This is for the extremely matured mind only..

A new year has rolled around again and it's time to re-examine our lives and find ways to improve ourselves, over the past festive season we are constantly reminded of the fact that the most important thing in life is love, so surely the best new year's resolution we can make is to improve our relationships. Here are 8 ways to make your relationships even better than they were last year.


FORGIVE
Relationships are tough and someone at some point would have been hurt within your relationship. If that person were you, have you forgiven the other for hurting you? If not, then it's time to ask yourself why.

Was the thing they did too hurtful? Is the deed too unforgivable? If it is, then you need to end the relationship and move on. Yet if you can forgive them, work hard to get over the hurt and then, once you are ready and able, do not hold the other person to blame, especially during arguments.

BE A YES PERSON
How many times did you go out for after-work drinks last year? How many parties did you go attend? If your schedule has fewer engagement than your grandma's. You need to change your attitude and become a yes person. Saying yes to social events will mean that you have more chance of meeting some-one you like. Remember, you can't meet the one whilst sitting at home and watching a bad sit-com and eating a take away, my friend get out there!

NEW TRADITION
If you want a love life resolution to make for the new year, you should definitely start a new tradition as a couple. Traditions unites people and will give you something to look forward to as a couple, your tradition could be anything, from going on a trip to somewhere you both love, to reading of papers whilst eating hot dogs and chips mix with tomato ketchup on a sunday morning

KEEP MOVING
When you have been together for a long time, it can be easy to go into a relationship rut. If you think you are both in a relationship stalemate make this year's new year's resolution all about moving forward.
You should aim to grow your relationship at a speed you are both happy with in terms of commitment, trust and lifestyle. For example are you guys going to be ready to meet one another's parents or move in together this year? Don't force your progression through; just think about where you would like your relationship to be in 12 months time.

INDEPENDENT
To improve your love life this new year get some independence. Sometime through changes in your life you might find out that you have become a little too dependent on your other half and this is not healthy and will cause unnecessary pressure and strain on your relationship. To get some independence without sabotaging your closeness as a couple, get some interests outside of one another. You could volunteer, join a team or start a new, solo project (abeg just go find work)

BE KINDER
When you have been together for a long time it can be easy to take one another for granted. When this happens you might found out that you are less loving towards one another and that you both tend to snap or bicker over silly things.
If this sound familiar the next time you thing you are about to be negative, take a deep breath, pause and ask yourself, what good will come out of behaving like this? Being a little kinder to one another is one of the best love life resolutions you can make, but it's also one of the hardest to achieve.

GET OVER THEM
When a relationship with someone you love ends, it can be hard to come to term with. Although you are allowed to grieve for your ex and miss them, there comes a time when you need to accept that things didn't work out and move on. This year make it your love life resolution to face the feelings you have for your ex and make steps to get over them once and for all.

GOD FACTOR
Be sure to include God in all you relationship because when you includes in...you are sure to be guided and directed to avoid future heartbreak.


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Happy new year!!!

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