~Sauron~:

I agree with u here. . . . .

Don't mind these Bachelorettes who don't know what it takes to keep a man in marriage.
A woman has to fight every day to keep his man on a leash. Good food, adequate care, good sex et al.
Where is Sistawoman to give us some tips.

she must fight everyday,but sm people think its wen u go fight some woman on d streets,no way

a woman must fight to keep her husband,financially,psychologically,physically,mentally,romantically and above all emotionally

its a race one must run when married,do all tis things well,and i bet u d man wouldnt look outside,except the chronic womanizers

.watever90:

wait until u r married,ur language wil definitely change

Are you saying only the woman works hard to sustain the marriage. . .  while the husband relaxes doing nothing?

Ok it's certain I'm joining a convent.

.watever90:

she must fight everyday,but sm people think its until u go fight some woman on d streets,no way

a woman must fight to keep her husband,financially,psychologically,physically,mentally,romantically and above all emotionally

its a race one must run when married,do all tis things well,and i bet u d man wouldnt look outside,except the chronic womanizers

But if it is in your natural character to do all these things then there is no fight.

It come naturally for me because of how i was raised.  At first when i was younger i bucked against my mom submissive attitude.  And now see the wisdom in how my mother is with my dad.  It works for them and it works for me.  truth is my mom and dad have been married for almost 50 years and love each other to pieces.  I really believe that if my mom passed on that my dad would follow w/in a year and vis versa.

4 Play:

Demographically, there are always more women than men from the post-teen period. If you don't like it, move to China where the one-child policy has led to the greater abortion of females.

Poster's referring to the good guys


Personally I'm not crazy about topics like this.  .  .they tend to make most women believe they have to grovel and debase themselves to get a man.

stillwater:

Are you saying only the woman works hard to sustain the marriage. . .  while the husband relaxes doing nothing?
.

nope,but a womans role in a marriage is by far bigger than the mans,the homje belongs to a woman,if she wants to build she will,if she wanna scatter,oh yes she will,behind every successful man there is a  . . . . . .

men r babies honey,treat them like one and u have them where u want them

stillwater:

Ok it's certain I'm joining a convent.

good luck and say me well to father johnbull

sistawoman:

But if it is in your natural character to do all these things then there is no fight.

It come naturally for me because of how i was raised.  At first when i was younger i bucked against my mom submissive attitude.  And now see the wisdom in how my mother is with my dad.  It works for them and it works for me.  truth is my mom and dad have been married for almost 50 years and love each other to pieces.  I really believe that if my mom passed on that my dad would follow w/in a year and vis versa.

u dont get it,so sorry u dont naturally my foot,whos not natural here?i told u pretence is out of it,anybody dat pretends is nt natural,but anybody dat is ready to learn is being natural

read my post,it takes reading inbtw d lines and intelligence to get my point

.watever90:


good luck and say me well to father johnbull

Hey, there's a monopoly on that Father

.watever90 . . . dem don ban u again.
You worse pass me.

@ topic - when women know what they want men will no longer be in short supply.

.watever90:

she must fight everyday,but sm people think its when u go fight some woman on d streets,no way

a woman must fight to keep her husband,financially,psychologically,physically,mentally,romantically and above all emotionally

its a race one must run when married,do all tis things well,and i bet u d man wouldnt look outside,except the chronic womanizers

Cheese n Rice!!!. . . . . . .I am so impressed with this comment of yours.
I hope these women can learn a great deal from you. . . .
They all think marriage is a cake walk where they just sleep, eat and shag for the fun of it.
In short, 21-gun salute for you.

davidylan:

.watever90 . . . them don ban u again.
You worse pass me.

@ topic - when women know what they want men will no longer be in short supply.

sweetheart them say i go off topic ooo,i was hardly online dis past days,i wonder where i do offtopic

.watever90:

u don't get it,so sorry u don't naturally my foot,whos not natural here?i told u pretence is out of it,anybody that pretends is nt natural,but anybody that is ready to learn is being natural

read my post,it takes reading inbtw d lines and intelligence to get my point

I get what you are saying but for some of us we dont have to "fight" to make sure we are doing the check list things.

