin about it and he told me that may she is shy of me.that she will talk to her so that she will get use to me. is only when my causin (her boy firend) she is free and does things happily.me i don't like it that way so when ever she comes around and my causin is around,i will stay i while them i live so that she can be free and do every thin she needs to do freely.i don't really no why she is acting like this.me and my causin are staying together in one room apartment, i have alomost 90% of the thins inside the room.some months later thins started changing between me and my causin,we use to donate money if we want to cook and we do alomost everything together before now.but this day if i ask my causin for money he will tell me he don't have but if this girl is around he will get money to buy indomie and egg for her.not only that, the way they both of them are now using my tins any how they like.my causin don't sweep the room again and he use to do this things before and he doesn't wash plate and other things any more.and am a year older than him.there was a day he took my phone that i told him i want to give to my gran-mother he gave it to her girl friend on my behalf.when i came he told me he has giving the phone to her girl friend to use for a while that he will bring back the phone in 2weeks time.3 months past i ask my brother about d phone, the way he answer me was very anoying.i jst control myself.i ask him another 2months after, he told me not to worry that he will tell her to bring the phone.i said ok.my gran-mother started disturbing me about the phone i promise her and he was there.i bought my granny another phone waiting for my causin to bring back my phone.he seems not to care about it any more and i did not ask him again.still thins still remain the same.one the i called him and ask him why he has charge his ways that this is not how we use to live before that i want to no if there is anything bodering him and if i have offended him he should tell me so i can say sorry.after teling him all this, all he can tell is''guy nor worry, we nor d quarrel''so i siad ok, since we nor d quarel y ur ways come change.i told him both of us no that we don't do things the way we use to do .what he told me is ''guy no dullin we nor d quarel just that so many things too mush my head.''to me i think that not an amswer to the question i ask him. now i think i should park-out of the room 4 him.since things is not going well as before and since i don't no his mind any more.me am not confortable with the whole thing.

your point is? ? ?
yet another thread
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by CrazyMan(m): 1:06pm On Dec 08, 2008
Your vocabulary is so poor. I could hardly read what you wrote. Next time buy enough air time and edit your post properly so people can read.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by Tapiya(m): 5:27pm On Dec 08, 2008
Guy I understand your predicament,

Anyway, the advice is if you feel he so much in love with his girl and you can afford a place of your own then go ahead and move out so you can allow them space, am sure the girl thinks that you are the only hinderance to her becoming mrs your cousin.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by AuntyMary(f): 5:34pm On Dec 08, 2008
forget ur cousin for now, go back to primary sch and learn grammar and spelling
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by MissyB1(m): 5:42pm On Dec 08, 2008
If you can't comprehende what the poster is talking
about shut up and waka pass.
His write-up is erroneous  . . . So?? angry angry angry
Tapiya:

Guy I understand your predicament,

Anyway, the advice is if you feel he so much in love with his girl and you can afford a place of your own then go ahead and move out so  you can allow them space, am sure the girl thinks that you are the only hinderance to her becoming mrs your cousin.

Poster . . . I think I agree with this.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by AuntyMary(f): 5:47pm On Dec 08, 2008
Missy B:

If you can't comprehende what the poster is taking
about shut up and waka pass.
His write-up is erroneous . . . So?? angry angry angry



i see why u are the poster's voltron, u need help with ur spelling as well, maybe both of u can enrol for adult education together!
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by MissyB1(m): 5:52pm On Dec 08, 2008
Rotfl!!
That was typo. If I'm to make a mistake in Eng. it certainly
isn't going to be of that kind.
Since you see it as a duty to educate peeps in Eng.language, why don't
you take them up for classes and remember to start your sentence with a capital
letter next time. wink
You care to tell me the English meaning of voltron?
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by MrCrackles(m): 5:53pm On Dec 08, 2008
Aunty Mary:


i see why u are the poster's voltron, u need help with ur spelling as well, maybe both of u can enrol for adult education together!


grin grin grin
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by gaddafi81(m): 5:53pm On Dec 08, 2008
Why we do this all the time!!!  angry angry angry
Nairalanders are so fond of nitpicking on other people's spelling and grammer
Can't u peeps just let it slide or simply make the correction urself

@ poster
If you've got enough money to get ur own place, pls do so.
Its not until he tells you to move out before you know he really wants you to, its very obvious from all what you've written.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by AuntyMary(f): 5:59pm On Dec 08, 2008
gaddafi81:

Why we do this all the time!!! angry angry angry
Nairalanders are so fond of nitpicking on other people's spelling and grammer
Can't u peeps just let it slide or simply make the correction yourself

sharrapdia gadaffi! there's no nitpicking here as the whole post is riddled with bad grammar/spelling mistakes, even the title was not spared the poster's bullets! grin


Missy B:

Rotfl!!
That was typo. If I'm to make a mistake in Eng. it certainly
isn't going to be of that kind.
Since you see it as a duty to educate peeps in Eng.language, why don't
you take them up for classes and[b] remember to start your sentence with a capital
letter next time[/b]. wink


ha! no be exam now my sister, this na nairaland! dont worry, i will excuse u this time, no make that kain mistake again oh!

