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Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by tonychristopher: 6:37pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
14DUI: That's the problem I have with them ...they want to eat their cake and still have it bros I told them that if they don't love the heat In kitchen they should leave the kitchen |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by tonychristopher: 6:40pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Okeycima: So on point ..even my wife goes behind once I carry my dude ...my friends that have cars does the same . A decent woman should know this ....that's why these girls don't get married They have nasty attitude If it pains her why don't she buy a car 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:51pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Tell him you don't like it when he sends you to the back. If he does it again, refuse. I love girls with a healthy dose of self respect. And concerning the other matter...you can't make a leopard change it's spots. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Mistermamus(m): 6:56pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
All diz kind tinz dey hate read girlz sef mtsheww u c correct guy go friendzone am fall 4 d 1 wey dey smoke n drink well o.y.o |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by alienware(m): 7:00pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
adewasco2k:wale.. How far ? U don come back Naija ? U are no longer on whatsapp. Na alienware be dis. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Juliaann(f): 7:02pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
icelord:don't drag politics into this thread yeye dey smell |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by icelord(m): 7:05pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Juliaann:mumu, true or false |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Callfubu(m): 7:18pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Juliaann:firstly, that guy won't change, that's a given, I have friends like that. I feel its a matter of choice. for instance I don't usually take alcohol frequently, and later on I stopped completely and I don't smoke, that's a decision I've taken by myself, not because some gf wanted to change me. another reason why he won't change is that even if he wants to for your sake, so far he keeps the same friends, he'll always go back. talking to him won't change anything. for me I think you'd have peace of mind without him. In a totally unrelated news, is that you in your DP?!! DAMN!!!!!!!!!! In fact I want to date you sharpaly, if its you o |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Whynotthetruth(m): 8:07pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Pes13: What's your own |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by ogaprime(m): 8:16pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
adewasco2k: If na okada nkor, your friend go seat in between you and your gf abi |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by helphelp: 8:18pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
See ur yansh and ur profile picture/profile message and you want make im respect you..Na rat go chop ur yansh dia
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Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Whynotthetruth(m): 8:23pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
donbabade: who did this to you? God help you.... merry xmas |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by ideology(m): 8:26pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Mprex:Keep shining, you will dine with kings. Ps; you are one of the few real women remaining in Nigeria |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Pamcrest(f): 8:37pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Girl, whatever a guy is doing when u met him, he will probably continue doing, u may not be able to change him. Habits die hard! On d car issue, since u have talked about it n he persists, it's either he's not that into u so he can disrespect u OR he's d type of man who values his friends more than his gf. U have only 2 choices......continue condoning his hurtful habits or leave him. My humble submission |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by annibro(f): 8:41pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Do u want 2 hear d truth? U are going 2b an unhappy woman from day 1 until God changes him becos changing is not by ones strenghth but by d help of d Holy Spirit. And how possible and soon will dis happen wen its possible he doesn't visit places wer he can reach God nor have heart 4d tins of God. My sister, ur destiny is stil in ur hands. Don't scuttle ur future happiness. Leave d guy and pray 4 a good guy... Dey exist. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Melahou(m): 8:52pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
You should have known his attitude before you met him and now you think you can change him... As for the car stuff...i dnt see why you should worry yourself over that cos guy does it alot. If he likes it then allow him...when ever you carry him with you own car then you shd do the same and see his reaction. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by 360command: 9:06pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Juliaann:a smoker n a drinker plus he keeps late at night together with his nasty habit? Girl, see the road well before u cross it. trust me, a day will com wen he gets drunk n decide wanting to ve sex wit u or taking unnecessary violence against u. Omo, it is really true good girls dates bad guys n good guys dates bad girls.merry xmas! |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by process123(m): 9:27pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Juliaann: 1st question u v 2 ask urself is this d kind of man u wan u children 2 v as a father? If he wan to change, he has 2 do it not because he wan 2 please u but that he has a change of heart 4 good |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by woodboi(m): 9:36pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Madam save yourself the stress when next you guys are going out, take the back row. If he ask why, just find one excuse about how you prefer the back sit, until he starts to get the picture. Simplicity remains the only way to break complexity # About the smoking and drinking thing... He is not a chain smoker! Because if it takes you long before you find out that he smokes. A chain smoker takes not less then 10 sticks a day and no matter how hard he tries to hide it, they can't think straight when the need arise. I think you fall in normal human love and wishing everything could just work perfectly the way you went. My dear manage it or waka, don't ever try to change him, because the outcome will frustrate you the more.. The best you can do is add value to his life, try by working on the number of sticks, he takes per day. But I think you said he smoke anytin... SK is bad oooo |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by syras: 9:55pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
