I need your advice, I have been going out with a girl for over 3yrs, d 2families knew each other well. my Mom do visit a parents. But she is pregnant now bt obviously not for me because she have been seeing her ex boyfriend regular because they stay in d same town.
within me I'm no more interested and I don't know how to tell her mom because she had been so nice to me both in kind and generosity. Right now I'm so confused, she has always be cheating on me, in which she will confess . But now I'm so fed up.
pls I need ur advice how do I take d mater up

The question is did u do it?

Answer these three questions first.

1. Do you have sex with her?

2. Is her mother fully aware of the nature of your relationship?

3. Who did your fiancee say is responsible for the pregnancy?

Chazzyboy:
The question is did u do it?

a yes or no answer,hahahaha

nedu2000:
a yes or no answer,hahahaha

That's it

Get her to own up on who is responsible for the pregnancy.Also get her to inform her parents.
I hope you know you could be responsible for the pregnancy so don't make hasty decisions yet.

BRos, I understand your situation. I will tell you a bitter truth, just draw close. Firstly, your intended marriage, if you go ahead with it, will be to please both parents and not the "marriager and the marriagee" lol. On a serious note, be a man and decide on what you want. A girl that cheats on you to this level isn't your wife. Such marriage will definitely hit the rock and your parents will someday be tired of settling your differences. Now listen bro, a man doesn't need permission from anyone before he takes a critical decision such as this. Go out there and search for your God-reserved wife. After the food and dance on a wedding reception, only the couple taste the bitter taste of marriage and neither the parents nor the drunk guests. However, my submission is subject to review until I hear you are not the "impregnanter" of the belle

DesChyko:
Answer these three questions first.

1. Do you have sex with her?

2. Is her mother fully aware of the nature of your relationship?

3. Who did your fiancee say is responsible for the pregnancy?

Yes I had sex with her.
yes her family and mine are aware of d relationship, Even we are planning introduction at Jan ending
She is claiming I'm responsible

If she is your fiancee how come you knew and let her continue cheating on you?Now you said she's pregnant,did she confess to you that you are not the father?Now you are saying her mother has been good to you,therefore you do not want to hurt her knowing fully well that you are the one hurting.Who are you trying to please,your fiancée parents or yourself?My brother all I will say to you is think twice,don't get confused and do the right thing.

thorpido:
Get her to own up on who is responsible for the pregnancy.Also get her to inform her parents.
I hope you know you could be responsible for the pregnancy so don't make hasty decisions yet.

Her mom is aware of d pregnancy, even sent her to hospital for test and status of d foetus

lasheez:
If she is your fiancee how come you knew and let her continue cheating on you?Now you said she's pregnant,did she confess to you that you are not the father?Now you are saying her mother has been good to you,therefore you do not want to hurt her knowing fully well that you are the one hurting.Who are you trying to please,your fiancée parents or yourself?My brother all I will say to you is think twice,don't get confused and do the right thing.

You spoke well, exactly wats happening. Bt don't know wat to do now

If you are sure the pregnancy does not belong to you, then you should have no problem opening up to her (your fiancée) that you are no longer interested in her. About her mother, you can go there asnd tell her that due to this reason of her daughter's pregnancy, you cannot continue with the marriage plan. I want you to tell your fiancée that she should go and marry whoever got he pregnant. If you go ahead to marr her despite the pregnancy, you have given her license to continue cheating on you.

iseleiyanu:
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She is claiming I'm responsible.

Then, it will never be easy for you to come out of this relationship without a bad name if you choose to leave her.

IdiAmin1:
BRos, I understand your situation. I will tell you a bitter truth, just draw close. Firstly, your intended marriage, if you go ahead with it, will be to please both parents and not the "marriager and the marriagee" lol. On a serious note, be a man and decide on what you want. A girl that cheats on you to this level isn't your wife. Such marriage will definitely hit the rock and your parents will someday be tired of settling your differences. Now listen bro, a man doesn't need permission from anyone before he takes a critical decision such as this. Go out there and search for your God-reserved wife. After the food and dance on a wedding reception, only the couple taste the bitter taste of marriage and neither the parents nor the drunk guests. However, my submission is subject to review until I hear you are not the "impregnanter" of the belle

This same issue happened to my cousin,now his marriage has crashed, he was telling me his failure of taking action that time, as if he knew wat is happening to me.

boxer022:
If you are sure the pregnancy does not belong to you, then you should have no problem opening up to her (your fiancée) that you are no longer interested in her. About her mother, you can go there asnd tell her that due to this reason of her daughter's pregnancy, you cannot continue with the marriage plan. I want you to tell your fiancée that she should go and marry whoever got he pregnant. If you go ahead to marr her despite the pregnancy, you have given her license to continue cheating on you.

That's obviously my plan.

Fiancee means somebody you're engaged to. It means you're about to get married.

How on earth would you marry somebody that is cheating on you and not carrying your baby? You better start thinking with your brain and not your sexual organ.

u are a bigggg pvssy, drive the girl awt let her sort her self out or did she use charm to tie u down?? goat

Hey Mr lover u don't need 2 b advice b4 u dump d Idiot..

brb

iseleiyanu:
I need your advice, I have been going out with a girl for over 3yrs, d 2families knew each other well. my Mom do visit a parents. But she is pregnant now bt obviously not for me because she have been seeing her ex boyfriend regular because they stay in d same town.
within me I'm no more interested and I don't know how to tell her mom because she had been so nice to me both in kind and generosity. Right now I'm so confused, she has always be cheating on me, in which she will confess . But now I'm so fed up.
pls I need ur advice how do I take d mater up

If she is pregnant for her ex...you may want to say bye bye to the relationship.

If she is pregnant for you....then better marry her.

Come to think of it....if she has been unfaithful to you all this while....why are you still with her?

Don't worry tell her you have HIV and see wghat will happen.

Tell her mom joor

ki lo duro de? Leave her! Dump her!

iseleiyanu:


This same issue happened to my cousin,now his marriage has crashed, he was telling me his failure of taking action that time, as if he knew wat is happening to me.

Take your time bro and most importantly ask God for direction. Its better to be a "Married late" than "Another used to be married"

This one is strong

iseleiyanu:


Yes I had sex with her.
yes her family and mine are aware of d relationship, Even we are planning introduction at Jan ending
She is claiming I'm responsible

Then it is most likely you are....better man up and take responsibility.

Or tell her parents....get a meeting on....to confront her to tell the truth.

p.s-do you have any evidence she has been seeing her ex? Just because they live in the same town does not mean that they are still seeing each other.

iseleiyanu:
I need your advice, I have been going out with a girl for over 3yrs, d 2families knew each other well. my Mom do visit a parents. But she is pregnant now bt obviously not for me because she have been seeing her ex boyfriend regular because they stay in d same town.
within me I'm no more interested and I don't know how to tell her mom because she had been so nice to me both in kind and generosity. Right now I'm so confused, she has always be cheating on me, in which she will confess . But now I'm so fed up.
pls I need ur advice how do I take d mater up

learn from Joseph..
u can as well father the child..
but since u logged in.. u have sinned.

THE ANTICHRIST..

Why bite what you won't chew?