For those that this behavior or way of thinking is not 'inbread' so to speak then yes they must fight for thier marriages and remember the check list of things.

I guess what i am trying to say is for some of us it comes as naturally as blinking would.

Some women are wired for marriage and the challanges it brings and for those of us that are we dont see it as a big deal, it just is what it is and we make it do what it do.

but i get you totally, marriage is hard work, for some, and should not be taken lightly.  Even those of us that dont find it hard still check in with our mates to make sure thier needs are being taken care of no woman can stake claim on property she cant afford in the first place.

Cristalz:

Poster's referring to the good guys


Personally I'm not crazy about topics like this.  .  .they tend to make most women believe they have to grovel and debase themselves to get a man.

Should you not grovel for the ''few good men'' like us that remain out there?

@ Topic,
It does not take a water baptism to know that there is a limited supply of good men with a good heart out there. Grab one while there is still time.

There are still a number of men who still for quit a long time don't have any woman and are waiting to be tapped just like young women are.This ratio is just significantly low.

Pataki:

Should you not grovel for the ''few good men'' like us that remain out there?

Dearie, good men have no need of adverts

sistawoman:

I get what you are saying but for some of us we don't have to "fight" to make sure we are doing the check list things.

For those that this behavior or way of thinking is not 'inbread' so to speak then yes they must fight for their marriages and remember the check list of things.

I guess what i am trying to say is for some of us it comes as naturally as blinking would.

Some women are wired for marriage and the challanges it brings and for those of us that are we don't see it as a big deal, it just is what it is and we make it do what it do.

but i get you totally, marriage is hard work, for some, and should not be taken lightly.  Even those of us that don't find it hard still check in with our mates to make sure their needs are being taken care of no woman can stake claim on property she can't afford in the first place.

no u don't get me totally,listen sistawoman,some of us are good in other things,maybe in d bedroom business ,cooking,and other stuffs to keep d man running back to u,while some know nothing,that is why i said u have to learn

listen woman,any woman that is ready to get married,any woman wt brains,wisdom,intelligence will have to learn some certain things to keep her man,some r good at keeping men,while some r not,u have to learn to keep that man beside u,my mum used to say,that if a woman does not know what marital maximum satisfaction means she should go learn about it,else divorce will be too close for them

even those that do it naturally r not perfect,u also have a lot of learning to do,if a woman is good,i mean good in every thing,i tell u d men will want to leave their work places to be wt their wives,some wouldnt mind giving excuses,like claiming one sickness(mine is no exception,he does it alot )just to come home,u think its because they want to rest,its because they r missing home and their wives

anyman u see that keeps going to a beer parlour or hanging out wt friends all d time,is just bored of his wife and home,when a woman is interesting,i tell u d man will go no where,that is why i said a woman must learn


all I'm saying is drag and rule a mans emotions wisely,and u will have him eating out of ur palms

Cristalz:

Dearie, good men have no need of adverts

My Sweet Cristalz, must you always tell me that? In this day and age, you have to market yourself. Let the women know there are still good men out there. How else would Obama have won the heart of many if not for his strategic adverts?

.watever90:

anyman u see that keeps going to a beer parlour or hanging out wt friends all d time,is just bored of his wife and home,when a woman is interesting,i tell u d man will go no where,that is why i said a woman must learn

all I'm saying is drag and rule a mans emotions wisely,and u will have him eating out of ur palms

Brilliant post. . . . . . . .
Matter of fact, i think u should write a step by step manual on how to keep your man in marriage so these ignorant women can learn.
Of course, if the home is conducive enough a man will not stray!!!

waterver90, have you considered setting up a counselling class for some of the women here? They can learn one or two things from you.

Pataki

I'm sure Obama didn't wave a banner with ''I'm a darn good man Michelle'' written on it before he could get a date with the lady

Good  men never need to blow trumpets 'cause its not in their nature to.  .  .thought you would know that They praise their good women instead, not themselves.

