She's a month pregnant for her late boyfriend who died a week to Xmas and d boyfriend wasnt aware neither was she. She didnt see her flow n test confirmed it.

Now she is confused. Her boyfriend family arent yet aware of d pregnancy and though her mother n older brother are against abortion, so they told her.

She's an auxiliary nurse n got just O'level cert wit intent to further her education n sees her present state as a setback.
She also was diagnosed of having "OVARIAN CYST". Doctor said one ovary need be removed.

Pls kindly advice on what to do.. An idea on ovarian cyst medication be great without surgery.

God bless you as i wait to read ur useful comments. Thanks

Please let her keep the baby. It may be a setback to the furtherance of her education, but it certainly isn't an end.

Let her inform the boy's family too, they may find solace in the baby, as they should be grief stricken.

Things will be tough but she will find joy in knowing she made the right decision.

If u Love her ..Love the baby ..Claim tz ur own ...nd u live a Happi Life wif her

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ovarian cyst hw old is she plz? well i hope d operation doesn't affect d baby. she should keep d baby cos its d only memory she has of fiance.


all d best & quick recovery

Ovarian cyst doesnt have to come out immediately. If her doctor adviced her thst it has to come out then why question that advice? It may be cancerous which is why they ssid to remove it. She can deal with that after the baby is born. If she were smart, she would announce the pregnancy now before people call her a liar. Or get the abortion and wonder if she would be able to have kids if her ovary is removed

Sometimes, setbacks are like catapults, you pull hard behind to gather momentum before letting go.

I'd rather she keep it... He/she might discover the permanent solution to aids, cancer or ebola.

Since her mum is against her aborting the baby I suggest it's Ok to give birth. she can be rest assured that her fiance family will see the baby as their dead son. At least the guy now has a future generation tru her.

Abortion is an option in unwanted pregnancies, urs wasn't unwanted, so abortion is not an option.

apparentlylaw:
If u Love her ..Love the baby ..Claim tz ur own ...nd u live a Happi Life wif her

Bros am not dating her.. shes only confiding in me as a good friend to advice her.

thanks anyways

mirexxx:
ovarian cyst hw old is she plz? well i hope d operation doesn't affect d baby. she should keep d baby cos its d only memory she has of fiance.


all d best & quick recovery

She is 25.

thanks for ur opinion. i find it useful.

emmyrichie:
Sometimes, setbacks are like catapults, you pull hard behind to gather momentum before letting go.

I'd rather she keep it... He/she might discover the permanent solution to aids, cancer or ebola.

thanks man.. U ve spoken wisely. God bless u

Afrok:
Abortion is an option in unwanted pregnancies, urs wasn't unwanted, so abortion is not an option.

thanks deacon

25omega:
Ovarian cyst doesnt have to come out immediately. If her doctor adviced her thst it has to come out then why question that advice? It may be cancerous which is why they ssid to remove it. She can deal with that after the baby is born. If she were smart, she would announce the pregnancy now before people call her a liar. Or get the abortion and wonder if she would be able to have kids if her ovary is removed

thanks for ur wonderful comment. since d death of her man which came as a shock to her n which she also witnessed live at d hospital, she hardly eat, all she does is stay quiet thinking. both were suppose to be married dis year.

she complained of pain being caused by d cyst. from my findings, removal of an ovary dont cause infertility but prevents some.form of cancer. d pain felt is d reason doctor adviced removal. at dawn i will meet her n advice her to see d boys parent b4 dark along aide her mom n brother.

thanks.

classicB:
Since her mum is against her aborting the baby I suggest it's Ok to give birth. she can be rest assured that her fiance family will see the baby as their dead son. At least the guy now has a future generation tru her.

thanks

saintruky:



Bros am not dating her.. shes only confiding in me as a good friend to advice her.

thanks anyways

aiit ..Unless dat buh seemz u ve feelinz for her ryt

classicB:
Since her mum is against her aborting the baby I suggest it's Ok to give birth. she can be rest assured that her fiance family will see the baby as their dead son. At least the guy now has a future generation tru her.

thank you

apparentlylaw:
aiit ..Unless dat buh seemz u ve feelinz for her ryt

Nope. we too close to date. friendship best than dating.