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by MissyB1(m): 6:04pm On Dec 08, 2008
That wasn't a 'mistake' . . . wake me up from sleep
and I'll give you 10000000 synonyms of comprehend without any flaw.
Yes . . no be exam but if you must correct the poster . . . you must be perfect.
Soffri murder Eng. abeg . . . I'm still waiting for the meaning of 'voltron'. grin
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by AuntyMary(f): 6:09pm On Dec 08, 2008
Missy B:

That wasn't a 'mistake' . . . wake me up from sleep
and I'll give you 10000000 synonyms of comprehend without any flaw.
Yes . . no be exam but if you must correct the poster . . . you must be perfect.
Soffri murder Eng. abeg . . . I'm still waiting for the meaning of 'voltron'. grin


oya give me 10000000 synonyms of comprehend, kiakia oh, no dey make mouth here


u mean u dont know voltron - the defender of the universe? u are either very old or very young, which is it?
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by watever90: 6:09pm On Dec 08, 2008
Aunty Mary:

forget ur cousin for now, go back to primary sch and learn grammar and spelling

r u perfect?get a hold of urself virgin mary,and stop being a nuisance,if u dont understand d poster,zoom off


@topic

do u have enoff money to get urself an appartment?
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by gaddafi81(m): 6:13pm On Dec 08, 2008
Aunty Mary:

sharrapdia gadaffi! there's no nitpicking here as the whole post is riddled with bad grammar/spelling mistakes, even the title was not spared the poster's bullets! grin
Did you not understand wat he wrote? or you think the word Dyslexia came from no where abi?
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by MrCrackles(m): 6:14pm On Dec 08, 2008
.watever90:

@topic
do u have enoff money to get yourself an appartment?

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked pastor please deliverance required here!! grin
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by watever90: 6:14pm On Dec 08, 2008
MrCrackles:

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked pastor please deliverance required here!! grin

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

hello love kiss kiss kiss
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by MrCrackles(m): 6:15pm On Dec 08, 2008
.watever90:

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

hello love kiss kiss kiss

Wetin u do again?! grin grin grin


POSTER

I think you should do both!!
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by AuntyMary(f): 6:16pm On Dec 08, 2008
.watever90:

r u perfect?get a hold of yourself virgin mary,and stop being a nuisance,if u don't understand d poster,zoom off


@topic

do u have enoff money to get yourself an appartment?

another voltron! it is ppl like u that give nigeria a bad name, english is the official language of nigeria, throughout ur education, you were taught in english (that is if u went to sch!). yet u, like the poster, have spelling difficulties!  *shakes head* at least ur grammar is not too bad sha

PS: even in shorthand, enough is spelt enuff!  go and enrol with ur brother , NUISANCE!
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by MissyB1(m): 6:16pm On Dec 08, 2008
Aunty Mary:


oya give me 10000000 synonyms of comprehend, kiakia oh, no dey make mouth here
[size=2pt]lmao[/size]
Aunty Mary:

u mean u don't know voltron - the defender of the universe? u are either very old or very young, which is it?
That's a movie I haven't seen and thank goodness you didn't
intend that to be a 'word'.
Ciao!!
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by richo2: 6:17pm On Dec 08, 2008
oga poster ur story is too long for me to read but if its about lovin ur cousin u beta run away angry
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by AuntyMary(f): 6:20pm On Dec 08, 2008
gaddafi81:

Did you not understand what he wrote? or you think the word Dyslexia came from no where abi?


Gadaffi, again i say sharrapdia! ;Ddid the poster tell u he has dyslexia abi u think everyone that cannot spell has dyslexia ok, lets pretend that u are correct, now, what wud be ur explanation for his poor grammar? dsylexia as well
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by gaddafi81(m): 6:20pm On Dec 08, 2008
richo2:

oga poster ur story is too long for me to read but if its about lovin ur cousin u beta run away angry

lol . . . he's cousin is a dude and its not bout lovin his cousin
na by force to post?
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by watever90: 6:21pm On Dec 08, 2008
Aunty Mary:

another voltron! it is people like u that give nigeria a bad name, english is the official language of nigeria, throughout ur education, you were taught in english (that is if u went to sch!). yet u, like the poster, have spelling difficulties!  *shakes head* at least ur grammar is not too bad sha

PS: even in shorthand, enough is spelt enough!  go and enrol with ur brother , NUISANCE!

how fortunate,now give yourself a good clap,did u post this?English is our official language,how many of us were priviledged to go to schools tot wt good command of english,how many of us r exposed,for all u care they r so many people living in rural AREAS that have never spoken english in a long time,so what?

tell me mary what is ur point?

