MizMyColi:




What can she do?

pickabeau1:
A relationship based on lies cannot stand

What sense in having a man outside who will give her kids n be raised by the hubby

If it was a fertility issue...that is different but this is full ED

MizMyColi:
Okay, first off, the man lied to her.
Their relationship was based on lies --- on wrong impressions.

Whatever she wants to do, whatever her actions, as long as they do not harm anyone in the process, I think it's justified.

I'd advise the woman to follow her inner feelings. She's in a best position to decide on what to do. No one is in her shoes at the moment. She knows better.

Yet, I'd advise her to stick around. What formed her relationship with the man, was it love or something vain? If she ever loved him to begin with, hard as it might be, she ought to forgive him and work with him to find a solution to the issue.

Let her talk to her creator.....to take all her woes, her tears, her hurts and make the best out of them, let her ask her creator to fill her with a spirit that is willing to forgive and forge ahead. LET HER DO HER BEST, and if nothing works.......she may seek out other ethically acceptable options.

Last I checked, this is Nigeria. No one likes being labeled a divorcee, especially our women.

ibson99:
there is no solution to this, its an impossible situation. Its like asking a mathematician to prove that 2 is bigger than 3. She should divorce that looser and find a better husband while she is still young. Or else she will live the rest of her life in misery and regrets.

Mprex:
Jesus my father!

I would walk out of that relationship without looking back. He knew he wasnt capable and he never told her from the onset. I'm sure he was the one that even suggested that their dating should be without sex.

And when the lady wont bring forth kids, all hands will be pointed @ her

MizMyColi:


Okay, Does it mead there is no hope?

iceberylin:
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pickabeau1:



Did you get wat I said


Some can service but have no seed...that is manageable

This one cannot service

Hian!

pickabeau1:
A relationship based on lies cannot stand

What sense in having a man outside who will give her kids n be raised by the hubby

If it was a fertility issue...that is different but this is full ED

kika23:
Wow!! This is pure wickedness. Lies!!!!

That aside, he would have been seeking solutions to his problem before they got married. I mean impossible is nothing, there's nothing new under the sun; miracles do happen. It's So sad though, I can imagine the dilemma.

I think she should be patient and they should seek solutions to the problem (traditional or orthodox), something might happen. Situations may turn around for the better, afterall it's for better or worse but she should follow her heart because she's the only one that knows where it hurts.

No wonder people believe premarital sex is good, situations like this warrant such beliefs....

BreezyRita:


Ice love, ok I'm Jane.
Oya, give your advice or opinioy or whatever.

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iceberylin:


my opįŋįoŋ:

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chimerase2:
bia nne u just de mention kingtom for all ua diary
Tell me is a lie

MizMyColi:
Okay, first off, the man lied to her.
#1 Their relationship was based on lies --- on wrong impressions.

Whatever she wants to do, whatever her actions, as long as they do not harm anyone in the process, I think it's justified.

I'd advise the woman to follow her inner feelings. She's in a best position to decide on what to do. No one is in her shoes at the moment. She knows better.

#2 Yet, I'd advise her to stick around. What formed her relationship with the man, was it love or something vain? If she ever loved him to begin with, hard as it might be, she ought to forgive him and work with him to find a solution to the issue.

Let her talk to her creator.....to take all her woes, her tears, her hurts and make the best out of them, let her ask her creator to fill her with a spirit that is willing to forgive and forge ahead. LET HER DO HER BEST, and if nothing works.......she may seek out other ethically acceptable options.

#3 Last I checked, this is Nigeria. No one likes being labeled a divorcee, especially our women.

#1 : Lie Based Relationship. #Accepted

#2: Since she love-d the Man, she can help her look for solution if she wishes oo. and if she dont, she should leave. Why would a Man Lie about such ish. . mchteww.

#3: Divorcee: You have to go back and check again. Naija today dont care about divorce or not.

BreezyRita:


They both love each other. Very much. I think the reason he didn't tell her was cos he was afraid of losing her........
The idea of having kids and 'servicing' from other men may be ok to her now
But I'm.thinking what'll happen in future. We all know there'll be no respect.
The man too is in hell. Cos wifey will get satisfaction and kids somewhere but what happens to him??
I'm thinking there's no solution. But divorce is so difficult and such a stigma in Nigeria that I feel they should give it a chance. Maybe their love will keep them.

MizMyColi:

Hian!

Cwaya:

#1 : Lie Based Relationship. #Accepted

#2: Since she love-d the Man, she can help her look for solution if she wishes oo. and if she dont, she should leave. Why would a Man Lie about such ish. . mchteww.

Desperation my dear.

#3: Divorcee: You have to go back and check again. Naija today dont care about divorce or not.

Y'see, most pretend like they don't, but they'd rather avoid it than carry such stigma, if they can.