Pls pls pls.. abortion is nt an option..
No one can create life, so no one is allowed to tak it away..

She shud tel d guy's parents as well as siblings..
God will mak her rejoice again...

Last bullet.. lady's shud stop getting pregnant for guys b4 marriage.. no reason is reasonable..

saintruky:


thanks deacon

My pleasure Elder

Just pray dat God will see her tru in dis her predicament

chingydaboss:
Pls pls pls.. abortion is nt an option..
No one can create life, so no one is allowed to tak it away..

She shud tel d guy's parents as well as siblings..
God will mak her rejoice again...

Last bullet.. lady's shud stop getting pregnant for guys b4 marriage.. no reason is reasonable..

thanks bros.

these days guyz avoid use of gold circle n so d babes dunno wheb d thing dey enter.

moreso guyz do tell babes to get pregnant 1st b4 talking marriage. nobody wan marry risk 7yrs wit no child. dat wats trending now.

Dat was y I said no reason is reasonable.. D child cud die nd d woman cud b childless after d first issue.. only God knows tomorw..dat is why we need to follow him in order for him to direct our paths..

saintruky:


thanks bros.

these days guyz avoid use of gold circle n so d babes dunno wheb d thing dey enter.

moreso guyz do tell babes to get pregnant 1st b4 talking marriage. nobody wan marry risk 7yrs wit no child. dat wats trending now.

chingydaboss:
Dat was y I said no reason is reasonable.. D child cud die nd d woman cud b childless after d first issue.. only God knows tomorw..dat is why we need to follow him in order for him to direct our paths..

True talk. sadly these days men of God dont preach salvation. sermon now is all about d pathway to wealth. maybe jwit is d only option to salvation sermon.

Hey fam compliments of d season. I'm sorry it took dis to let out d good news.

She's been delivered of a very cute bouncing baby boy. Baby is now 4 months old. I carried him while composing dis n was seriously dragging d fone wit me lol.

All thanks to ur wonderful advise.

Happy new year!!!!

Pls dont abort the baby because if you do, you will live to regret it in life. That unborn baby is precious and special, even your late boyfriend will keep asking in anywhere he is

Glory to God. This is great news!! Hugs to baby and greetings to young mummy.

saintruky:
Hey fam compliments of d season. I'm sorry it took dis to let out d good news.

She's been delivered of a very cute bouncing baby boy. Baby is now 4 months old. I carried him while composing dis n was seriously dragging d fone wit me lol.

All thanks to ur wonderful advise.

Happy new year!!!!

hmmm

Morally and spiritually/ religiously she is meant to keep the pregnancy.
The pregnancy is all part of the results of her actions and that of the guy so she has to live with it.

On the other hand, keeping the pregnancy may see her life flashing before her own eyes if she is not strong willed like Genevieve. As per marriage, Genevieve is not even married.

If she also aborts, perhaps that would be her last chance at getting pregnant.

So the ball is in her court... Make a choice and bear the consequences.

nmreports:
Morally and spiritually/ religiously she is meant to keep the pregnancy.
The pregnancy is all part of the results of her actions and that of the guy so she has to live with it.

On the other hand, keeping the pregnancy may see her life flashing before her own eyes if she is not strong willed like Genevieve. As per marriage, Genevieve is not even married.

If she also aborts, perhaps that would be her last chance at getting pregnant.

So the ball is in her court... Make a choice and bear the consequences.

U skipped the below comment from the OP

saintruky:
Hey fam compliments of d season. I'm sorry it took dis to let out d good news.
She's been delivered of a very cute bouncing baby boy. Baby is now 4 months old. I carried him while composing dis n was seriously dragging d fone wit me lol.
All thanks to ur wonderful advise.
Happy new year!!!!

She should inform d guys family and knw their reactions maybe it may ease their grief,even if they dnt wnt the child she should keep it,nobody knows tomorrow,removing he ovary might prevent her from conceiving in future although am not praying for that
Goodluck dear.

Creamish:


U skipped the below comment from the OP

Thank you Creamish. How are you?