You should know that people's attitude don't change. You're a very lucky lady - as he has shown you who he really is before delving into marriage. If you fathom spending the rest of your miserable life with him, I shall advise you to jump into marrying him. But, if you think otherwise, RUN!!! |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by bolliejay(m): 10:04pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
The guy is just disrespectful......tell him plain u aint doing that again or else u won't follow him out again As for the smoking and drugs...ur choice but u and l knw that they are both badn ungodly and dangerous to health....like l said, the choice is urs |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Jasi7(m): 10:21pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Juliaann: Chill ma'am...dnt allow d anger thats cums with d fact that he said ''ure after his money'' to stop from reading other parts of his post...i saw ur pic,its not like ure ugly...so why are u even thinking of wether to stay or not?... u need to speak with him abt d car ish..tel him u hate d treatment u get when he sees a frnd on d road with all d passion in u....its not like hes irreplaceable,and ure not ugly either |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Bwaal(m): 11:01pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
smokers are liable to die young....probably u want to b widow on time 2.... drunkard (omuti) choi pls watz ur occupation by the time he beat u to pulp one of his drunk nite......ur brain will shift back to normal pls don hesitate to post ur pix and d full jist choi ladies and fish brain wait wat exactly do u like abt a smoker drunkard probably a womanizer choi u need deliverance walahi abi the dude fine reach angel u better wake.......shaking my head in korean style #my 2kobo |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by ifeanyi317(m): 11:17pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Sorry dear jus take it easy OK. As for telling to go to d back sit. That bad show he doesn't respect you. So my dear move on. For the smoking part. Is not easy and it takes a lot of patience I used to smoke like crazy b4 but had to stop due tomy GF she was really patient dou. So my dear continue talking to him. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by sherozy(m): 11:32pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
to me I don't see anything wrong about that, that's a pure sing of friendship @ least wen u guys re @ home d so called friend won't be there. in as much as he is with his per he would want to show that he commands his zone very. my dear you have to get used to it it's a normal boy thing. I know there are some boy that are weak, those re the dudes that allows women come between them and dier pals..... |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Tosinville(m): 12:01am On Dec 25, 2014 |
Man, its not easy to Bleep your day one nigga up cos of a pussy you just met yesterday, he did what a real nigga should do, I aint completely in support of this but hoez comes and go, but ur hommie is still always by ur side and I'm so sure u won't even look at him twice when he was still struggling with his homeyz to own a car, and if things go wrong financially as we are speaking u will be the first to pack ur belongings and move out of his crib straight up,9ja girls ar good at this if u even aint one... My advice for you is to leave if you aint happy with that relationship, don't force love when love don't love you |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Tymax(m): 12:15am On Dec 25, 2014 |
benromeo39:Word! |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by ethylene: 12:49am On Dec 25, 2014 |
What you will do is simply simple. Any time you go out with him, don't bother to stay in the front seat. If at any point he wants you to sit in front, refuse him if he insists, theN tell him u are not comfortable the way he treats you when he is to lift his friends. Which is not a respectable tin to do as a gentleman. Or else if he is not. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Glexxx: 1:20am On Dec 25, 2014 |
Juliaann,call dat relationship quit ASAP...let me tell u sumtin..d mistake we youths make 2day,we bliv dat "we can change d partner wen we get married"...superstory.Mission impossible.U can't change a full grown adult.My advise is 4 u 2 quit d relationship n start on a new page.Such guy is complicated...since u dnt lyk guys dat smoke,quit d affair.So dat u won't be hurt by d car ish.Also,u still hv 2 check urself n c where u r failing,n tighten d lose ends.So dat ur nxt relationship won't suffer.Immedi8ly u found out he smokes,u shud hv quit d relationship...u waited long 4 tinz 2 spoil.Remember,he who brings ant infested firewood,must learn 2 use it.N 2 some of u commenting O.P n nonsense...i 1da wen ur brains wud mature...nairaland has a long way 2 go. 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by asids55: 4:54am On Dec 25, 2014 |
Juliaann:what is that popular boondocks phrase again "homies over 'hoes' " and the brocode has it well spelt out "bros before 'hoes' "....pity you can't read the bro code...... 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Etetejake(m): 8:26am On Dec 25, 2014 |
sexyseun: He is a bad ass, and women luv bad ass to cool ass like us. It's just a bonus she's got the badest. Sorry my sister. U either bear or quit. I am looking forward to killing the sentiment that is killing me so I can start treating women this way and stop been treated like a rag. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Nobody: 9:06am On Dec 25, 2014 |
Op, were you not aware of his smoking and drinking habits before you started dating him? You can't change that, so Just forget it! Talk to him about the front seat car thing or forever remain silent! Or just walk out of the relationship! Why complain when you can be free? |
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