its 2years now and am still waiting

we have had the chemistry, we just made it official after sex.

Well, to be candid, i didnt wait for a YES from her, she did really wait for the YES from me. I didn't hesitate to give her a response cox i've "RISEN-IN-LOVE"(i didnt fall-in-love<cox once u have fallen, u may not rise again, so i rise-in-love which is way better than fallen>, cox "fallen" is not the real love but "risen", u fall in love, she will be the only one standing, but when you are "up" together, you both stand and walk together) with her before she did, am just the shy type(but that isn't a problem for me though )

True talk bro, but guys dat wait up to a week for a girl to accept dem are funny oh! when she is nt melannie iglesisias after 2days of nt replying den na 2 forget everything and behave like nothing happened

We are happily married for 2yrs now, yet I haven't got a yesssss!

I actually have one on my hands now... sincerely, I dont have a date/girlfriend now, but considering 2 ladies, the one has everything that should make me stay, but she dey form "wise girl" for me...dey friendzone me, na so i dey dey play mumu dey go and the other one, she's ok and very good, guess that's the one i will go with

Maybe 3weeks...wait let me ask her

seedsower:
We are happily married for 2yrs now, yet I haven't got a yesssss!

I never ask! Seduce first, sleep with her and wait for to ask so what are we now?

dovelike:
There has to be a spark.

You mean like an Electric shock or what? Must you be "Sparked/Lighted" before accepting? It's only Motorcycle and Vehicle i know need a "SPARK" before getting to work.

I like it cool n a bit easy.

Ayam still waiting oh

She still dey demo … pls advice

As soon as I promised to buy her a Brazilian Hair!!

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The highest i can wait is just a month. After that, i carry on, afterall na u go enjoy pass me.

Went out with my wife for 11 months before we got married,can't honestly remember if i even asked her to marry me.I knew she was my wife...for me to date 11months was a record.And honestly before that i don't ask ladies out,we just flow.

If she truly loves u she wuld say yes on the spot.

There was this gal I liked, wen I asked her, she said let her think about it, 2months later, no news from her so I officially withdrew the proposal and set myself free.

1 month

4mnths and still counting

All those awaiting replies,I'l lose interest when she says lemme think about it especially wen its a day after

Went out with my wife for 11 months before we got married,can't honestly remember if i even asked her to marry me.I knew she was my wife...for me to date 11 months was a record.

J0nyb0y:
its 2years now and am still waiting

you will wait till Nigeria become world power

Mehn...me self no fit wait Mehn... max is 1week!

dovelike:
There has to be a spark.

Spark kor ignition ni

dechandel:
Awww
I cant wait to see your wedding pictures

see dis one!! girls and wedding ehn, i taya oo!!!
baby pls take it easy

Ao I wish I wz d first man on earth. Adam didn't wooed Eve..



Heaven knw say I hate stress

dovelike:
There has to be a spark.

Spark ko blow ni. Abeg cari dat evil criteria comot form my front jare

Olutola88:
It is a popular belief amongst women that a Lady needs to give a guy a tough time before she dances to his beats. They claim such delay tactics is healthy as it will make the guy cherish her more. They also claim that the guy would appreciate better something he sweats to get.

Sincerely speaking, this their ideology is absolute trash to me. I don't have that time to be chasing a lady for 12 months, after all she isn't my “dream”.

I get easily discouraged when it comes to convincing a lady to be mine, maybe because I don't feel a lady is doing me a favour by accepting to be mine. Come to think it, “Is she doing me any favour”? Don't even talk about sex cos it's very cheap and I can get it without dating. More so, she won't be doing me any good because she might even enjoy it more ( I always put my partner's satisfaction first).

I get sick and tired when a lady gives me unnecessary tough time. In fact, most of them call me “Egotistical”. They think I'm proud because my orientation is different from that of most guys they've met. They feel I'm cocky because they don't know my background, they have no idea about my journey so far.

I've had just 3 Girlfriends all my life. The first, I didn't woo her. The second gave me a YES after 24hours and the third which was the most tasking accepted to be mine after 4days of declaring interest. Guess what? I had the shortest relationship with the one that gave me the toughest time, it lasted just 2 months.

I've been single since December 2012 mainly because I don't have that strength to keep pushing and pushing. Most of them tell me that I'm spoilt and that I don't even know how to woo *lmao*. They claim I'm always too casual when wooing them, they say I don't show sign of seriousness, they conclude I always feel I shouldn't work too hard to get them. Do they want me to kill cow to show my seriousness? Nevertheless, I feel I've not just met that person that'll make me break the rules, that one person that'll make my heart do giz giz, that person that'll have my “mumu button” *lol*.

You know the funniest thing? The ones you don't wanna date are the ones always stalking and readily available. As a good guy, you don't wanna woo dem, use dem and dump them. So, nigga just keeps it at the Friends With Benefits level. When you get tired of the FWB life and seek love again, you'll meet one girl that'll be giving you unnecessary tough time and you'll be like... “WTF! Some girls are praying I upgrade their status from FWB to official Girlfriend and this one is here forming one rubbish! Go To Hell jooor” *LMAO*

My Questions:

1. How long did you wait before she gave you a YES

2. How long can you wait to get a YES?

3. Ladies, wetin be una problem? Is giving a guy a tough time a guarantee he will treat you right?

4. Ladies, why must we chase you people like we chase money before you say YES? I think the love thing should be mutual na? Must you stress the hell outta our lives?

na wa o. Dude, you sound pissed o. Calm down small now; e never reach this level.

I ve not waited for a day, if i don't get a yes that minute just forget abt the whole issue (tho i don't go after any girl i see, we must have been friends)

My hubby proposed to me and I told him I'll think about it. I was still thinking about it but has finished my wedding both traditional and white wedding and has stopped giving birth as well Whenever I remember this, I'll start laughing