We are in love but we are both AS. We know it won't work but we don't know how to stay apart. My dad just echoed it to me that it will never work. How can we stay away and still have an understanding

Just say it the way it should be said. You didn't choose you father/mother but will choose the father/mother of your children. You better make the choice worthwhile.

Do the following:
1. stop se.x
2. stop kissing
3. avoid long calls
4. avoid sexy look/glance
5. stay with people (in company)
6. pray
7. get a councillor or a confidant
8. tell him/her to find another person
9. be supportive when s/he does 8
or
10. Marry him/her and dam the consequences.

U can still keep in touch wit each other but that will only be on a mutual ground of friendship which should best be knwn to u both..

Dnt think of taking d huge risk of "A MIRACLE WILL HAPPEN" cos its even clear to Miracle itself that "AS" cannot be equally happy with "AS".... @OP, pls listen to ur dad on dis one. cos if u really claim to love her, i"m sure u"ll want her happy.