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Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Chillis: 1:46pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
moca: I don kia about the handle. If I breeze in here, and I notice say them ban the moniker, I open another one. No time to beg alusi okija. Coogar is always fighting and cussung yet they dont ban him. I'm suspecting he is the one that ban people sef |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bukatyne(f): 1:47pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Chillis: @first bold: It is important so efforts are not wasted chasing the wind @second bold: I wonder also. |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by coogar: 1:51pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Chillis: buhahahaha my prayers are answered - chillisauce's ban is a way of ensuring peace & harmony in this community. |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Nobody: 1:52pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Chillis: I know one that is going for a PHD but has no intention of working because her husband won't have a working wife, some are in dire situation and really can't figure a way out. Guess they signed up for it, he won't even let her have a little business by the side. |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bukatyne(f): 1:53pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bellong: LOL @ capital and liability @Politics... I nor get strength! I played a little in school which was an eye opener... Somehow some people's thinking just stops there. I don't know if politics suddenly closes their minds... It comes a terrible struggle to do what is right. I actually prayed for my office more than my academics sef. I edited and edited my manifesto so that I do not promise what I cannot deliver. If I am appointed into a position and I see I can make an impact there (not all these shut up positions), I will go for it and my integrity starts to be messed up, biko, I am so bailing out. There are other ways to make impact You are going into politics? |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bellong: 1:54pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Stillfire: Should we rather not blame ladies who accept and believe these claims/notions? If I say you are ugly, will you believe me or thrash the statement? Those with such notions are not as many or much compared to those who believe women should and must contribute to developing a working society. |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bukatyne(f): 1:55pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
byvan: Is it not going to be more frustrating for her? Like smelling meat you can't eat? Did she know his stance pre-marriage? |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Stillfire: 1:56pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
byvan: Bellong this is what I'm talking about. |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bellong: 1:57pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bukatyne: I understand your position about not wanting to dent your integrity. Yes, I will delve into politics when the time comes. Its high time we taught Nigerians what good governance, rule of law and transparency are. |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Chillis: 1:57pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
byvan: PhD for mouth. When her counterparts are talking and doing, she is memorizing in the kitchen. She better get something doing even if it's part time. I will understand if the kids are still young. When kids are in school , what will she be doing ? Na dem dey first answer doc Mrs okujagu. Just like Nigerian mechanics like the title engr |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bellong: 2:00pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Stillfire: I am interested in their agreement prior to the marriage. We can't crucify the husband if he already told her during courtship and she agreed to it. It is why I will not blame the husband but the lady who agreed to marrying him and crying foul later. Nevertheless, she can use her advanced studies in discovering or inventing how chores can further be simplified in the kitchen. Positives can always come from negativity... |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bukatyne(f): 2:00pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bellong: Happy delving Remember your sister in the Lord when the time cometh My former Sunday school teacher had the same discussion with me some weeks back Who knows, when you guys get there, we will follow |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Nobody: 2:01pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
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Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Chillis: 2:02pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
coogar: You know I don't break rules . I don't look for trouble too. I stay in my lane. Btw where is pickabeau, I read a thread here that his girlfriend said we should tell him she loves him. No wonder he has changed. Since he started charity work, he has got some free cochie offline. I suspect it was pickabeau. 2 Likes |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Nobody: 2:02pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bukatyne: She doesn't but the dude obviously knows she is very pliable, she is serving the house 'wifeship' like a jail term and the fact that he refused her having a little business, even if she has to get a manager for it and still stay home is what I don't get. I completely took my hands off her matter and just say " nah so now " when ever she starts telling me stories that touch . |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bellong: 2:03pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bukatyne: Can't forget a pseudo-feminist You will help educate women on how they can contribute meaningfully to development and growth without peruvian hairs... |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Chillis: 2:03pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bukatyne: I learnt the hard way . I'm very straight forward . I tell you the first time, you take another route, I leave you to it. You can't help someone that doesn't wanna be helped |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bukatyne(f): 2:04pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: How can women be there when they were making foolish customs and still be called 'strong' women? 1 Like |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Nobody: 2:06pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Chillis: There really is no hope for her till God changes her husband's mind, she falls into the category of those that did rather die than not be a wife, her matter tire me and I no dey put mouth before dey carry me do make up sex. |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Stillfire: 2:06pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bellong: I do o. However many women have been domesticated to believe such about themselves. You would agree with me that when people have been mentally enslaved for long they tend to believe what they shouldn't. |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bukatyne(f): 2:08pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bellong: LOL @ pseudo-feminist I have been called several things on this forum: old, bitter, married, single, divorced, jobless, mean etc. someone even called me an anti-feminist because I did not support men taking care of their divorced wives Now the reigning is pseudo-feminist (pf for short) or fake because I say men are the head of their homes. I don't wear human hair... I feel it is wrong. The head is the carrier of one's glory; how can you put someone else's hair on your head Tufiakwa! |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bellong: 2:12pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Stillfire: This is the point where their parents can be blamed for raising weaklings and wind like beings. One of the reasons I advocate a strong and stable families in building a great and working society because families make up the society. A home where the husband and wife understand their respective roles in bringing up their children as well as maintaining healthy family institution will churn out children that will not be rejects of the society or tormentors of anything progressive. First step is, if you plan to marry, you should strive to marry a man with good head on his neck or else..... |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Stillfire: 2:14pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bellong: You do have a point. Lol @ the last statement. |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bellong: 2:15pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bukatyne: You have been called several names? I called you a Pseudo-Feminist because I read a thread you created for and about feminists... The name is from you. Have you seen a documentary on how Indian hairs are donated to temples before being sold by the priests? |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Nobody: 2:16pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bukatyne(f): 2:17pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Chillis: You even become frustrated when investments are not yielding results |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Stillfire: 2:19pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bellong: Do you think respective roles may differ from home to home in today's world and may not be set in stone as it were in the past? |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bukatyne(f): 2:19pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bellong: Read again... No be me call myself pseudo anything Hair that they have probably chanted on. It is well (it gives me the creeps). I imagine Mrs. Bellong cutting her hair and I fix it after treatment |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bukatyne(f): 2:24pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: I know there were strong women as individuals e.g. Moremi, Amina, Efunsetan etc. As for collective strength, I honestly don't know Well we have the Aba women riot... These whites also came from the same place. In times of old, the women actually had to pay dowry to the husbands, did not work, did not vote, etc. etc. before they went back to the drawing board and changed things. Our traditional religion is ... |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by bukatyne(f): 2:28pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
byvan: You certainly do not want to be termed a 'home breaker' All I know is a frustrated wife is not the best for the kids/home.... Results are not achieved |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Nobody: 2:35pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Re: Women In The Development Of Nigeria Since Pre-colonial Times by Nobody: 2:40pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
bukatyne: She probably might not be frustrated, some had no dreams. |
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