~Sauron~:

Brilliant post. . . . . . . .
Matter of fact, i think u should write a step by step manual on how to keep your man in marriage so these ignorant women can learn.
Of course, if the home is conducive enough a man will not stray!!!

thanks love

but for real,i wonder when some women come on here and keep asking for advise(s),because their hubbys love clubbing or hanging out wt friends,I'm like what?watver happend to a woman strip dancing for her hubby in d bedroom?watever happend to a woman dancing makossa in her naked glory for her man?get a mans mind busy wt good things,i bet he wouldnt even think bout clubbing all d time or hanging out wt friend

my dear OP, there has always been man shortage (unless you believe in the biblical creation story), statistics show that the ratio of women to men is at least 7:1, so yes, there is alot of searching to find ur own and the competition is fierce!

davidylan:

waterver90, have you considered setting up a counselling class for some of the women here? They can learn one or two things from you.

thank u sweetie

its very easy to keep a man,only if d woman is ready to,men r not so wicked and heartless like some women say,play ur own part and the man will play his own part too,its all about understanding and sacrifice

Cristalz:

Pataki

I'm sure Obama didn't wave a banner with ''I'm a darn good man Michelle'' written on it before he could get a date with the lady

Good  men never need to blow trumpets 'cause its not in their nature to.  .  .thought you would know that They praise their good women instead, not themselves.

You just want to prove you are right? Not today My Sweet Cristalz

Or should I say My Good Sweet Cristalz.

Drawing an analogy with Obama was to show that in the modern day we live in, the vast spread of evil has watered down the good deed. Good deed like ME, therefore if the good do not speak who will?

Good men have been blowing their trumpets since creation have you failed to see that even from the good book? Yes I agree good women should be praised, but that is a subject discussion for another day.

.watever90:

thanks love

but for real,i wonder when some women come on here and keep asking for advise(s),because their hubbys love clubbing or hanging out wt friends,

They are clueless. . . . . .All they want to talk about is the price of fish in Agege Market in comparison with Yaba Market.
Boring little things.

I'm like what?watver happend to a woman strip dancing for her hubby in d bedroom?watever happend to a woman dancing makossa in her naked glory for her man?get a mans mind busy wt good things,i bet he wouldnt even think bout clubbing all d time or hanging out wt friend

Cheese n Rice!!!
U know what?? I am erecting a pole in ma bedroom ASAP.

No need for a pole.

Shit i have used a mop handle as a pole. A cane as an accessory. A chair as a prop.

Put on some heels or Bleep me boots and let the rest come naturally or unnaturally if you had to take a class.

Pataki, a good woman can discern a good man, no adverts necessary. Nuff said.  .  .those that know will understand

~Sauron~:

They are clueless. . . . . .All they want to talk about is the price of fish in Agege Market in comparison with Yaba Market.
Boring little things.

Cheese n Rice!!!
U know what?? I am erecting a pole in ma bedroom ASAP.

hahahhahahaahhahaha gawddd,hanni u r sthg else

ehen but its true naw,u know like putting on all them lacy/transparent bra and panties,wt ur heely shoes and giving him d "im gonna Bleep u real bad" or "get urself buried inside of me in d next 20 mins" kinda look

and d sky will be ur limit

There is only a shortage of GOOD MEN

Cristalz:

Pataki, a good woman can discern a good man, no adverts necessary. Nuff said.  .  .those that know will understand

any woman can discern a good man if she remains true to her instincts

sistawoman:

No need for a pole.

Shit i have used a mop handle as a pole. A cane as an accessory. A chair as a prop.

Put on some heels or Bleep me boots and let the rest come naturally or unnaturally if you had to take a class.

sistawoman, u are too much for aunty mary oh! she may need to come to you for classes

tope2000:

There is only a shortage of GOOD MEN

sexist statement! there is also a shortage of good women, look around you and see

Aunty Mary:


sexist statement! there is also a shortage of good women, look around you and see

I thought we are talking about men

sistawoman:

No need for a pole.

Shit i have used a mop handle as a pole. A cane as an accessory. A chair as a prop.

Put on some heels or Bleep me boots and let the rest come naturally or unnaturally if you had to take a class.

Lmao

Aunty Mary:

any woman can discern a good man if she remains true to her instincts

Good to see you interjected a conditional clause in there.  .  .goes to reinforce my initial statement