P.S as for d exchange of words,hahahahahahha if i were u,i'll go lock up that tiny thing u call hands,because my dear,I'm not someone u can easily intimidate wt ur stupidity
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by AuntyMary(f): 6:22pm On Dec 08, 2008
Missy B:

[size=2pt]lmao[/size]That's a movie I haven't seen and thank goodness you didn't
intend that to be a 'word'.
Ciao!!

voltron is a cartoon! go and look for it on youtube,

no use style take run without giving me my synonyms oh, u can use dictionary.com if u like! wink
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by MissyB1(m): 6:23pm On Dec 08, 2008
Aunty Mary:

A[/b]nother voltron! it is people like u that give [b]N[/b]igeria a bad name, [b]E[/b]nglish is the official language of [b]N[/b]igeria, throughout ur education, you were taught in english (that is if u went to [b]sch!). yet u, like the poster, have spelling difficulties!.  *shakes head* at least ur grammar is not too bad sha

PS: even in shorthand, enough is spelt enough!  go and enrol with ur brother , NUISANCE!
Listen up . . . I thought t'was a joke when you started
but seems you're taking it too far. Carefully examine the part of your statement
written in bold . . . Correct yourself before you correct others.
While you're busy working hard trying to give Nigeria a good reputation
in Eng.language, You may want to know it's a BIG SHAME to spell her with a small letter 'N'.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by MissyB1(m): 6:26pm On Dec 08, 2008
Aunty Mary:

voltron is a cartoon! go and look for it on youtube,

no use style take run without giving me my synonyms oh, u can use dictionary.com if u like! wink
Are you dull or trying to pull my legs?
How can anyone believe ''comprehend'' or any other word has 1000000 synonyms?
Voltron can be a cartoon/movie or even porn . . . I'm not interested babe. wink
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by AuntyMary(f): 6:28pm On Dec 08, 2008
.watever90:

how fortunate,now give yourself a good clap,did u post this?English is our official language,how many of us were priviledged to go to schools tot wt good command of english,how many of us r exposed,for all u care they r so many people living in rural AREAS that have never spoken english in a long time,so what?
tell me mary what is ur point?

P.S as for exchange of words,hahahahahahha if i were u,i'll go lock up that tiny thing u call hands,because my dear,I'm not someone u can easily intimidate wt ur stupidity

is that ur excuse for ur poor spelling ability

i see u have grammar difficulties as well - u have now shown urself cos u want to play voltron!  grin its 'those tiny things you call hands' , duh! maybe u shud move back to ur village or stick to speaking pidgin english!
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by gaddafi81(m): 6:28pm On Dec 08, 2008
Aunty Mary:

Gadaffi, again i say sharrapdia! ;Ddid the poster tell u he has dyslexia abi u think everyone that cannot spell has dyslexia ok, lets pretend that u are correct, now, what would be ur explanation for his poor grammar? dsylexia as well

I asked u a simple question and i noticed you purposely ignored it, so im going to ask you again - Did you not understand all what the OP wrote?
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by watever90: 6:30pm On Dec 08, 2008
Aunty Mary:

is that ur excuse for ur poor spelling ability

i see u have grammar difficulties as well - u have now shown yourself because u want to play voltron!  grin its 'those tiny things you call hands' , duh! maybe u should move back to ur village or stick to speaking pidgin english!

hahahahhahahahhhahahahah *claps for mary* kpakpakpa,now for real,how old r u?12,13? undecided  as for d english,i never claimed to be perfect so rush home to mama and suckle ur feeding bottle,u shameless old swine grin

Yaba left is not too far,I'm sure they will still have enoff space for a retarded malu like u,now run along
Re: Please I Need Your Advice,should I Stay Or Live.but I Love My Causin Very Well by AuntyMary(f): 6:33pm On Dec 08, 2008
Missy B:

Are you dull or trying to pull my legs?
How can anyone believe ''comprehend'' or any other word has 1000000 synonyms?
Voltron can be a cartoon/movie or even porn . . . I'm not interested babe. wink

trying to pull ur legs like you were trying to do mine,


this is nairaland not some exam so i do not have to write formally, so u can keep ur corrections to urself, shorthand is perfectly accepted in informal forums like this one, atrocious grammar and spelling shud never be accepted even in informal settings, thank u very much! maybe u, mr whatever, gadaffi and the OP shud get together and form a support group!

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